In this episode, Alara Sage and Mary McMonagle discuss the topic of attracting emotionally available men. Mary shares her personal journey of realizing that she was attracting the wrong kinds of men and how she discovered that the types of men we attract are a reflection of ourselves. They explore the reasons why people, including ourselves, can be emotionally unavailable, such as a lack of emotional education and the need for patience. They also discuss the role of our relationship with our fathers in attracting emotionally available partners.

Takeaways

• The types of men we attract are a reflection of ourselves.
• Emotional unavailability can stem from a lack of emotional education and the need for patience.
• Our relationship with our fathers can influence our ability to attract emotionally available partners.
• Self-awareness and self-love are key in healing and shifting patterns of attracting emotionally unavailable men. Curiosity and self-reflection are powerful tools for identifying areas where self-love may be lacking.
• Focusing on personal growth and self-worth is more important than trying to fix oneself to attract the right partner.
• Setting boundaries and being true to oneself are essential in dating.
• Emotionally unavailable men may lack patience, show signs of insecurity, and have actions that do not align with their words.
• Emotionally available men make you feel safe, are patient, respectful, and their actions align with their words.

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In this episode, Alara Sage discusses the concept of the journey being the destination. She shares her personal experience of having a Kundalini awakening and how it led her to understand that living ecstatically is an ongoing process. Alara explains the importance of feeling desire in the body and expanding the pleasure body before satiating the desire. 

Takeaways

• The journey is the destination, and living ecstatically is an ongoing process.
• Feeling desire in the body and expanding the pleasure body before satiating the desire leads to more pleasurable and fulfilling experiences.
• Hold the vibration of desire while simultaneously knowing that you are already that which you desire.
• Share this episode to inspire others to embrace their desires and live ecstatically.

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n this episode of the Ecstatic Woman podcast, Alara and Colleen discuss the journey of remembrance and realization of sexual trauma, the impact of plant medicine, and the process of healing and transformation. Colleen shares her powerful story of uncovering and healing deep-seated trauma, leading to a profound shift in her life and perspective.

Takeaways

• The journey of remembrance and realization of sexual trauma can be a profound and transformative experience.
• Plant medicine can create a space for multi-layered unpacking and healing, leading to shifts in perception and trust in the universe.
• Healing trauma involves owning our power and recognizing that trauma does not define us; it is a part of our journey but not the entirety of who we are.
• The relationship with the masculine and feminine energies, as well as ancestral healing and forgiveness, plays a significant role in the process of healing and transformation. Owning and embracing one's sexual power is a transformative journey.
• The impact of father-daughter relationships on the relationship with one's inner masculine and other men.
• The power of forgiveness as a means of healing and transmuting energy.
• The call to share the conversation with women who may benefit from it.

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In this episode, Alara Sage discusses the concept of creator consciousness, focusing on the third eye chakra and its role in imagination, vision, and the creative process. She explores the distortions associated with the third eye and the impact of religious programming on disconnection from God. 

Takeaways

• Understanding the role of the third eye chakra in creator consciousness
• Exploring the impact of religious programming on disconnection from God and psychic abilities
• Embracing the importance of holding a vision and the pleasure of desire in the creative process

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In this episode of the Ecstatic Woman podcast, host Alara Sage and guest Dean Graves discuss the concept of incarnation and parallel lives. They explore the idea that we exist in both the physical and metaphysical worlds simultaneously and that our metaphysical self is aware of our incarnational self.

Takeaways

• We exist in both the physical and metaphysical worlds simultaneously.
• The purpose of the physical world is to create a non-biased environment for learning.
• The fear of death is rooted in the attachment to our identity and the perception of separation.
• Healing after death involves integrating the incarnational spirit back into the metaphysical self.
• Grief and loss can be opportunities for self-awareness and healing.

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In this episode, Alara Sage discusses the heart chakra and its connection to creator consciousness. She explores the concept of heart's desires, unconditional love, acceptance, forgiveness, and the relationship between the heart and the womb. Alara emphasizes the importance of pursuing heart's desires and the impact of non-acceptance and self-judgment on the heart chakra.

Takeaways

• The heart chakra is the center of creator consciousness and holds our heart's desires.
• Unconditional love is about full and complete acceptance of self.
• Non-acceptance and self-judgment impact the heart chakra and lead to resentment and criticism.
• Connecting to heart's desires and forgiving oneself opens up the energetics of those desires.
• The heart and the womb have a powerful connection in manifesting heart's desires.

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In this episode of the Ecstatic Woman podcast, host Alara Sage interviews guest Chelsea Huwsum about the power of authenticity and sharing our stories. Chelsea shares her own experiences of trauma and pain, including a sexual assault that she kept hidden for 20 years. Through writing a book and speaking about her experiences, Chelsea has found healing and has inspired others to do the same.

Takeaways

• Authenticity is the ability to allow ourselves to be seen and heard, which can create deep connections with others.
• Sharing our stories of trauma and pain can give others permission to share their own experiences and find healing.
• Breaking the silence around trauma and letting go of shame and guilt is essential for personal growth and empowerment.
• Sharing stories with children, especially boys, can teach empathy and compassion
• Writing down and speaking out loud can help in the process of sharing

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In this episode of the Ecstatic Woman podcast, host Alara Sage interviews Paul Zolman, author of The Role of Love, about the principles of love language. They discuss how understanding love languages can help people give and receive love more clearly and openly. Zolman shares his personal journey from a childhood lacking love to creating a method that transformed his life. He introduces a tool he created, a dice with different love languages, which helps people practice giving and receiving love in various ways.

Takeaways

• Understanding love languages can help people give and receive love more clearly and openly.
• Practicing different love languages can open up our perception to the different ways people love us.
• Taking personal responsibility for our actions and focusing on what is good in others can lead to transformation and a higher level of love.
• Using tools like the love language dice can help us practice giving and receiving love in various ways.
• Love has the power to transform ourselves and our relationships, and it is important to cultivate a mindset of love in all aspects of our lives.

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In this episode, Alara Sage discusses the primary distortions and wounds of the three creator centers: the sacral, heart, and pineal. She explains that distortions are like refractions of consciousness and that they are not inherently negative. The primary distortion of the sacral chakra is inadequacy, which can be felt as unworthiness. Alara explores how this distortion manifests in various ways, such as perfectionism, dissatisfaction with life, and difficulty receiving. 

Takeaways

• Distortions are like refractions of consciousness and are not inherently negative.
• The primary distortion of the sacral chakra is inadequacy, which can be felt as unworthiness.
• Inadequacy manifests as perfectionism, dissatisfaction with life, and difficulty receiving.
• Relaxing, surrendering, and opening up to the flow of creative life force energy is essential for healing and transformation.

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In this episode, Zaayin Salaam discusses the three spiritual diseases she explores in her book. The first disease is the fear of the darkness, both literal and metaphorical. The second disease is misogyny, rooted in the worship of a male God and the degradation of women. The third disease is the externalization of God and the imbalance of power in society.  

Takeaways

• The fear of the darkness holds us back from exploring the unknown and keeps us from evolving.
• Misogyny is deeply rooted in the worship of a male God and the degradation of women.
• The externalization of God and the imbalance of power in society lead to pyramidal power structures and inequality.
• Balancing internal and external power is crucial for personal and societal transformation. Writing can be a powerful spiritual journey, allowing for the connection to truth and the exploration of different perspectives.
• Balancing masculine and feminine energies is essential for personal growth and spiritual awakening.
• The fear of femininity can be a barrier to self-discovery and embracing one's true power.

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