New nurses step onto the floor with a license, but not with all the answers. Yet patients, families, and even friends often expect brand-new RNs to perform like seasoned experts. In this episode, I (Kati Kleber, MSN RN) sit down with my husband, licensed clinical counselor John Kleber, to unpack what it's like to learn under that spotlight of public expectations.

Together, we explore how new nurses can manage the gap between what people expect of you, and what you realistically know as you grow into the role.

What you'll learn:

✅ Why people assume you "know everything now" the second you pass NCLEX, and what's actually realistic

✅ How the Dunning-Kruger effect shows up in new grad nursing (the "I've got this!" → "Oh no I don't" roller coaster)

✅ How Benner's Novice-to-Expert model explains the long game of becoming truly competent

✅ Why shame, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome hit so hard in your first year

✅ Simple phrases you can use when you don't know the answer... but still want to build trust with patients and families

✅ Practical mindset shifts (from a counselor's perspective) to build confidence that's grounded and not fake

🔗 Resources & Links:

• John's counseling practice: https://www.klebercounseling.com/

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• Nurse leaders: Need a comprehensive residency program for your new grads? Check out: https://www.freshrn.com/enterprise/

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