Which sexual scripts and stereotypes do you follow, even if they don’t feel good or make sense? Dr Chris Donaghue explains how to have sex outside the lines and expand your skills and attitudes with yourself and partners.

5:00 throw out your expectations about what sex “should” be like 

12:00 approach a partner’s body with curiosity regardless of gender

18:00 controversial idea: fluid and expansive educators will understand sexuality better

25:00 trying new things all the time 

30:00 goth kids do it in the cemetery 

33:00 dirty talk tips

39:00 everybody likes different things, sexually

44:00 using toys: our entire bodies can be stimulated

52:00 on “heteroflexible” as a term 

57:00 other examples of sexual scripts

1:00:00 resource requests

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