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Remember when you went all out to impress your new girl/boy friend? Maybe it was a thrilling jet skiing adventure or an unexpected grand gesture that made their heart race. Join Trisha Jamison, Dr. Jeff Jamison, and Tony Overbay as they take you on a nostalgic journey of love and laughter, exploring those early days of marriage. Alongside our vibrant newlywed guests, Cody and Hannah, we unpack the secrets to keeping that initial excitement alive even amidst life's pressures. From their adorable "meet cute" to the ways they stay intentional and curious about one another, Cody and Hannah's story is sure to inspire couples of all ages.

A new Q&A files question from Ashley and Jake help us all navigate the complexities of modern life. Ashley and Jake find themselves yearning to reconnect. Hear their journey and the sage advice from our newlyweds on rekindling romance in long-term relationships. It's all about being present, sharing activities, and finding joy in each other's evolving stories. And let's not forget to touch upon the lighthearted mishaps of online dating, where a canceled first date and a questionable Thai dish turned into a lasting connection, highlighting the power of humor and resilience in love.

With insights from relationship coach, Trisha Jamison and marriage and family therapist Tony Overbay, the episode deepens with discussions on sustaining love through shared growth and communication. Discover the transformative power of making the choice to love your partner daily, embracing changes, and seeking new reasons to say “yes” to each other. As Tony shares tools and strategies to fortify relationships against life's challenges, the heartwarming tales from Cody and Hannah remind us that love is a journey filled with unexpected connections, sacrifices, and continuous growth. Tune in for practical advice and heartfelt stories that illuminate the path to maintaining vibrant, evolving partnerships.

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Happy Birthday Trisha!

Ever tried selling a grand piano on Facebook Marketplace? Our latest episode of the Q&A Files kicks off with some personal tales of downsizing and the hilarious adventures that come with it. Join us as Trisha Jamison, a board-certified functional nutritionist and Tony Overbay, a licensed marriage and family therapist and seasoned podcaster from The Virtual Couch, Waking up to Narcissism discuss these issues for Tony's podcast, The Virtual Couch. (Wherever you get your podcasts!)

Trisha and Tony discuss emotional immaturity and narcissistic traits and offer a path to healthier relationships. We share our own journeys of growth and healing to show how. This episode delves into the challenges of navigating emotionally complex relationships and the power of validation. Whether it's dealing with resistance from a partner or unlocking the transformative potential of self-awareness, our candid discussions aim to provide fresh perspectives and practical strategies for listeners who might be walking similar paths.
Join us next time as we discuss how to keep your relationships fresh by talking a newlywed couple who are just as cute as can be!

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Welcome again to the Q&A files!  Today your host is Trisha Jamison. She is joined with Dr. Jeff and Tony Overbay.  We discuss the amazing experience that Trisha and her Daughter Capri have with a generous stranger in a restaurant.  Trisha and Capri are shocked!  
The experience provokes a lively conversation centered on what kindness can do for the giver, as well as the receiver.  The controversy arises when the question comes up, When is Kindness NOT the right thing to do? When does your kindness become too much, or harmful to the giver of kindness in the relationship?  
We explore different personalities and situations where kindness uncovers the giver's need to create peace in the relationship, at a huge cost to them.  We explore ways to identify if you are providing 'pathologic kindness,' and how to turn the tide of the relationship to one of a balanced power dynamic.

Please give a listen to Tony's podcast, "Waking up to Narcissism," found wherever you get your podcasts.

To request to join the exclusive Waking Up to Narcissism Facebook group, contact Trisha directly at [email protected]. 

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We delve into navigating life's stressors while maintaining joy, sharing ten actionable strategies to manage stress effectively. From adopting a long-term perspective to serving with gratitude, this episode offers valuable methods for cultivating a more intentional and joyful life. 

• Reflecting on personal conditioning for awareness 
• Starting each day with intention to set a positive tone 
• Building self-trust through follow-through 
• Adopting a long-term perspective on stress 
• Compartmentalizing stress to maintain balance 
• Regularly releasing tension before it builds up 
• Stopping the habit of taking things personally 
• Utilizing visualization techniques for success 
• Choosing joy intentionally through gratitude 
• Serving others with a grateful heart to shift perspective 

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Have you ever wondered if laughter could be your secret weapon against stress? Join us as we embark on a fun-filled journey with Trisha Jamison, Dr. Jeff Jamison, and Tony Overbay, exploring the intricate dance between humor, stress, and emotional maturity. Through personal anecdotes, we shed light on how laughter can be a sign of emotional resilience. Discover how Dr. Jeff copes with a stress level of nine, battling life changes and business challenges, while Tony shares the calming effects of his mindfulness practice that keeps his stress levels in check. Our stories and insights serve as a reminder that managing stress and finding balance in life can indeed start with a smile.

The conversation doesn't stop there, as we dive into the importance of acknowledging stressors and the role of validation in managing life's chaotic moments. We're here to emphasize the critical need for feeling heard and valued before seeking solutions. By recognizing unhealthy coping mechanisms and understanding when it's time to seek professional help, we offer practical steps to regain control and calm. Plus, we underscore the significance of medical evaluations to rule out any underlying physical issues contributing to stress. Our discussion is packed with actionable insights designed to help you navigate the stormy seas of stress with grace and composure.

As we turn the spotlight on morning rituals and routines, we reveal the transformative power of mindful living and intentionality. Drawing inspiration from Brendan Burchard, we dive into strategies that help cultivate peace and balance, starting with self-awareness. Our personal stories highlight the impact of upbringing on stress responses, and how breaking free from ingrained patterns can enhance emotional regulation and personal relationships. Learn how morning routines, like consistent sleep habits and goal setting, can set a productive tone for the day and build self-trust. We promise a blend of humor, personal growth, and practical strategies that equip you to tackle life's pressures with newfound confidence and poise.

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Merry Christmas Everyone!  Welcome back to the Q&A files.

What happens when your body is telling a different story than the medical books? Our guest Katie shares her courageous story of fighting for her thyroid cancer diagnosis, a battle she began in her late 20s when her symptoms were wrongly attributed to anxiety. Her journey is a testament to the power of self-advocacy amid a medical system that too often dismisses patient intuition. We delve into the immense emotional toll this took on her, particularly in her relationships, as she navigated the feeling of being unheard by both healthcare professionals and her own spouse.

Katie also opens up about the unique challenges of dealing with medullary thyroid cancer—a condition often misunderstood and trivialized as the "good cancer." She provides an unfiltered look at the financial and emotional strain that comes with seeking specialized treatment far from home, particularly at MD Anderson in Texas. Through Katie’s narrative, we unpack the significance of online communities and family support, illustrating the importance of finding the right medical team after years of misdiagnosis. Her story is not just about survival but about resilience, community, and the vital importance of empathy and listening for providers in healthcare.

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Join us in this eye-opening episode as we expose the hidden costs of entanglements with emotionally immature or narcissistic partners. Trisha Jamison, alongside Dr. Jeff Jamison and Tony Overbay, shares personal stories and listener-inspired discussions that reveal how these toxic dynamics can lead to chronic stress and mental fatigue. Drawing inspiration from Dr. Bessel van der Kolk's "The Body Keeps the Score," we dissect the profound impact of trauma on both mind and body, revealing the crucial role of gratitude and positivity in maintaining one's sanity amid chaos.

We navigate the fine line between healthy sacrifices and those that steal away our emotional well-being, offering metaphors and insights to illuminate the paths often taken in toxic relationships. The shovel and ladder analogy underscores how misguided efforts can deepen emotional wounds, while practical advice on grounding techniques helps listeners stay present amid emotional upheaval. Recognizing the physical manifestations of suppressed emotions, we stress the importance of awareness and validation, providing strategies that empower individuals to reclaim their mental and physical health.

As the journey unfolds, the transformative power of gratitude and mindful living becomes a beacon for those seeking healthier connections. Emphasizing shared responsibility in relationships, we explore how recognizing one's worth can lead to respectful and fulfilling connections. The discussion concludes by encouraging listeners to embrace self-discovery and to cultivate gratitude, even for negative experiences, as stepping stones toward greater happiness and improved self worth.

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Welcome Friends and wellness warriors to another thought provoking podcast! We are so happy you are here!

Is self-blame sabotaging your happiness? Discover how shifting from self-blame to self-compassion can transform your life and relationships. Join us as we explore Sadie's insightful question about the impact of self-blame on personal and professional boundaries. We delve into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) with Tony, who provides valuable strategies for reframing perceived failures as experiences and breaking free from familial patterns of blame. Our discussion emphasizes questioning our assumptions about fault and how fostering self-acceptance can lead to newfound personal confidence.

In the second half of our conversation, Dr. Jeff shares wisdom on navigating self-criticism and the power of observation over judgment. Learn how aligning your actions with personal values can help you move forward, even in the face of uncertainty. We highlight the emotional cost of prioritizing others over oneself and the importance of reclaiming personal desires to lead a fulfilling life. Through engaging anecdotes, we illustrate how small, intentional acts of self-care can recharge your mental and emotional well-being, benefiting both your personal and professional life.

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Ever wondered why some people seem to have an endless knack for deflecting blame, leaving you feeling like you're the one on a perpetual quest for self-improvement? Together with Dr. Jeff and Tony, we explore the complex web of narcissism and emotional immaturity—a journey that promises not just understanding, but also a path toward genuine personal growth. Amidst these discussions.

Angela sparks a thought-provoking conversation with her inquiry about the prevalence of narcissistic behaviors and whether they might be overlooked in therapeutic settings. We unravel the intricacies of diagnosing narcissism and the impact of manipulative behaviors on relationships. In this rich dialogue, listeners can identify narcissistic patterns, empowering themselves to break cycles of frustration and seek healthier relational dynamics. This episode is not just about identifying problems but also about learning the courage it takes to risk losing in order to truly win.

As we wrap up, tune into a lively Q&A session with Trisha Jamison, where the power of community takes center stage. This is a space to feel connected, especially for those who have felt isolated or broken. By fostering a spirit of curiosity and encouraging questions on relationships, emotional health, and nutrition, we invite you to join our vibrant circle of insight and growth. Stay curious, keep thriving, and remember to wear a smile as we gear up for our next exciting episode.

We’d love to hear your thoughts and questions! Feel free to reach out to us at [email protected]. If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit from the conversation. Together, we can keep building this supportive and inspiring community.