Have you ever felt a pull toward something different, and quietly treated it like a problem? Like at some point you were supposed to have it all figured out, pick your lane, and just stay there for good?
In this solo episode of The Progress Zone, Jody takes you back to a specific moment. Sitting in his car, in a parking lot, having just made a decision that scared him more than almost anything he'd done. He was about to walk away from a big piece of an identity he'd spent years building, and a voice in his head asked the question so many of us are afraid of: who are you if you're not that anymore?
If you've ever been afraid to let go of a version of yourself, even when you knew deep down it was time, this episode is for you.
We're all quietly sold a myth. That you go to school for a thing, so you're supposed to do that thing. You build a career in an industry, so you're supposed to stay in that industry. You become known for something, so you're supposed to keep being that forever. And if you start to feel a pull toward something new, you're taught to treat it as a sign you messed up, that something is broken in you.
Jody makes the case that the pull isn't a problem at all. It's one of the most human, most healthy things there is. You are not the same person you were ten years ago. You've learned things, lived things, grown. So why would the decisions you made back then still be expected to fit the person you are today? You wouldn't expect to wear the same clothes from a decade ago and have them fit perfectly. Your life is allowed to change with you.
This is a conversation about permission. The permission to start over, to reinvent yourself, and to do it more than once, as many times as your life requires.
In this episode:Why the pull toward something new is a sign of growth, not failure
How to let go of an old identity without feeling like you're losing yourself
Why "starting over" isn't starting from zero, you carry everything you've learned with you
The quiet myth that keeps people stuck in lives that no longer fit
The permission most of us are waiting for, that only we can give ourselves
If this one resonated, share it with someone standing at their own crossroads. It might be exactly what they needed to hear today.
For the full framework, get Jody's book, The Progress Zone: Unlocking Your Full Potential on amazon.
Remember, progress isn't about perfection. It's about showing up, taking action, and getting just a little bit better every single day.