How often have you been hit with the "I have to" or "I got to" that is then followed up with a disappointing sense of obligation? I've been there and many of us have. When we use disempowering language it's unlikely we will take action. So instead of saying "I have to," change it to "I get to." This change in perspective will give you the confidence to take action.

What words have you deleted from your vocabulary to avoid feeling disempowered?

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Identity is such a powerful force in our lives. It determines our mood, our perspective and the actions we take or don't take. One can argue that it is the more influential aspect of ourselves.

Today's reading comes from "The Power of One More" by Ed Mylett. " Ch 1 Pg 8 "Are you willing to sacrifice who you are for who you could be? [...]give yourself the gift of taking control by dictating internal messages instead of being governed by external forces that have been undermining your happiness, possibly since the day you were born."

What parts of your current identity are still true? What aspects of your identity no longer serve you but you continue to hold onto out of fear of the unknown?

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Lately I've been checking my language on a daily basis I catch it. Sometimes I'll say "try" or "can't" or some other word that isn't going to help me achieve my goals or help me become a more evolved person. And in my episode with Betsy Heller we talked about language and how it can shift your whole perspective in a positive way. She has some insight into using gratitude to change your life and overcoming fear with faith and humor so definitely check it out. My questions today is "What language are you using? And it empowering you or weakening you and holding you back from who you're meant to be?"

Language can shift your whole perspective in a positive way! @achieversrealty had some powerful insight on using gratitude to change your life and overcoming fear with faith and humor!

Full episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6DIzb15H5xCNpxUcK0vIKv?si=5YvvjvoDQvyd4ujm7GQd4A

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As I'm going to the day, working at home, passing by the girls as they're talking with their momma, I hear these conversations going on where Kari's teaching Makena how to read. It wasn't until recently, last week or so, where something just clicked for Makena and now she's reading! She's reading words on her own and I'm just so amazed they're proud of her. What that taught me…what that reminded me was the compound interest principle…the compound effect that we can have in our lives. Makena put in the time, she worked on her skills and she kept trying. It was repetitive and she unknowingly was letting time play on her side. She invested in learning how to read and at some point that compound interest caught up and now she's reading! This is the same case for us as adults. Every day, whether we know it or not, we're investing in our future with the small habits we operate with everyday…they're very powerful!

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Gratitude is everything. I love this episode with Betsy Heller that you'll see shortly. It is powerful. I remember this story of a mentor of mine. I was coming to him because I was not in a good place, I was expecting something other than what he told me. And I was not happy with what he said. He said "What are you grateful for?". And I didn't want to hear that. I wanted something that fed my ego a little bit more. But when you find gratitude, when you find things to be grateful for and you continually operate from a space of gratitude, a place of gratitude, your brain's going to automatically start looking for more things to be grateful for. And imagine a life filled with gratitude. That's a pretty damn good life.

#Gratitude is everything!

Tomorrow we'll be releasing our episode with @achieversrealty about overcoming fear with gratitude, faith and humor!

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Creating a Winning Mindset with 4 Routines

Tune in to hear a short inspirational talk about how to create a winning mindset with 4 Routines

Guest: Pete Middleton | Real Estate

Host: David A. Moya

Attitude Proceeds Performance

Tune in to hear a short inspirational talk about how attitude proceeds perfromance.

Guest: Tim Van Damm | Real Estate

Host: David A. Moya

Check out our episode with Danielle Short where we talk about actions and identity. Once your identity is clear, then naturally your brain will start working so your actions match your identity.

"You have to be something first before you start the doing-ness to have it. So I have to see myself as a successful real estate agent first. I had to create that idea of myself. Then I start the doing-ness of what a successful real estate does." - Danielle Short

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Katiana loves doing puzzles. Katiana is my youngest daughter. She's two. I love observing her. Seeing her start a puzzle, get frustrated, continue by trying more puzzle pieces and eventually she figures it out…through trial and error. This reminded me of the saying that "failure is the way," that "the path to success is paved with failure." If she didn't pick up a puzzle piece and attempted to put the puzzle together, it would never happen. So much of life is like that, even in adulthood. So if you are having a challenge right now figuring out your puzzle pieces, keep at it, don't give up. You can do this.

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Overcoming Fear with Gratitude, Faith & Humor

Tune in to hear a short inspirational talk about overcoming fear with gratitude, faith and humor.

Guest: Betsy Heller | Real Estate

Host: David A. Moya