In this episode, we break down an important idea: the practice deficit and how it shapes the development of youth soccer players. Many players, especially at the average level, don’t accumulate enough deliberate practice hours early on, leading to technical deficiencies as they grow.

We discuss the importance of starting structured technical training early—a method not embraced by most. While unstructured play is valuable, committing to focused, unopposed drills at home can create a degree of technical refinement that many players miss out on. Think of it like becoming a classically trained chef—you develop a wide-ranging skillset that serves you in any setting.

I also share insights on the 80-18-2 rule, which I see in highly competitive environments like MLS academies. About 80% of players are solid but average, 18% stand out with stronger technical or physical abilities, and only 2% are the truly gifted ones—the players who seem destined to shine at the highest levels.

If your child dreams of playing professionally, you need to realize that the competition is fierce. It’s not just about raw talent. It’s about controlling what you can—like the volume and quality of touches they get on the ball.

Here’s what that looks like in my house:

These efforts added up to an extra 200-300 hours of deliberate practice over 5-6 years. And while many families hire private trainers, I found DIY coaching more flexible and affordable. Paying for that kind of volume would be prohibitive for most.

But let’s be real—this approach isn’t without risks:

This is why I emphasize listening to your child’s body and being mindful of risks. Diversify activities, slow down when needed, and always seek medical advice if something seems off.

At the end of the day, this level of commitment isn’t for everyone. But if you decide it’s the right path for your family, you can minimize the practice deficit and build a technical foundation that gives your child an edge.

Let’s keep sharing our experiences—both successes and setbacks—so we can all learn and grow together. As always, there’s no ego here, just a desire to help each other improve.

Let’s get better together.