Our circumstances can certainly affect our quality of life.

How we respond to our circumstances, however, is often far more important.

When we only look outside ourselves, we neglect the area that actually needs attention the most.

External factors can't fix internal problems.

You've got this.

Identifying problems and working to minimize their impact can be a worthy effort.

Does worrying about them ever do any good?

If there's something to do about a problem, do it.

Otherwise, let it go.

Worry offers no additional options.

You don't need to carry such a burden.

You've got this.

Our habits - not only in action but also in thought and emotion - have a significant effect on our quality of life.

Fortunately, they're one of the few things we can actually control.

However, they're often quite difficult to change.

Give yourself grace when you struggle.

You've got this.

Mistakes are an unavoidable part of life.

Learn from them, fix them, or forget them if you'd like.

Even regret can be a totally appropriate response.

None of these options necessitate beating yourself up or rumination.

Let your past guide your present.

After that, let it go.

You've got this.

Accepting others into our lives is a constant balancing act, learning to live with both their beauty and their flaws.

Sometimes, though, we tolerate those who only bring us down.

This is often driven by some false sense of obligation.

You don't owe anybody your sense of peace.

You've got this.

It can be easy to let all the little details get in the way of getting something done.

Often, these little details aren't even really that important.

Focus on the essentials.

Start with what matters most and move forward from there.

It might not be perfect but it'll get done.

You've got this.

Considering others' feelings is important for fostering rich and meaningful relationships.

Yet, if we always put others' feelings ahead of our own, driven by a sense of unworthiness, we often foster only resentment and isolation.

Your feelings are worthy of consideration, too.

You've got this.

We can often avoid people we don't like.

When that person is us, however, this isn't an option.

Wherever we go, there we are.

It's our most important relationship.

Give it extra attention, patience, and respect.

Who knows what you'll find?

You might not be so bad after all.

You've got this.

How do your expectations of yourself affect your life?

Are they a net benefit or a net detriment?

Why do your expectations matter?

Are they driven by your values or by someone else's?

Expect only the best from your expectations.

If they aren't truly serving you, let them go.

You've got this.

External validation has its value.

For example, favorable feedback from those around us might help us build confidence.

When others' approval calls for sacrificing our own dreams, goals, and values, however, what purpose does it serve?

It's our own validation we need the most.

You've got this.