Are you struggling with lingering pain in your marriage, even after you've done "the work?" In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the difficult topic of recurring pain in relationships, especially after experiences of betrayal, infidelity, or broken trust.

They explore the reality that while healing can occur, the pain can return and discuss why these triggers are common. Drawing from their own story of healing and working with couples, Rusty and Heather offer practical insights on:

Why past hurts can resurface in your marriage, even after counseling or forgiveness.

How to navigate those triggers without feeling like you're back at square one.

How to support your partner if they are triggered and how to manage your own emotions.

The importance of shifting your focus to gratitude and a deeper connection to God.

Practical ways to take your thoughts captive and make them obedient to Christ.

The power of walking through recovery together and understanding the journey your spouse is on.

This episode is not only for those who have experienced the pain of infidelity but also for couples working through any kind of lingering hurt. You'll hear insights that are essential for any marriage seeking a deeper connection and true restoration. Listen and gain hope as you learn to navigate the journey of marriage together with grace, understanding, and a heart set on healing.

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Is your marriage in a place where it feels like only a miracle can save it? In this powerful episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of needing a divine intervention in your relationship. Drawing from their own miracle marriage story and from the hundreds of prayer requests they have already received for their February prayer challenge, they explore the reality that many couples are desperate for a miracle, often without even realizing it.

If you're feeling like love has faded, you're just roommates, or you are facing a marriage crisis, this episode will be helpful to you. Discover practical steps you can take when you feel lost and like your marriage is broken beyond repair. Rusty and Heather share how to recognize a genuine need for a miracle, why it's essential to seek God's intervention, and the importance of faith, readiness, willingness, and action when you’re praying for a marriage miracle. Learn how to focus on your own growth while still fervently praying for your spouse. You’ll also hear about the importance of using the resources available - books, podcasts, and mentorship - and understanding that God’s timing is always perfect even when your timing isn’t.

Whether you're dealing with infidelity, betrayal, or a general sense of disconnect, this episode provides hope that miracles still happen today and that God can truly redeem your marriage. Tune in for encouragement and real-life strategies to move toward a restored relationship.

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Start the year strong by exploring all the ways The Redeemed Marriage can help you invest in your relationship in 2025. From our weekly podcast and marriage coaching to retreats, intensives, and monthly mentoring, we’ve designed resources to support every stage of your journey. Learn about our conferences, February Prayer Challenge, free resources, and how to stay connected with us on social media. Let’s make 2025 the year of intentional growth for your marriage!

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The holidays are often called the most wonderful time of the year, but for many, this season can bring pain to the surface. Whether you're dealing with betrayal, the loss of a loved one, or unmet expectations, the Christmas season can feel anything but joyful. Rusty and Heather share from their own experience of navigating infidelity during the holidays and offer practical tips to avoid the holiday blues. Tune in for a challenging and hope-filled message as they remind you that God may be writing a powerful story through your pain.

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This week, Rusty and Heather continue their conversation with Casey and Meygan Caston from Marriage365. In Part 2, hear what Casey and Meygan wish they could go back and tell their newlywed selves and uncover the number one issue couples bring to Marriage365 for help. Plus, things heat up as the conversation shifts to the bedroom! Don't miss this lively, fun, and insightful episode!

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This week Rusty and Heather are joined by Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage365. They share the powerful story of a rocky start to their marriage, nearly leading to divorce within the first three years. After reaching out for help, they found healing and now encourage couples worldwide. Tune in to hear their inspiring journey, learn about the incredible resources Marriage365 offers, and discover their brand-new book, 365 Connecting Questions for Couples.

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We're revisiting one of our most impactful episodes on the topic of triggers. Anyone who has experienced deep hurt knows how easily certain moments, places, or conversations can stir up painful memories. In the aftermath of infidelity, these triggers can be especially frequent and intense. While time can soften their grip, they have a way of resurfacing when least expected. Join us as we share how we faced and conquered the triggers that threatened to reopen old wounds in our marriage. 

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In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of control in marriage. Who should hold the reins in a healthy relationship? What happens when betrayal tips the balance? Using the backdrop of their own story of infidelity, they explore whether a temporary shift in control is necessary, how long it should last, and how to move forward to restore a healthy balance. Discover the freedom that comes with releasing control and building trust in this honest and practical conversation based on their own experience.

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In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss what it means to be a safe space for your spouse. Emotional safety is essential in marriage, allowing both partners to be vulnerable and open without fear. But what does this look like in practice? Listen in as they explore common barriers to safety; such as criticism, dismissing each other’s feelings, always needing to fix things, and defensiveness. Their discussion will unpack these behaviors and offer practical steps to become a source of love, acceptance, value, and respect for your spouse.

Does your marriage feel hopeless? Rusty and Heather use their journey through the darkest days of their marriage to share a miraculous story of healing and restoration after infidelity. Speaking directly to couples feeling hopeless, they offer insight and encouragement for those wondering if it’s possible to find hope again. Whether you're navigating deep struggles or simply need a reminder that change is possible, this message of hope is for you.

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