On this school holiday edition of The Pooch Podcast, my 6 year old Luna tells it like it is! - contains SWEARING!

What does a 6-year-old think makes a good mum

In this episode of The Pooch Podcast, I sit down with my daughter for the sweetest, most wholesome chat about motherhood straight from a child’s perspective. And honestly it is not what you think.

We talk about the little things that matter most to kids, the unexpected answers she gives, and the simple moments that define good mum life in her world. Spoiler it is not the clean house, the routines, or doing everything perfectly.

This is a light hearted, feel good episode filled with funny, honest and heart melting moments that will make you laugh, reflect and probably rethink the pressure you put on yourself as a mum.

If you have been stuck in mum guilt, overthinking whether you are doing enough, or trying to be the perfect mum this episode is your reminder that your kids see you very differently.

And maybe you are already exactly what they need.

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After watching the Inside the Manosphere documentary I couldn’t stop thinking about one thing… my son is growing up in this world.

This episode is a real and honest conversation about what it feels like to raise a boy in a time where the internet is shaping what masculinity looks like. There is a whole corner of the internet telling boys what makes them valuable, how women work, what they are owed, and how to be a man. And the scary part is… it is working.

I talk about the messages boys are being fed about men versus women, high value men, dominance, rejection, and entitlement. Not from a place of blaming boys, but from a place of understanding what they are being exposed to every single day.

As a mum, this hits differently. Because I cannot control what my son will see. But I can control what feels true to him.

In this episode I share what I am consciously doing to raise a son who does not need the manosphere to tell him who he is. A boy who understands his worth, respects women as people, can handle rejection, and does not feel like he has to prove himself through dominance or control.

This is not about raising perfect boys.

This is about raising boys who can think for themselves.

If you are raising a son, or even just thinking about the kind of men this generation is becoming, this conversation matters.

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If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right as a mum and still somehow failing, this episode is for you.

Today we’re talking about how the patriarchy sets mums up to fail, from the invisible mental load to impossible expectations and the constant pressure to be everything to everyone. Because the truth is, it’s not that mums aren’t coping, it’s that the system was never built to support us in the first place.

In this honest and relatable chat, I unpack why modern motherhood feels so overwhelming, the pressure to be a “perfect mum” while also working and managing a home, the mental load mums carry every single day, and why mum guilt is so common and not actually your fault. We also dive into how society benefits from unpaid motherhood labour and why so many mums feel like they’re falling short.

If you’ve ever thought “why is this so hard?” or “why can’t I keep up?” you are not alone, and more importantly, you are not the problem.

This is a real and unfiltered conversation about motherhood, identity, pressure, and the expectations placed on women today.

Whether you're a stay at home mum, a working mum, or somewhere in between, this episode will make you feel seen.

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Welcome to your Friday night dinner with the girls. The one with kids and all.

Its easy, we are not here for elaborate. We are here for a good glass of wine, some easy food, all hands in.

Ill hold the baby while you dress the salad. Ill chop up toddler snacks while you order the pizza.

This is our time. Let's talk, let's cry, let's change it all.

On this episode we talk about why we grieve our pre-baby selves and how creativity can help us find out selves again.

Becoming a mum changes everything but what happens when you start feeling like you’ve lost yourself in motherhood?

In this episode of The Pooch Podcast I’m talking honestly about something many mums feel but rarely say out loud. The quiet grief of your pre baby life and the identity shift that comes with becoming a mother.

So many women say “I lost myself after having kids.”

But is that really what happens?

In this conversation we unpack the deeper truth behind the motherhood identity crisis. Why so many mums feel disconnected from who they used to be, why we grieve parts of our old life and how we can start finding ourselves again after kids.

Because maybe we didn’t actually lose ourselves.

Maybe we just lost the space to keep becoming who we were becoming.

In this episode we talk about

Why mums often feel like they’ve lost their identity after kids

The parts of our pre baby life we secretly grieve

Why motherhood can make you feel unfamiliar to yourself

The identity shift no one prepares you for

What actually makes us feel like ourselves again

Why creativity, autonomy and expression matter so much for mums

How to start rebuilding your sense of self after children

If you’ve ever thought

“I love being a mum but I miss who I used to be”

This episode is for you.

Motherhood changes us but it doesn’t mean the woman you were before is gone. She might just be evolving into something new.

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If this conversation resonated with you don’t forget to subscribe, like and share with another mum who might need to hear this.

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Feeling disconnected in mothers groups does not mean something is wrong with you.

In this episode, I explore the tension between believing in the importance of the village and struggling to feel at home in traditional mothers groups and mums and bubs classes.

We unpack

Identity loss and identity shifts in early motherhood

Postpartum loneliness and modern mum life

Why proximity does not always create real connection

How nervous system safety impacts social experiences

The difference between structured support and organic community

Creating a village that supports the whole woman, not just the mother

For many women, mothers groups are essential and deeply supportive. For others, they can feel overwhelming, performative, or limiting. Both experiences are valid.

If you are navigating postpartum, craving deeper mum friendships, questioning where you belong, or redefining what support looks like in modern motherhood, this episode is for you.

You are allowed to want meaningful connection.

You are allowed to protect your identity.

You are allowed to build a village that reflects who you truly are.

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We cannot self care our way out of a broken system… but we also cannot afford not to.

In this episode, I unpack the viral idea that encouraging mums to practice self care is just a bandaid solution to motherhood in the patriarchy. I explore why burnout is not a personal failure, why so many women feel they lose their identity after becoming mothers, and how societal conditioning keeps mums stuck at the very bottom of their own hierarchy of needs.

I share my honest thoughts on:

– Why self care can feel like just another expectation

– How productivity culture has hijacked the concept of self love

– Why asking permission to meet your needs keeps you in survival mode

– The power of stopping asking

– The importance of intentionally dropping the ball

– Why mums must come first in their own households

This is not about bubble baths.

This is about autonomy.

This is about reclaiming your nervous system, your identity, and your worth.

If you have ever felt burnt out, invisible, resentful, or like you are shrinking inside motherhood, this episode is for you.

You deserve to be number one. Not in a cute way. In a fundamental, biological, human needs way.

Let the laundry sit.

Go fill your cup.

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Why am I scared to have another baby?

In this deeply personal episode, I share the fears I have around growing our family and why the decision feels heavier than I expected. From postpartum body image struggles and identity loss to mental health concerns, sleep deprivation, and the emotional toll of motherhood, I unpack what is really sitting underneath the surface.

Three years after my last baby, I am still navigating the changes motherhood brought to my body, my mind, and my sense of self. The thought of going back to newborn life brings up fear, guilt, grief, and confusion. I know I am not the only mum who feels this tension between wanting another baby and wanting to protect the version of herself she has fought hard to rebuild.

If you are wrestling with the decision to have another child, feeling overwhelmed by mum life, or questioning how much more you can give without losing yourself again, this episode will remind you that your fears are valid and you are not alone.

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Why do so many new mums feel like they’ve lost themselves after having a baby? In this episode, we’re talking openly about identity loss in motherhood, postpartum identity loss, and why so many women experience a deep motherhood identity crisis after becoming a mum.

For many women, becoming a mother brings an unexpected loss of self after baby. You might find yourself asking, who am I after becoming a mum? or wondering why you feel disconnected, invisible, or lost in this season. This episode explores why new mum identity shifts so dramatically, and why losing yourself after having a baby is not a personal failure, but a normal part of matrescence.

We talk about how identity change after becoming a mother is closely linked to the loss of time, autonomy, and social connection. When women feel invisible as a mum, experience loneliness in motherhood, or struggle with the mental load and invisible labour of mothers, their sense of self can quietly erode. This is why so many women describe motherhood and sense of self as one of the hardest postpartum emotional changes.

In this conversation, we unpack:

• Why new mums feel lost
• Why motherhood can trigger an identity crisis
• How postpartum emotional changes affect confidence and self worth
• The connection between motherhood mental health, burnout, and identity
• Why becoming a mum creates an identity shift, not a failure
• How to begin reclaiming identity after baby without guilt

If you’re an overwhelmed new mum, feeling lonely in motherhood, navigating motherhood burnout, or trying to understand why you no longer recognise yourself, this episode is for you. This is an honest motherhood conversation about becoming a mum without losing yourself, and about finding yourself in motherhood again in a way that feels realistic and compassionate.

This episode is especially for women searching for support around postpartum identity loss, motherhood mental health, and the emotional reality of early motherhood. It’s part of a broader conversation about real mum life, honest motherhood, and creating space for women to feel seen during one of the biggest identity shifts of their lives.

Topics include identity loss in motherhood, postpartum identity loss, motherhood identity crisis, new mum identity, matrescence, loss of self after baby, motherhood burnout, invisible labour of mothers, mental load of motherhood, motherhood and sense of self, reclaiming identity after baby, finding yourself in motherhood, and navigating motherhood without losing yourself.

You are not broken.

You are becoming.

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Postpartum is not just about caring for a newborn. It is about caring for the woman who has just been reborn too. In this episode, I talk honestly about what postpartum women actually need from the people around them, and why good intentions are not always the same as real support.

I share why postpartum support should focus less on advice and more on practical help, emotional safety, and being truly seen. From feeding the mum and protecting her rest, to believing her experience and easing her mental load, this episode is for partners, friends, family members, and anyone who wants to show up better during the fourth trimester.

This episode is also a reminder that postpartum recovery does not end at six weeks. It is a season of becoming physically, emotionally, and in identity. How a woman is supported during this time can shape her wellbeing for years to come. If you are a new mum feeling unseen, or someone wanting to support a postpartum woman without getting it wrong, this episode is for you.

In this episode I cover:

• What postpartum women really need from friends and family
• Why “let me know if you need anything” often is not helpful
• How to support a new mum without giving unsolicited advice
• The importance of practical help during the fourth trimester
• Why postpartum recovery is longer than six weeks
• How partners, family, and friends can reduce the mental load
• Supporting maternal mental health with care instead of comparison

Who this episode is for?

• New mums in the postpartum period
• Partners supporting a postpartum woman
• Friends and family visiting after birth
• Anyone wanting to understand the fourth trimester
• People building a supportive village around new mothers

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If this episode resonated, please share it with someone who is supporting a postpartum woman. And if you are in this season yourself, you are not weak, behind, or failing. You are becoming.

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In this episode, I dive into highlight culture on social media and how it affects mums, women, and modern motherhood. From the early days of Facebook and Instagram to influencer culture and algorithm-driven perfection, I explore where highlight culture started, why it became so powerful, and how it shapes the way mums see themselves online.

I unpack the emotional impact of constantly comparing our real, messy motherhood to curated highlight reels, and why scrolling perfect homes, happy families, and “doing-it-all” mums can quietly lead to mum guilt, comparison, burnout, and self-doubt. This episode breaks down the truth behind social media perfection and reminds you that what you see online is never the full story.

Most importantly, this conversation offers practical mindset shifts to help mums protect their mental health while using social media, including learning to treat highlight reels as inspiration, not instruction, and letting go of the pressure to live up to unrealistic standards of motherhood.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing as a mum because your life doesn’t look good on Instagram, this episode is your reminder that real motherhood isn’t aesthetic. It’s honest, imperfect, and deeply valuable.

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