Being called selfish doesn't feel good. And, there is power in being selfish. Now before you go ahead and judge what I'm saying, listen to the episode. If you are distracted by an ex-boyfriend, avoidant husband or current partner. and spend 99.9% of your time focused on giving to others (all while ignoring your needs, dreams, and ideas), this episode is for you. Being selfless isn't a badge of honor. In fact, it's the reason why all of your goals have been put on the back-burner. I'm especially talking the women out there who are waiting around for him to "pick" you, love you, and see you. And for what? Can you honestly say that even if he were to "choose you," you would be fulfilled? You and I both know that you're chasing. That you're acting desperate. And that you are wasting your time, energy, and effort on the wrong thing. Your worth is not determined by someone else. Today's solo episode is an an invitation and a call to action for women who are sick and tired of waiting to be picked. It's time you pick yourself. It's time you start that podcast, start that business, leave that job, write that book, work on YOU. Because ultimately, you are the most important project. Raise your standards. Level up. 

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