We’ve spent ten days preparing for Yom Kippur, and now comes the moment of truth: can a person really change—permanently? Most people think it’s impossible. By middle age, after trying and failing so many times, we make peace with our flaws. But the Torah teaches there is another way. It’s a miracle—but it follows a clear formula.

In this shiur, we explore the Rambam’s five steps of teshuva, the Midrash on “Kol dodi dofek,” and the insights of Reb Yisrael Salanter and the Alter of Kelm. You’ll learn how even the smallest act of teshuva—the size of a needle—can open the gates for Hashem to do the heavy lifting, bringing about real, lasting transformation.

This is not about taking on huge commitments or impossible goals. It’s about choosing something tiny, something real, and letting Hashem turn that pinhole into a doorway wide enough for wagons.

Perfect listening before Yom Kippur—for clarity, focus, and hope. visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/ for more free lectures

Prepare for Rosh Hashanah with this inspiring shiur on the deep meaning of the shofar, the Day of Judgment, and your unique mission in the world.

We explore three core questions:

• Are we judged as individuals or as a community on Rosh Hashanah?

• Is the shofar blast a moment of strict din (judgment) or of Hashem’s rachamim (mercy)?

• Should we focus on others, or is the world truly created just for me?

Drawing from the Gemara, Midrash, and the teachings of the Ramchal and Rav Wolbe, this shiur reveals how the shofar transforms judgment into mercy, why each soul has a one-of-a-kind mission, and how to enter the Jewish New Year with clarity, strength, and hope.

Perfect for anyone seeking a Torah perspective on Rosh Hashanah, Jewish New Year preparation, and the spiritual power of the shofar blasts.

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What is the real purpose of Selichos? In this powerful shiur, Rabbi Kelemen uncovers the hidden roots of Selichos—going back to the aftermath of the Golden Calf when Hashem Himself acted as the first shliach tzibbur.

Discover:
🔹 Why the 13 Middos of Rachamim are the key to Divine mercy
🔹 The Midrashic and Kabbalistic secrets behind Hashem’s “white tallis”
🔹 Why just saying Selichos isn’t enough—you must do them
🔹 The Radbaz and Meiri’s guidance for preparing before Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur
🔹 Inspiring stories from Chazal that reveal how living with mercy brings Hashem’s forgiveness

If you’ve ever wondered how Selichos actually work—or how they can transform your Yamim Noraim—this shiur will change how you approach the holiest days of the year. click here for more free classes from Rabbi Kelemen

Mussar and Mental Health presentation by Rabbi Kelemen. Visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/ for more

Could you discuss the challenges of being a frum single woman in an Orthodox Jewish community? Family holds an incredibly significant place in our lives, and it’s often seen as the ultimate ideal. To illustrate this, your Inner Circle content currently features six series, two of which focus on marriage and parenting.

It is excruciatingly painful to be single, not just experiencing moments of loneliness like everyone does, but living life alone day after day, perhaps forever. It’s terrifying to think that some people are blessed with marriage and children while others are not—and that it’s possible marriage might not be in G-d’s plan for me.

From a young age, girls are raised to prepare for marriage, with the understanding that it’s the ultimate goal. So much of our lives revolve around “One day, when you’re a wife/mother…” It’s heartbreaking to witness others receive the beauty of a family, and even more painful when you’re one of those who does not.

I want to believe that G-d is kind, but then I look at my married friends, giving and receiving love, raising children, and I can’t help but feel a deep longing, at times bordering on jealousy. Marriage and family are so central to our lives, and it’s incredibly hard to accept that not everyone will receive this blessing.

On top of all this, dealing with the pain of being perceived as "less than" or immature because of being single makes this challenge feel even more isolating.

Can you share your perspective on how I can approach this in a Torah-true way—without assuming blame for my singleness or allowing bitterness to take root, so that I don’t grow to resent G-d?

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What’s the Torah perspective on health and putting in our hishtadlus to take care of our bodies and physical needs? Rabbi Kelemen often emphasizes the importance of getting sufficient sleep, exercising, and eating well. I would love a deep dive into Torah sources on this topic. I am personally drawn to a healthy lifestyle and know it is rooted in Torah values.

However, at our children’s Jewish schools and shul, it often feels as though taking care of our bodies is not considered important from a Torah perspective. Treats are given out constantly, and holiday programs are scheduled late at night. I’ve had to push for healthier snack options to be available at our shul. I also don’t allow my children to attend the Shabbos group, where the only food provided consists of processed cakes, doughnuts, and ice cream during shul time—before kiddush or lunch.

Although I’ve discussed my concerns with the rabbi and explained why I don’t want my children in that group, he was only willing to change the snacks in a different group. He believes that children will only attend the Shabbos group if they are served the most unhealthy, ultra-processed foods. click here to listen to more

How does one strengthen ratzon or create a new ratzon? Is it through building, planting and praying? I would really appreciate hadracha for this. Rabbi Kelemen answers. Listen to more on https://lawrencekelemen.com/

Unlock the secrets to personal growth in Torah and the importance of sleep in our latest podcast. Click here to visit Rabbi Kelemen's website for more free classes.

Rabbi Kelemen answers questions about Israel's war with Hamas.

In this thought-provoking video, Rabbi Kelemen dives deep into the period known as Bein HaMetzarim, also known as the Three Weeks, leading up to the solemn day of Tisha B'Av. Join Rabbi Kelemen as he explores the contrasting perspectives surrounding this period: Is it a time of wrath and mourning, or is it about love? Delving into ancient Jewish wisdom, Rabbi Kelemen offers a unique and insightful perspective on this important topic. for more visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/