The Ring The Bling and All The Things

In this episode, co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about budgets and how to avoid the BIG buts that may arise when it comes to wedding planning, and hurt feelings over who is paying for what.

It stinks! And no one likes to talk about it. But everyone needs to have the money conversation at some point when wedding planning. We’re talking about budgets in this episode and the need for contingency plans!

Who’s paying for what? And have you thought about how much control that may give a particular person over that aspect of your wedding? Avoid the BIG BUT’s (as we like to call them) and have the difficult money talk to set expectations. Tune in to hear why communication is key!

Don’t assume anything when it comes to wedding budgets and who may be paying for what. We all know what happens when you assume, right? Tune in to this episode to hear why you should create a budget and have open, honest and frank discussions up front.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL UNDERSTAND/LEARN/DISCOVER/FIND OUT: 

• DISCOVER - How having an open, honest and frank discussion with friends and family about your wedding budget will save miscommunication later.
• UNDERSTAND - Why, no matter how big or how small, you have to have a wedding budget clearly defined.
• LEARN - To set wedding budget expectations so no one’s feelings get hurt.

Share your budget tips, tools, successes and mishaps with us! Tag us on Facebook or Instagram @theringtheblingandallthethings 

While you’re there, make sure you follow us @theringtheblingandallthethings so you can see behind the scenes where me, Mike & Sharon will take you from engagement to your wedding day and beyond with The Ring, The Bling & All The Things

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things Podcast, visit: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/

Connect with hosts:
Kristina Stubblefield
Website: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinastubblefield_/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristinastubblefield
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCODw_E9Qq-7f7F9tMZGWWYg/videos
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristina-stubblefield-057074a/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kristinastubblefieldpage

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lloydsflorist

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aperfectplanevents

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In this episode, co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about the first 3 steps you should take after engagement to start planning your wedding day.

You know your wedding day wants. You know your non-negotiables and must haves. Do you have a wedding day contingency fund? Look out! We’re talking the “B” word in this episode! Yep… BUDGET! Did you know three quarters of couples go over budget when planning their wedding? Don’t get nickel and dimed to death.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL UNDERSTAND/LEARN/DISCOVER/FIND OUT:
DISCOVER - how to avoid disappointment and hurt feelings by having frank and honest budgeting conversations with your fiancé and contributing family members.
UNDERSTAND - the first 3 steps every couple must take so all other planning can fall in place.
FIND OUT - why having a contingency fund when planning your big day is important and could make all the difference and keep you on or under budget.

Share your wedding day planning process with us or tell us about your first 3 steps. Tag us on Facebook or Instagram @theringtheblingandallthethings 

While you’re there, make sure you follow us @theringtheblingandallthethings so you can see behind the scenes where me, Mike & Sharon will take you from engagement to your wedding day and beyond with The Ring, The Bling & All The Things

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things:
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVEfTglDwhfMsdRFL_nFIzw
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ringblingallthethings

Connect with hosts:
Kristina Stubblefield
Website: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinastubblefield_/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristinastubblefield
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCODw_E9Qq-7f7F9tMZGWWYg/videos
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristina-stubblefield-057074a/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kristinastubblefieldpage

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lloydsflorist

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aperfectplanevents

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In this episode, co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk with mortgage loan officer Pam Kimmel of New Washington State Bank about buying a home, down payments, credit scores, loan types and much more.

The wedding is over and now the hunt is on for a new home. You’ll want to tune in to this episode to familiarize yourself with mortgage loan terminology and to understand that a good loan officer will help you determine which loan best fits your situation.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL UNDERSTAND the different types of home loan programs available, the terminology used and why you and your spouse should be pre-approved before you start searching for a home.

Will you and your fiance be purchasing a home together before or after the wedding? Share your responses with us and tag us on Facebook or Instagram @theringtheblingandallthethings 

While you’re there, make sure you follow us @theringtheblingandallthethings so you can see behind the scenes where me, Mike & Sharon will take you from engagement to your wedding day and beyond with The Ring, The Bling & All The Things

ABOUT OUR GUEST: Pam Kimmel's career started in a credit department and from there, she went into finance.  Pam began her work with mortgage loans in 1995.  There have been many changes through the years but she truly enjoys helping people that are seeking to buy a home, refinance a home, buy a 2nd home or take equity out for home improvements. Pam likes for her clients to feel comfortable and knowledgeable of every step of the process.  She also enjoys educating clients on the process of building a home vs buying an already existing home and walking them through the process of a home that may need a lot of renovations.  Pam ensures her clients get the right loan to fit for their needs to achieve their goal.  Pam excels at working with first time home buyers and enjoys walking them through the steps and making the process as simple as possible to help though understanding the loan process.  Pam says that one of the most rewarding accomplishments that she can have as loan officer is to have past clients refer their friends and family to her.

WEBSITE: https://www.secureloandocs.com/app/13237770
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NewWashBank

Please note: This episode was originally recorded in April 2021. Please check with Pam for updated rates and information discussed in the episode.

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things:
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVEfTglDwhfMsdRFL_nFIzw
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ringblingallthethings

Connect with hosts:
Kristina Stubblefield
Website: https://kristinastubblefield.com/

In this episode, co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about the rehearsal dinner; what it is, why to do it, who traditionally pays, when and where people plan them and more.

Tune in to hear why the rehearsal dinner is an event in and off itself and why you need to budget for it.

Listen in while co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about the rehearsal dinner, who to invite and why separate invitations to this exclusive event are suggested.

The event before the main event is called the rehearsal dinner and is the time to join the two families together, for the wedding party to meet and an opportune time for the engaged couples to thank all the major players!

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL UNDERSTAND why it is just as important to budget and plan for the rehearsal dinner as it is the wedding itself.

Share your rehearsal dinner stories with us and tag us on Facebook or Instagram @theringtheblingandallthethings 

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things:
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVEfTglDwhfMsdRFL_nFIzw

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ringblingallthethings

Connect with hosts:
Kristina Stubblefield
Website: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristinastubblefield_/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristinastubblefield
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCODw_E9Qq-7f7F9tMZGWWYg/videos
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristina-stubblefield-057074a/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kristinastubblefieldpage

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lloydsflorist

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aperfectplanevents

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In this episode, co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk with best friends Mandy & Allison about what being a Maid of Honor means and how going the extra mile will keep the bride from getting bogged down in the details.

Tune in to hear best friends, Mandy and Allison, who were both recently married and served as Maid of Honor in each other’s weddings, talk about what the Maid of Honor role really means and how going the extra mile will keep the bride from getting bogged down in the details.

Listen in while co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk with best friends Mandy & Allison who served as Maid of Honor in each other’s weddings. They’ll cover everything about the Maid of Honor and other wedding party roles, choosing wisely for those roles, the list of to do’s, the details, going above and beyond and how a great M.O.H. just makes it happen!

Do you know how to choose the perfect Maid of Honor? Think of this episode as an enlightening bootcamp on how to not feel obligated to choose anyone not in your corner… and how hand picking the right person will ensure it’s all about TEAM BRIDE from engagement to wedding day.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL FIND OUT how to pick and/or be the perfect Maid of Honor, what the role means and why communicating expectations is so important.

Share with us how your Maid of Honor went above and beyond to make your day special and tag us on Facebook or Instagram @theringtheblingandallthethings 

While you’re there, make sure you follow us @theringtheblingandallthethings so you can see behind the scenes where me, Mike & Sharon will take you from engagement to your wedding day and beyond with The Ring, The Bling & All The Things

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things Podcast, visit: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/

Kristina Stubblefield
Coaching & consulting: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

The Ring The Bling And All The Things Community Platform: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/ 

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/

In this episode, co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about dated wedding & reception traditions that you are not bound to follow… And that in these modern times, you and your fiancé get to decide what fits you best. It’s your day… you do what YOU want! YOU DO YOU!

Tune in to this week’s “THINGS YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO” episode to hear about the BOLD brides that have come before you in pink wedding dresses, served pie instead of cake, walked themselves down the aisle, said no to a flower girl, no to a ring bearer, and heck no to a bouquet toss! 

Listen in while co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about dated wedding and reception traditions that you DO NOT have to feel obligated to follow. Your wedding is about YOU! You get to decide what fits you and your beloved the best. If it is important to you and you want to do it, then do it! If not, LET IT GO!

Did you know that the only vote that counts when planning a wedding and reception is the one wearing the white dress? And, did you know that the white dress is just an option by the way? You aren’t a pre-boxed “Barbie Bride” so don’t try to be one to please everyone else. It’s your day! Do what YOU want!

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER that there is no wedding book that tells you exactly what you should do. You get to write your own rule book!

Share your BOLD non-traditional wedding or reception stories with us and tag us on Facebook or Instagram @theringtheblingandallthethings 

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things Podcast, visit: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/

Kristina Stubblefield
Coaching & consulting: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

The Ring The Bling And All The Things Community Platform: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/ 

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/

In this episode, co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon discuss when and how much to tip your wedding vendors who show extraordinary effort by going above and beyond to make your day special.

Tune in to hear why, when, where and how much to tip your wedding day vendors.

Listen in while co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about gratuities for your wedding day vendors. Sharon gets specific on percentages and amounts that should be considered and made a part of your budget when planning your BIG day.

Did you know some of your vendor contracts may have gratuities built in? Make sure you read the fine print and understand who is actually getting the tip! Is it the company or the people actually doing the work at your event?

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL UNDERSTAND the fine print of all your wedding day contracts! Some may already have gratuities built in.

Share with us how you handled tipping your wedding day vendors and tag us on Facebook or Instagram @theringtheblingandallthethings 

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things Podcast, visit: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/

Kristina Stubblefield
Coaching & consulting: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

The Ring The Bling And All The Things Community Platform: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/ 

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/

Every bridal party wants their reception entrance to be epic; special music, choreographed dances, getting the crowd hyped up and more to set the tone for the rest of the evening. Have you ever thought about how you will leave your reception? Don’t you want to leave with as grand of an exit as the entrance! Stay tuned to this episode as co-hosts Kristina, Mike & Sharon talk about send-offs, exits and how to get out of your reception with just as much enthusiasm as you entered it. 

 Timestamps:
• [06:15] Sharon “I am a huge fan now of the cold sparklers. I If I could have them at every wedding. I probably would”
• [11:17] Michael “I had one bride and groom that I read a story on that did palm leaves. So they had a palm leaf laying on their napkin and then as they everybody exited, they were waving palm leaves, even tambourines.” 
• [13:48] Kristina “It can be something that yeah, symbolizes something with the couple in your all's lives. It doesn't have to be something you've even seen before” 
• [15:50] Sharon “I'm really falling in love with and can't take credit for my my couples come up with it. I have a lot of couples now doing a last dance.”

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things Podcast, visit: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/

Kristina Stubblefield
Coaching & consulting: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

The Ring The Bling And All The Things Community Platform: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/ 

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/

Have you ever caught a fragrant and pleasant smell of something that takes you back to a sweet memory? What if you were able to incorporate that scent into your wedding and reception? Well, you can! This once ancient concept of scenting has come back to life, and you too can scent your event and create an immersive and perfectly balanced sensory experience for your guests and yourself. Add some magic, express your aesthetic in a completely unique way and stay tuned to this episode to hear our special guest Tiffany Rose Goodyear explain how scenting works and how you can incorporate into your wedding day.

When it comes to understanding and leveraging the power of scent, Tiffany Rose Goodyear is the nose that knows. Her groundbreaking approach of using scent to enhance experiences has led to collaborations with corporate clients and event planners across the nation. The result? Unparalleled engagement and brand lift in the eyes of guests who enjoy Tiffany’s first-of-their-kind, fully immersive, and customized sensory-based events.

Timestamps:
• [05:00] Tiffany “I'm kind of like bridging that gap between our bodies and how we experience the world not just through sight and sound and knowing that we're intentionally creating environments that we want to remember forever.”
• [15:48] Sharon talks about how some historical buildings have unpleasant scents, and how having the option to customize a scent for them would be ideal for couples wanting to use those venues.
• [28:09] Mike “I could see this using this product along with our flowers.” 
• [30:00] Kristina “I am so glad that we talked about this on our podcast, because I think this could open up an opportunity for people, when we talk about uniqueness and having their own event.”

For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things Podcast, visit:
https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/

Kristina Stubblefield
Coaching & consulting: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

The Ring The Bling And All The Things Community Platform: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/ 

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/

Guest Information
Tiffany Rose Goodyear
Website: http://www.scent-ex.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scenting_events/

The hair stylist you select for your bridal party is one of your most important hires. There is so much to understand and to consider when planning your wedding hair looks. Listen to this episode to hear co-hosts Kristina, Mike and Sharon talk with hairdresser, Stacie Hutchinson about considering the aesthetic of your stylist, scheduling trial runs, gathering inspiration photos and when a 2nd stylist is needed. Stay tuned because this episode contains ALL THE THINGS a bride should consider when hiring a stylist for herself and the bridal party!

 Stacie's career in the hair industry started in 2005 and although her first love was bridal make-up, she found bridal hair to be her lasting passion and creative outlet. She has pursued additional education, so she remains current on trends and all the tips and tricks. After over 17 years in the industry, Stacie still gets excited about getting to be part of each bride’s special day! Stacie also has worked for the Kentucky Opera placing wigs and doing makeup.

Timestamps:
• [02:41] Sharon “one of the first things I want to point out is, don't assume that the person who does your hair normally regularly wants to do your wedding hair” 
• [03:26] Stacie “I think then the top thing to consider is the style of your stylist. Not every stylist has the same style. Some of them are better at boho, some of them are better at sleek looks. And some just aren't versed in using added additives to the hair, like extensions or buns that make the hair make you look like you have more hair than what you have. 
• [18:38] Kristina “When you're going to book your stylist for that day. How many can you have but then also do they? Do they find someone else to help them or work with them?” 
• [31:19] Michael “what's one tip that you would give up or tell a bride before she started looking or even thinking about hair?”

 For more information on The Ring The Bling And All The Things Podcast, visit:
 https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/

Kristina Stubblefield
Coaching & consulting: https://kristinastubblefield.com/
Website: https://www.ringblingallthethingspodcast.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theringtheblingandallthethings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theringtheblingandallthethings/

The Ring The Bling And All The Things Community Platform: https://www.ringblingallthethings.com/

Michael Gaddie
Website: https://www.lloydsflorist.net/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lloydsflorist/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloydsflorist/ 

Sharon Rumsey
Website: https://aperfectplanevents.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/APerfectPlanKentuckiana/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aperfectplaneventskentuckiana/

Guest Information
Stacie Hutchison
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bombshellred