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Ever wonder why your perfectly planned morning routine crumbles the moment your kid decides the kitchen floor is their art canvas? Shannon Carothers, expert on habit building in motherhood & host of The Successful Mama Podcast, gets real about the beautiful chaos of motherhood. This isn't your typical "5 AM club" productivity chat—it's an honest conversation about kitchen floor breakdowns, coffee-stained planners, and why celebrating washing ONE dish might be the secret to sanity. She's the missing link for those of us who love the 'self help' category, but struggle to relate those principles to the reality of motherhood.

Main Topics & Discussion

The Kitchen Floor Breakdown: When Perfect Plans Meet Real Life

Shannon opens up about her rock-bottom moment—sobbing on her kitchen floor while holding her baby, surrounded by the overwhelming chaos born of procrastination and anxiety. We explore how our messiest moments can become the foundation for our biggest breakthroughs, and how embracing the mess can actually be the first step toward finding yourself again.

Mom Dating Is Real (And It's Awkward AF)

Let's talk about the elephant in the playground—making mom friends is basically like dating, complete with the awkward "can I get your number?" moments. Shannon breaks down her three-step recovery plan from matrescence isolation: recognizing you're not alone, accepting that growth looks different for everyone in motherhood, and actually doing the terrifying work of building community. 

The One-Dish Revolution: Why Tiny Habits Create Massive Change

What if the secret to transforming your entire life started with emptying your coffee maker? Shannon shares her game-changing approach to habit building that doesn't require 5 AM wake-ups or meditation retreats. From the "super fast cleanup song" that gets kids dancing while tidying, to the gratitude planner that survived months of blank pages, discover why making things ridiculously simple might be the most revolutionary thing you do for yourself this year.

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• Podcast: The Successful Mama Podcast (available on all platforms)
• Instagram/Facebook: @successfulmamapodcast
• Website: shannoncarothers.com

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Hosted by: Cally & Emily O’Leary

About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

Podcast Website: https://therealmomhub.com/

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Do you struggle to find to your inner truth? Feeling burnt out but can't pinpoint why? In this episode, licensed professional counselor Caitlin Ruby Miller joins us to explore the messy, beautiful journey of transformation. Caitlin brings a refreshingly authentic perspective on healing that doesn't require a therapy session (though would highly recommend). Grab your earbuds for this one – it might just be the permission slip you need to finally put yourself first.

Main Topics & Discussion

Finding Your Flow State in Motherhood Chaos

We dive deep into the concept of "flow state" – that magical place where time melts away and you're fully immersed in what you're doing. Caitlin reveals how this psychological sweet spot isn't just for artists or athletes; it's accessible to moms too. Flow state just might be the mental vacation your mom-brain desperately needs. 

Recognizing Burnout Before You're Toast

Doomscrolling before bed? Feeling disconnected from who you are beyond "mom"? You might be experiencing burnout. Caitlin breaks down the warning signs that are specific to motherhood burnout and offers practical ways to recognize when you're stretching yourself too thin. Discover why resilience isn't always the answer and why the "just push through" mentality is actually making things worse for modern moms.

Accessing Your Inner Wisdom 

Caitlin introduces us to Internal Family Systems (IFS), a transformative approach to quieting the anxious voices in your head and finding your authentic inner wisdom. Caitlin shares accessible ways to start healing—the path to transformation might be simpler (and more enjoyable) than you think.

Connect with Caitlin: Professional Bio, Psychology Today, Inclusive Therapists, Therapy Den | Instagram/Substack: @femchantment / Femchantment.substack.com | Podcast: Counselors Craft a Curious Path / Craftapath.Substack.com 

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

Podcast Website: https://therealmomhub.com/

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Ever wondered what makes Cally and Emily tick as moms? In this episode, they flip the script and do a deep dive on some of the questions they usually reserve for guests.  They get vulnerable about their mothering  experiences (what else is new around here) and also take a listener question. Is your money on them being “crunchy," "scrunchy," or "silky" moms? Tune in to find out, and stay for the actual meat of the episode: multigenerational wisdom from their mother and grandmothers.

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Hosts in the Hot Seat: Motherhood Styles Revealed
Why are the topical categories of “crunchy”, “scrunchy”, and “silky” defining parenting philosophies and social behaviors of millennial and gen Z moms everywhere? The crunchy vs. silky mom debate is tough for some, but easy for them to decide where they fall.  Their honest admissions about motherhood expectations versus reality will have you feeling seen and validated in your own parenting journey.

Generational Wisdom: A Motherhood Legacy
The *fish* that truly matters in this episode is the highlight reel from conversations with the women who shaped our hosts. Cally and Emily share precious moments with their mother and grandmothers, revealing how these matriarchs influenced their own parenting approaches. These intergenerational perspectives on motherhood show just how much (and how little) has changed across generations. 

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

Podcast Website: https://therealmomhub.com/

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Katie, Certified Nurse-Midwife, brings the laughs and the energy as she gives us expert tips on navigating new motherhood and postpartum life and also opens up about her own journey through motherhood - from her unexpected battle with preeclampsia to the day her daughter declared "me llamas mujer" at the dinner table. This episode peels back the curtain on what happens when even the experts struggle with postpartum emotions, breastfeeding challenges, and the identity transformation that comes with becoming a mom.

Finding Yourself in Motherhood

Katie shares her surprisingly delayed connection to her maternal identity, revealing how it took until her second child to truly feel like a "mom" rather than just "a person who had a kid." With refreshing honesty, she discusses how postpartum mood disorders and trauma can disconnect us from the transformation of motherhood, and how proper treatment opened the door to experiencing real joy in her maternal journey.

When the Expert Becomes the Patient

Despite being a nurse midwife, Katie found herself downplaying serious symptoms during pregnancy until she was literally "coughing up blood." Her story highlights how women often gaslight themselves about their own health concerns, and offers practical advice about recognizing preeclampsia symptoms that don't fit the textbook description. Her professional insight combined with personal experience creates a powerful reminder of why women need to advocate for themselves.

Rebuilding Relationships After Baby

From "mom rage" over mismatched baby socks to struggling with a partner's cereal-crunching habits, Katie gets real about how pregnancies and newborns test even the strongest relationships. She shares the wisdom gained through her own marital challenges: "Overlook the shortcomings and compliment the strengths." This episode offers solidarity to any mom who's wondered if she's the only one whose relationship hasn't magically improved after having children.

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

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Amy Yanzer, small business superhero and soon-to-be mom of four, spills the tea (or rather, the non-alcoholic nitro cocktail) on balancing motherhood with entrepreneurship. From laugh-out-loud anecdotes to revolutionizing Wisconsin's drinking culture one "soft cocktail" at a time, this episode is bubbling with wisdom, laughter, and the perfect recipe for embracing life's unexpected twists.

Main Topics & Discussion

Motherhood's Unexpected Surprises
Amy's journey from church music director to co-founder of Forward Beverage Co. is anything but conventional. Hear her honest take on what shocked her most about motherhood, how she managed two under two, and why she's welcoming baby #4 at 40 with confidence that we all aspire to. Her advice about longing versus guilt offers a refreshing perspective for any mother struggling with work-life balance. 

Crafting a Business (and Family) from Scratch
When Amy's husband Paul quit drinking, he used his chemistry background to create non-alcoholic alternatives that weren't just sugar bombs. Together, they've built Forward Beverage Company into a thriving business with products in over 200 locations across Wisconsin. Amy shares how they're redefining what it means to "have a drink" in one of America's most alcohol-friendly states, and how she envisions bringing her children into the family business.

The Growing Pains of Growth
From navigating multiple moves to building community in a new city, Amy's transparent about both the challenges and triumphs. Her "if it's not a hell yes, it's a no" philosophy is exactly what busy moms need to hear. Plus, she reveals her secret weapon for childbirth (HypnoBabies) and why she's approaching motherhood at 40 with newfound wisdom about what really matters—definitely not lost high heels or perfectly clean houses.

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

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We're stripping away the Instagram filters and diving headfirst into what marriage ACTUALLY looks like when the wedding photos are collecting dust and someone's leaving whiskers in the sink. This episode of The Real Mom Hub brings together two couples who are knee-deep in marriage and parenthood (and probably a pile of laundry) to spill the tea on what happens when those romantic vows meet the reality of joint bank accounts and arguing about whose turn it is to clean the bathroom. Spoiler alert: nobody's marriage looks like The Notebook, and we actually like it that way.

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The Foundation of Marriage (Or: Who Are You and What Have You Done With My Spouse?)

Remember that person you married? Plot twist: they're now a completely different human. We chat all about the identity crisis that is long-term commitment. From "I'll love you forever exactly as you are" to "WHO KEEPS LEAVING THE LIGHTS ON?!"—we cover it all. One husband confessed he'd barely recognize his five-years-ago self, admitting, "I'm a different person now... I have so many different values and priorities, and half of that's kids." The other half? Probably learning to tolerate your spouse's inability to load the dishwasher correctly.

Communication Breakthroughs (Or: How to Fight Without Someone Sleeping on the Couch)

Want to know the secret to staying married? Turns out fighting BETTER, not less. We spill the beans on embarrassingly bad early arguments (2 drinks in and suddenly everyone's a dramatic defense attorney) and how they learned to decode each other's conflict styles. One wife termed it "emotional sobriety" -- making sure you're in a calm state for tough convos. Most shocking revelation? That whole "never go to bed angry" advice your great-aunt gave you at your wedding? Complete and utter bullfish. Sometimes sleeping on it is exactly what your petty argument about who forgot to buy milk needs. You're welcome.

Life With Two Kids vs. One (Or: Goodbye Sanity, Hello Chaos)

You thought one kid was a game-changer? Laughs in two under five. Our brave parent-warriors break down the hilarious reality check that is adding a second tiny dictator to your household. The biggest revelation? Learning to give "less fishes" about basically everything. Clean floors? Nope. Bathroom privacy? A distant memory. Yet somehow, these sleep-deprived couples report their marri

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

Podcast Website: https://therealmomhub.com/

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Ever wondered what happens when you combine three toddlers, two sleep-deprived moms, and a multi-state road trip? In this episode, Cally and Emily reveal why what felt like "seven toddlers" might actually be the secret recipe for stronger family bonds—if you survive the journey. Buckle up for an episode that will have you laughing, cringing, and feeling deeply validated in your own motherhood chaos.

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What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Funnier

Is Chicago rush hour traffic the ultimate parenting test? Find out what pushed our hosts to the edge of sanity and back. From mysterious substances squirted across car seats to what Cally calls "learning coping mechanisms for our fight-or-flight responses," this conversation unveils the unexpected humor in parental suffering. Plus, discover why forgetting to fill the gas tank right as babies fall asleep might actually be a cosmic parenting initiation.

Your Village Is Showing

Who steps up when mom is down for the count with mysterious road trip illness? Between a Baba with superhuman energy serving chicken marsala to strangers in a cathedral pointing to where the screaming toddler went, this segment reveals the unsung heroes of modern motherhood. Learn why accepting help might be the most powerful parenting move you'll ever make—and why Emily finally surrendered to being "pathetic on the couch."

The Payoff Beyond The Pain

Why would anyone voluntarily road trip with toddlers again after experiencing what our hosts describe as "pure banshee screaming"? Discover the surprising moments that made it all worthwhile, including why Bbk keeps asking for "Owa" days later and what happens when toddlers experience great-grandparents' nurture and magic. These magical connections might just convince you to brave your own family adventure—or at least enjoy living vicariously through theirs.

Got road trip warrior wisdom for rear-facing toddlers? Our hosts are boldly (or foolishly) planning another adventure and need your help! Subscribe now (we're social!) to join the community of moms keeping it real.

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

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Join us as we welcome Brooke Heinzmann, a 33-year-old mother of three from Chicago, to The Real Mom Hub. With refreshing honesty and humor, Brooke shares her unfiltered motherhood journey—from the shocking reality of life with her firstborn to finding her rhythm as a parent of three. Brooke offers unique perspectives on finding community, letting go of guilt, & embracing the beautiful mess of motherhood. Her candid stories about breastfeeding struggles, co-sleeping "hacks," & learning to trust her instincts will resonate with any mom who's ever felt overwhelmed by conflicting advice or parenting ideals.

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The Shock of First-Time Motherhood

Brooke describes her first three months with her daughter Willa with brutal honesty, & she shares how she and her husband called those first eight weeks the "Angry Plant stage"—having a baby that could scream but gave about as much affection as a houseplant. While everyone asked if she was experiencing the bliss of new motherhood, Brooke struggled with a difficult baby, painful breastfeeding, & sleep deprivation. Her experience highlights the disconnect between expectations & reality for many new parents, especially when your first child happens to be particularly challenging.

Finding Freedom from Parenting Guilt

One of the most powerful themes in Brooke's parenting journey is her evolution from anxiously following "rules" with her firstborn to giving herself permission to parent in ways that worked for her family with subsequent children. From co-sleeping to contact napping, Brooke shares how she stopped stressing about what she was "supposed" to be doing & instead focused on what made sense for her family. Her insight that "you get the kid you get" challenges the notion that parents can control their children's temperaments through specific techniques, offering liberation from the weight of parenting guilt that so many mothers carry.

Creating Family Rhythms Through Faith and Tradition

Brooke's journey to Judaism provided her family with meaningful structure and community. She describes how Shabbat offers a weekly rhythm of connection & rest for her family—a deliberate pause from technology & outside pressures that fosters deeper bonds. Despite the preparation involved, this sacred time creates space for family togetherness & personal renewal. A great reminder that inten

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It's the age-old question: "what do we recreate from the parenting of our childhood, and what do we choose to leave behind?". Cally & Emily spill the tea on the family traditions and the childhood experiences that still make them laugh, cry, and sometimes cringe. This conversation is a relatable trip down memory lane for anyone who suffered through (entirely reasonable) Saturday chore lists with their siblings and survived family road trips with parents who refused to stop for fast food. Whether you're a mom who swore "I'll never do that to my kids" or someone who finds yourself accidentally recreating your parents' quirky habits, this episode will have you nodding along and laughing at the universal chaos of family life.

Main Topics & Discussion

The Shared Water Bottle Saga

The sisters reveal their childhood horror at being forced to share water bottles on family road trips, complete with Cheerio backwash and questionable hygiene practices. This traumatic memory sparks a heated debate when one sister confesses she's now making her own kids share water bottles on hikes. Fellow moms will relate to the moment we realize we're turning into our parents despite our best intentions. Family quirks become lasting memories, for better or worse!

Saturday Chore Day Confessions

Nothing bonds siblings like collective trauma, and Saturday chore day was prime bonding time. Between getting up at the crack of dawn, hauling wood for the stove, and the shocking revelation that one sister was secretly helping create the chore lists all along, this conversation was... illuminating. The sisters even call in a special guest mid-episode for confirmation, leading to accusations far and wide. Moms everywhere will laugh at the contrast between kids' dramatic reactions to chores and how these experiences actually shaped their relationships, and ultimately added positive values.

Tent Camping Rules & Family Road Trip Survival

The sisters share their visceral reactions to camping faux pas like wearing shoes in the tent or leaving the zipper open (the horror!). Their two-week family camping trips featured sweaty cheese picnics, car sickness galore, and a military-like efficiency for setting up camp. Any mom who's attempted family travel will appreciate these unfiltered stories about how a family of six managed to survive extended close quarters without losing it comp

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together.

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We loved our conversation with Angela, a perfectionist turned purposeful, intentional mom. This fun & relatable conversation dives into her transformation from achievement-oriented goal-setter to intentional mother finding joy in the everyday moments. From her spiritual awakening at the advent of pregnancy to her disciplined approach to postpartum recovery, Angela shares how her drive for excellence now fuels a beautiful family life rather than career ambitions. Whether you're battling perfectionism, seeking balance in motherhood, or wondering how to maintain your standards while raising tiny humans, this authentic conversation delivers wisdom every mom needs to hear.

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Redefining Success

Angela gets refreshingly honest about shifting her high standards from external achievements to family excellence. After struggling with fertility issues and finally getting pregnant after nearly a year of trying, she experienced a profound spiritual moment that completely reset her priorities. She candidly shares how her perfectionist tendencies initially made the transition challenging, but ultimately helped her create structured routines that benefit her whole family. If you're struggling to reconcile your achievement-oriented personality with the unpredictable nature of parenting, Angela's insights are pure gold.

The Body After Baby

We loved hearing about Angela's super intentional, research-driven approach to postpartum recovery. Despite meticulously researching pregnancy and natural childbirth, she was stunned by recovery challenges nobody prepared her for. From seeking out pelvic floor therapy to her strategic return to weight training, we talk about how she went about giving her body the healing it needed. Her brave choice to tackle body image issues through therapy before her daughter's birth offers powerful inspiration for moms battling similar struggles. The detailed breakdown of her diastasis recti recovery and rehabilitation journey provides practical wisdom for anyone seeking help in this area as well.

Building an Exceptional Family Life

Angela outlines how she and her husband are approaching crafting an intentional family culture based on shared values, even if it may be countercultural. She's super real about their approach to partnership (we took notes and you will, too!), and the profound way his support has affected her lau

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