The Pooch

In this episode, I open up about why I created this podcast in the first place: to be what I desperately needed as a new mum. I wanted a space where the messy, uncomfortable, overwhelming parts of motherhood were spoken about honestly, so that any mum feeling lost, chaotic, or “not enough” would know it’s not her, it’s the season she’s in.

I talk about the damage of highlight-reel culture, especially in postpartum. Seeing influencers bounce back with abs at six weeks made me believe I should be able to do the same, without understanding the reality of having a baby in my arms 24/7, a mind in turmoil, a house in chaos, and zero capacity for self-care.

So is relatable mum content the answer? Or are we creating new and lower standards for women?

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On this episode we go there! I break down why we compare who has it harder and we take a deeper dive into who really has it harder, stay at home mums, working mums or the WFH mum! I wonder who will end up winning this comp!

Why do we feel the need to compare? Why do we want to show who is struggling more? is it to show who really has it harder? Or is it to satisfy our own need for validation. Was it really that hard for us? Or were we the ones who just couldn't cope as well as others?

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In this story-time episode of The Pooch, I share my journey to becoming a mum... twice.

Inspired by becoming a “cunty” (cousin-aunty) to twin nephews and by watching my cousin step into motherhood with such strength I thought I would ask the big question: How did you know you wanted to have a baby?

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In today’s episode, I’m diving into one of the biggest pressures mums face... the pressure to be perfect.

We’re constantly surrounded by messages, comparisons and highlight reels showing what “perfect motherhood” looks like. But who actually decides what perfect means?

In this episode, I unpack where our ideas of the “perfect mum” come from... our own upbringings, social media, and the invisible standards we hold ourselves to. I’ll share why those expectations are often impossible (and unfair), and how to redefine what perfect truly means for you.

By the end of this episode, you’ll see that being the perfect mum isn’t about doing everything right, it’s about doing the best you can with what you have. And that, by definition, is perfect.

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On this episode of The Pooch, we dive into the fourth trimester- the often forgotten but oh-so-important first 12 weeks after birth. ✨

We’ll talk about what the fourth trimester really is, why your recovery matters just as much as your baby’s, and why it’s completely normal to feel emotions you never expected. You’ll also hear how, in these early months, you’re learning just as much as your baby is, because motherhood is a journey of growth for both of you.

This isn’t about perfect houses, bouncing back, or highlight reels of unreachable standards. This is about giving you a real sense of mum life — raw, messy, beautiful, and human. 

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In this episode of The Pooch, we’re diving into the 6 unique struggles of Millennial mums! Now, before you roll your eyes or think this is a “back in my day” debate — it’s not a pity party, a dig at other generations, or a struggle competition. We know we’ve got baby wipes, washing machines, and nappies on our side (thank goodness!) — but being a Millennial mum still comes with its own set of challenges.

I’d love to hear your take too! Slide into my DMs on Instagram at @thepoochpodcast and let’s make this a conversation.

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Why do we get things done quicker when we are alone? Why are we put in a situation where it is easier to take on the full load and know it will get done properly and on time rather than share it with someone else? Because we end up having to do the bulk of it anyway and in a way that is less efficient!

On this episode I talk about the reasons mums find it sooooo much easier to get things done alone BUT why this is a long term problem.

What can we do about it?? welllll I try to offer a solution but let's see if you find it helpful. This is a podcast about not feeling alone and understanding that what you are going through as a mum or a new mum.. is very normal. I am certainly no expert in relationships or parenting so any suggestions I give are things that either I have tried myself or that I have searched for an answer for from those who know best!

I hope you find this episode helpful and are being kind to your pooch!

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