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  • The #1 Obstacle That Prevents Relationship Recovery

    Join our free FB support group for couples overcoming the impact of porn and sexual addiction on their relationship: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    In today's episode, we talk with Kyler Miller, a Couples Recovery Coach on our team about his own personal experience in overcoming addiction. We unpack the different pitfalls that both he and Rick and Katie fell into on this journey, helping men to avoid making the same mistakes they did, including the #1 obstacle that continued to stand in the way of full recovery...

    41 min
  • How Do I Know If We're Making Progress?

    Join our free support group for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com Men and their partners working towards recovery together often are wondering how they can know whether they are making progress? In today's episode, we speak with Tate Pearce, one of our Couples Recovery Advisors and Coaches who works weekly with the couples in our Relationship Rebuild program. Tate shares valuable insights based on the interactions he's had with many couples going through our unique system.

    40 min
  • 6 Principles That Will Help Her Rebuild Trust With You

    Join our FB support group for couple here: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    In today's episode, we unpack how there are 6 principles that are the major players in rebuilding trust with your partner who you’ve betrayed. Whether you're the betrayed or betraying partner listening to this, this will be an insightful discussion, giving you the understanding of what it will take to move forward together.

    47 min
  • 3 Mental Mindshifts To Make Recovery Feel Easier

    Join our free Facebook support group for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    In today’s episode, we discuss 3 Mental Mindshifts men can make that will help recovery feel easier and more authentically for themselves.

    Recovery isn’t just about the actions we take, it’s about the mindset and intention behind those actions. If men are making recovery efforts with the motivation of appeasing their partner, or without understanding why this matters deeply for their own lives, then recovery will be short lived.

    Ashon Turner, a personal trainer, avid learner, and Couples Recovery Advisor on our team here at Rewire4Success joins us and shares his own story of overcoming pornography addiction and how this important step helped him create a completely new trajectory for his life.

    48 min
  • Porn Addicted Partner? #1 Couples Recovery System That Helps You Rewire Your Brain

    Join our free Facebook support group for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    In this video, we share our story and how we developed on of the most comprehensive recovery systems for couples in the recovery space. This system based on neuroscience, psychology and the study of human behavior is changing lives, saving families and helping break generational cycles.

    To book a free Clarity Call, visit https://calendly.com/d/cqwv-ch2-ct9/clarity-call-w-rewire4success

    21 min
  • Were Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot Really Cheating?

    What makes certain unfaithful behaviors considered "cheating" or not?

    Join our free support group for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    The event caught on camera with Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and his mistress has has gone VIRAL on many levels. It's very clear to all who observed the couple's horrified faces, that this was not supposed to be seen by 50,000 people, let alone, millions of others on social media.

    We don't normally do content based on the latest news or viral trends, but this circumstance has brought up a lot of conversation and difficult emotions for women, and we believed it was worth talking about, especially given the work we do. Women across the globe are relating to the emotional devestation the CEOs wife and family at home are now inevitably going through, and many are speaking up about it.

    But what is it that made this so clearly cheating?

    And if that's cheating, then to be quite blunt, why is it that so many people have no concept of why betrayal by a partner who's actively masturbating day in and day out to other women is cheating too?

    Tonight, we're going to be discussing:

    - What makes something cheating or not cheating?

    - Why do so many people not see porn as cheating?

    - The entry point into conversations with your partner on this topic

    And MORE.

    37 min
  • Should I Take This Personal?

    Join our free Facebook support group for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    I remember the conversation clearly with Rick when he told me that this issue really wasn't "personal".

    I felt the trigger happen and the anger rush to my chest and my face as I recognized what he was really saying... I said, “Are you kidding me??? This isn’t personal??? I’m sorry but for me it’s really f*cking personal. For women, it affects everything in our lives - including how we feel about ourselves and how YOU our partner see us and feel about us… I’d say that’s pretty f*cking personal.” Maybe FOR MEN, this isn't personal.... ...but the horrific truth FOR WOMEN is this is VERY personal. So tonight e are going to share some pretty significant insights on this topic. (If you really want to come out the other side of this with your partner, you're not going to want to miss this.)

    In this episode, we'll be covering:

    • How reality can be completely opposite for each partner
      • One of the most critical pieces that allowed me to heal
        • One of the most critical pieces that allowed him to recover
        • AND MORE.

          31 min
        • It's Just Porn, What's The Big Deal?
          Join our free Facebook support group for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com
           
          I used believe that if I had an issue with porn, it must be because of my own insecurities.
           
          Afterall, porn isn't that big a deal because it isn't REAL right? It's just people on a screen. It's not the same as actually CHEATING.
           
          And isn't masturbation something natural that all humans do? Shouldn't we have the right to do what we want with our own body? Who am I to tell someone else that they shouldn't do this?
           
          If I don't get it, then it must be because I'm not a man. All men do this and they all undrestand each other.
           
          And maybe if I just took better care of myself I'd be either attractive enough that he wouldn't need it, or at least feel confident enough to not be threatend by it.
           
          Us women just need to accept that this is part of who they are? If we have a problem with it, it's on us to figure that out... right?
           
          What a confusing and gut wrenching place to be in, where we gaslight ourselves so much because we are TRYING to reconcile whats going on inside of us, with what society tells us we're supposed to think and feel about this.
           
          Today, we're going to go into:
           
          • Why your instincts are screaming at you when you know your partner is actively using porn
            • What the "big deal" really is with porn
              • What to do next if you're relationship is struggling due to porn
                 
                And MORE.
                45 min
              • How Can He Stop The Intrusive Thoughts?

                Join our free Facebook group for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

                Many men don't know that the years of their porn use and of objectification of women is even that significant of an issue... until they realize this is destroying their relationship and they try to stop.

                At that point, when the unwanted thoughts and cravings for people outside of their relationship persist, it feels overwhelming and defeating. They don't know how to handle the frequency of these things or why it's happening, and fear being honest with their partner about these unfaithful feelings.

                This often keeps them hiding in shame and secrecy and results in cycles of shame, guilt, overwhelm and relapses. It's clear that overcoming this is much more than just a decision.

                For women, when they become aware of what's actually happening internally for him, they feel helpless and hopeless. How will he ever be a faithful partner if even when he doesn't want these things consciously, they're still happening?

                How will I ever be able to feel normal again and like there isn't a threat around every corner? How will I ever be able to trust him and feel chosen or connected?

                So in this episode, we'll be sharing insights into this difficult topic and going over:

                - What's happening for men when they're experiencing intrusive thoughts

                - What NOT to do when this is happening (for him and for her)

                - What you CAN do when this is happening (for him and for her)

                AND MORE.

                50 min

              About The Rewire4Success Podcast

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              After porn addiction almost destroyed our family, my wife Katie and I we knew we had to use the things we learned in this painful journey to help others.