The Root of Power - Embody Peace, Heal Trauma & Be Happy

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free That weight on your chest. The feeling that you can never get enough oxygen. That weakness you've felt in your body. The racing thoughts. Jumping to the worst case scenario. Yep, I'm talking about anxiety. Or the more useful way to put it, experiencing anxious thoughts and feelings. I heard recently that anxiety is the most common cause for ER visits. Anxiety is also the most common mental health diagnosis. Anxiety is something almost every one of my clients deals with, so Ive dealt with it almost daily for almost a decade now. Its safe to say I'm an expert in healing it. Not just teaching my clients to cope, in actualy healing it. Yes, its possible. These are the tools I use the most often, I hope they give you some breathing room, some calm and a lot of peace. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free One of the reasons so many people struggle with trying to be happy all the time and only allowing high vibe emotions is that its not possible to do. When we try to do something impossible, mind becomes frustrated and puts more energy into it, hoping that'll fix it, and because it's impossible mind becomes stuck in this loop. If you've been feeling like you can't just be happy, its likely because you've been operating under this paradigm. Emotions are an all or nothing game, either they're all allowed or nothing comes through. So many of my clients come to me disembodied (shut down emotionally) because they've been burying unpleasant emotions, and part of their healing is to become embodied (present in their body aka feeling emotions). I discuss why so much spiritual bypassing is happening, how it's creating suffering and a way of thinking about emotions that is much more useful if we want to be free. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free Being afraid of failure is something I help clients with all the time. Because subconscious is wired to avoid an percieved threat, and most people are taught that failing is bad, of course mind will then learn to avoid failure. But think about the happiest people you know, they aren't letting fear hold them back. In fact, they're likely the people facing their fears and doing the scary thing, and loving it! Getting comfortable with discomfort is one of the most powerful shifts you can make, and being okay with failure is part of that. I discuss where fear of failure comes from, how subconscious becomes wired to avoid it, the consequences of doing so and how to break the patterns. Get ready to embody the courage of Moana my sweet croissant. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free One of the prices you pay for growth and healing is losing people along the way. That can be a painful experience, and it can make growth seem lonely (and honestly, sometimes it is). Healing and growth puts you into a different energetic state, which means you may no longer resonate with the people you used to vibe with. This is so normal! And it's something all my clients deal with at some point in their healing journey. Healing can be lonely. I talk about what I see most often in my clients, my thoughts on leaving people behind and what happens when growing means outgrowing. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free Struggling with feeling like your life has no meaning? Let's give it some purpose. All most of us heard growing up was the advice to find our purpose to pursue our passions and to be useful. Somewhere along the way this got a whole generation of people feeling hopeless and dissatisfied. Finding and living your purpose is a skill, but most people have no idea how to do it. In this episode I teach you how to find it, and then how to start putting energy towards your purpose. It's stupidly simple, and trust me it's going to blow your mind. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free Joelle and Alysa are literally a dream team, they run Beyond The Weights and they're married (happily, see what I mean by dream team?). They're fitness coaches who specialize in metabolism and working with the whole person. They discuss balancing all the things happening in life We talk their journey into fitness, where most people get into trouble physically, the role of metabolism in health and taking a holistic approach to health. Website: https://www.beyondtheweights.net/ IG: @beyondtheweights Their podcast: Beyond The Weights Podcast

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free Maybe you try and cover up your loneliness by becoming what you think other people will like. This is one of the fastest ways to lose yourself, to feel miserable and alone. Being palatable isn't the cure you think it is, and in fact it makes you more isolated because then no one knows the real you. "Yeah, Amanda, thats the point, if no one really gets to know me they can't decide they actually hate me." I hear that and I'll challenge it. If no one really knows you, no one can really love you. In this episode I talk about the actual cure for loneliness, vulnerability. Yep. Being who you are, darkness and all. Being authentic lets people get to know the real you, and gives people the opportunity to actually connect with you. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free Perhaps you find yourself in crisis after crisis, situationship after situationship or constantly putting out fires. That can be so exhausting, and let me tell you why that's happening. Trauma retunes your nervous system for chaos. Humans are adaptable little gremlins, in fact we're so good that we will learn how to thrive in chaos. Because your system sets trauma as the default, when you start healing you may find yourself unconsciously seeking out drama and chaos. In this episode I talk about the science behind why that happens, and why its a problem. I discuss how the nervous system adapts to match the environment and why it takes awareness and intentional action to heal. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free Have you ever watched an animal wrapped up so tightly that they can't get free? And they struggle and struggle, and get more tightly wound until they immobolize themselves. Maybe you've done this too - struggled and strained and tried to pull away only to become more stuck and more entrenched? This is something I see all the time, and while it's a normal instinct, it only makes us more stuck. In this episode I talk about how more often than not, the secret to breaking free is to surrender so that the tension and pressure releases. When you stop fighting, your nervous system calms and you can do what's actually helpful - think. Fighting doesn't help you. Struggling doesn't help you. Being calm and having access to calm and creativity does. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach

Free Stuff: https://livemyhappyhealth.com/free Trauma changes you and leaves predictable patterns of behavior. The way the mind and subconscious processes an event determines if the event gets coded as traumatic or not, and if the event gets coded as traumatic there are predictable somatic responses and thought patterns related to the event. Mind has a goal of survival, always. When data about an event gets processed as trauma, mind will continue to prioritize survival and for many people this leads to being stuck in perpetual survival mode, aka fight or flight. In this episode I talk about some of the most common behaviors I see in clients who have unhealed trauma. I discuss how mind/unconscious reads data about events and why sometimes that data gets stuck and how that leads to being in chronic survival mode. Website: www.livemyhappyhealth.com IG: @amanda_chils FB: @amandachilscoach