Let’s talk about anal penetration with a strap-on! History, meaning and context around a popular and hot-button activity, enjoyed by people of all genders and orientations and identities. The Pegging Book co-author joins me to talk about butt stuff.

3:00 why write this book

7:00 Marquis de Sade was a revolutionary sicko 

11:00 Luna Matatas coined “peg the patriarchy”

15:00 queer opposition 

19:00 Mistress may I suck your c*ck?

23:00 clean butt tips

27:00 silicone lube tricks

31:00 consensual injury desire?

35:00 no coercion plz

40:00 how else should I prep?

42:00 black nitrile gloves rule

46:00 back up on it instead 

52:00 Carol Queen and Bend Over Boyfriend 

55:00 toolshedtoys.com

58:00 communication and lubrication 

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