It’s 8:00 AM.
Most people are reaching for coffee. Almira and Dr. Kaitlyn Goldsmith are talking about orgasms and the vulva.
Together, Almira and Kaitlyn explore how patriarchy, culture, and outdated medical systems have shaped women’s relationships with their bodies – and what becomes possible when women reclaim pleasure, self-knowledge, agency, and the fullness of their womanhood.
In this candid, educational, and surprisingly funny conversation, Almira sits down with Licensed Psychologist and women’s health expert Dr. Kaitlyn Goldsmith to unpack one of the biggest gaps in women’s wellbeing: the lack of education and open conversation around pleasure, desire, intimacy, and our own bodies. From sexual shame and painful sex to responsive desire, postpartum mental health, the invisible mental load, and the ways women have been conditioned to disconnect from their own pleasure, this episode shines a light on conversations women should have been having all along.
Because pleasure isn’t frivolous.
It’s health. And it’s the whole fucking point.
And every woman deserves access to it.
In This Episode We Discuss:
• Why women’s health remains one of the most under-discussed areas of medicine
• The lack of education and conversation around pleasure, desire, and intimacy
• Why many women never learn what brings them pleasure
• The truth about orgasms and female anatomy
• Understanding the vulva and why body literacy matters
• Painful sex – why it’s common but not normal
• The connection between intimacy, mindfulness, and the nervous system
• Sexual shame and the impact of cultural conditioning
• Postpartum depression, anxiety, and maternal mental health
• The invisible mental load women carry
• How unequal domestic labour impacts desire and intimacy
• The difference between spontaneous desire and responsive desire
• Why many women believe something is wrong with them when they’re actually completely normal
• The role of self-pleasure in self-discovery and empowerment
• Why scheduling intimacy may actually improve your relationship
• Reclaiming pleasure as a vital part of wellbeing
• How pleasure extends beyond sex and into everyday life
About Dr. Kaitlyn Goldsmith
Dr. Kaitlyn Goldsmith holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and is a Licensed Psychologist. She is currently an Adjunct Professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of British Columbia (UBC) and a Clinical Instructor in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynaecology at UBC.
Dr. Goldsmith is passionate about women’s health and has a special interest in sexual health, peripartum, and postpartum mental health issues. She has published several scholarly articles and book chapters in the area of sexual health and well-being and has been featured in several well-known publications such as Glamour and Cosmopolitan magazines.
Website: www.kaitlyngoldsmith.com
Instagram: @drkaitgoldsmith
About Your Host
Almira Bardai is a feminine leadership mentor, energy healer, nervous system practitioner, and host of the POW’HER FULL Podcast. She helps women reconnect with their power, pleasure, intuition, prosperity, and authentic expression so they can create lives and businesses aligned with their deepest desires.
She is also the founder of Ascension Sanctuary, a high-level immersion for women who are ready to reclaim their womanhood, deepen their connection to themselves, and live and lead from a place of ease, pleasure, sovereignty, and feminine power.
Instagram: @almirab
Website: www.almirabardai.com
Learn more about Ascension Sanctuary:
https://almira-bardai.mykajabi.com/AscensionSanctuary