The Real Relationship Rapport

We cannot convince someone that they are going in the wrong direction, if they don't think so. If a person cannot find the value in themselves, you cannot convince them that they have value. If the house has structure issues, you cannot convince someone who does not see what structure issues are that there is a problem. So this episode is about the fact that you cannot love someone on a level that they do not recognize in themselves. You cannot tell someone that they are worthy, if they do not see their worth. There are a lot of relationships that are struggling because people do not want to do their self work. Everyone on the outside cannot be your cheerleaders if you don't think there's something to cheer for. Welcome to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk.

Wooooooo... A lot of people can relate to this. We all have dated, experienced a break up and hopefully spent some time alone with yourself. You been single for a year, now 4 years have passed... No real urge to date, pick someone to court or further things seriously with anyone. What is it? What is truly, keeping you happy single?

Tonight Jay And I are talking about when good people give up.

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Welcome back to Ep 13, of The RRR :

We are discussing a great topic:

Being with a man who possesses high emotional intelligence means encountering a partner who is empathetic, attentive, and understanding.This man requires courage and the willingness to be vulnerable, sharing your innermost thoughts and emotions authentically.

In this episode we talk about what people do not want to discuss, because are they sure what they are asking for?

https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/understanding-emotional-intelligence-what-does-it-take-to-build-a-relationship-with-an-emotionally

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When we project our dreams onto others, we often overlook the importance of authenticity in relationships. True fulfillment comes from connecting with others on a genuine level, rather than expecting them to fulfill our desires.

1. Instead of relying on others to make your dreams a reality, channel that energy into nurturing your own aspirations.
2. Letting go of the expectation that others will fulfill your dreams, you open up a world of possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment.
3. Growth requires self work too
4. People should not control your personal happiness
5. By relying too heavily on others to fulfill your dreams, you diminish your self-worth and agency.

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A lot of relationships back then were not the best but the respect never wavered. Today we are willing to go to therapy, unlearn and leave unhealthy set ups. What did you learn from what you saw growing up? vs what you do now?

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That's a personal problem stop making it about the other person.

What are you doing individually without that person to improve. Another adult cannot be your life, what is it that interest you?

A lot of being like substance so everyone outside of them turn into personal entertainment.

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Just because a person put up with a lot from you for too long... doesn't mean they have to continue staying. People take good people for granted all the time and that entitlement sinks in.

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Which one are you?

Do you balance out your relationships?

A lot of people are in relationships to take and take from people.

Jay & Chan discuss it all with live messages.

We had a great discussion on things to think about when you bunny hop around relationships to avoid growing up.

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Society talks about men being picky for all the wrong reasons, but what about women looking for the ultimate ride? Not that ride nastttyyyyy !!! The ride of no labor, no job needed, no cooking, no cleaning, no helping, no expectations from you... but that man has to make your life perfect. That's not real. What are you willing to help a man with in the relationship?

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