The Sexual Alchemy Podcast

In this episode, I'll put myself on the spot. I've decided to stop censoring myself and reveal some things about me and who I am as a sexual being. In perhaps one of the most vulnerable episodes I've done so far, I'll share what I went through as a sexual healer at the beginning of my career and how I was perceived by men in the past. I'll also share how I discovered who I truly am, my mission, desires, what gets my juices flowing, and how I can help those men who are willing to join me on this fun ride.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- How my work as a sexual healer started

- What were the results of working with requests coming from a place of shame and disrespect

- Why I decided to change my approach to my work in the sexual arena

- Who I am as a sexual being and why I love helping men discover their true sexual identity

- How my conscious Succubus helps me do my job as a sexual alchemist

I'm so passionate about being a sexual alchemist, because it allows me to go on a trip with men, healing deep shame, fear and conditioning habits that won't let them be who they really are as sexual beings. Thanks to this job, I've discovered my love for dwelling in, playing with and soaking in revealing sexual energy and arousal, not just mine, but yours too. For me, it is the finest gourmet food for my energy system.

Resources:

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

- Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

Today's episode is about low libido and sexual energy, the relationship between them, how to access your sexual energy and how to use your sexual energy to boost your libido. We will explore the various reasons why you might feel your libido fading or fizzling out. We will also go through three simple yet effective techniques that will help you connect with your sexual energy, and with time, learn how to make it grow, expand or be more intense at will.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- What sexual energy is and how we can access it

- What things can make your sexual energy feel low

- The difference between arousal and desire

- How we can switch on the Pilot Light

- What is the Magical Dial, and how we can access it

- How we can move our sexual energy throughout our bodies

It is helpful to know how to access your sexual energy, even if you don't feel it fading or fizzling out. Once you access it whenever you want, you can use it to play with it. You don't need to activate your sexual energy exclusively to have sex with someone or to masturbate; you can also use it to experience wider, broader, and more cosmic experiences.

Resources:

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

- Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

In this episode, we will talk about who you really are as a man, lover, and sexual being, we'll talk about the true YOU that lives in your heart. This show is not about the stories you tell yourself and others about who you think you are or who you are supposed to be. It is about discovering your own authority and discovering your potential as a multi-layered, multi-dimensional being in your erotic and sexual encounters.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- The difference between who you think you are and who you really are

- Why do some men tend to believe they are not capable of intimate sexual expression

- How powerful it can be to discover what turns you on, not only on a physical level

- Why this show is not for you if you see sex as a way of getting only physical and ego pleasure

The Sexual Alchemy journey is an invitation to explore the depths of who you really are, the depths of your soul, and bring that side of you into your sensual and sexual life. If you are interested in exploring that side of you and would like to bring those parts into your sensual, erotic, and sexual encounters to increase your pleasure, I can help you do that.

Resources:

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

- Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

Today, I'm joined by Lara Besbrode, Founder and Certified Matchmaker at The Matchmaker UK. After a successful 30-year career in PR and Marketing, Lara reimagined her passion for people and networking and created her own matchmaking service.

In this episode, we look at the world of matchmaking from Lara's business viewpoint, or as she defines it, from the top of the dating food chain. We discuss how dating apps can affect people's morale, self-esteem and mental health. We also explored the services The Matchmaker offers, who it is for, and we even go through some funny and happy ending stories from people who worked with Lara.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- How Lara Besbrode approaches matchmaking and who is on her team

- The difference between using dating apps and The Matchmaker's services

- How dating apps can blow people's self-worth and confidence

- Why the matchmaking industry gets negative press and how Lara's company is changing that

- How someone recognises that they are ready to start dating again

- How to deal with FOMO in the dating world

What many people don't ask themselves before jumping into a dating app is, what will this do to me? Am I ready to face criticism, experience rudeness, receive inappropriate messages or be ghosted? What about the time and the energy spent on it? On the other hand, when people commit to a matchmaking agency's journey, they get into an open-minded space of expansive energy. Perhaps they change their wardrobe, they get restyled or lose weight, and they might end up meeting someone of their own accord. It may look like magic, but it is the product of their commitment to an openness and self-discovery journey.

Resources:

- The Matchmaker https://www.thematchmaker.uk/

- The Matchmaker on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematchmakeruk/

- The Matchmaker on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMatchmakerUK

- Connect with Lara Bresbrode: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lara-besbrode-thematchmakeruk/

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

- Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

I have something special to share today. I'll be your guide on a Heart Expansion Meditation Session. Throughout this meditation session, we will expand our capacity to bring our focus, attention, and awareness to our hearts and to do some expansion with it. Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down, relax, and join me on this delicious, unique experience.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- What is under the control of our heart energy center, our heart chakra

- How to perform a heart expansion meditation session, its benefits, and how to get the most out of it

When we look at the world through spiritual eyes or energy eyes, we will notice there is no difference between us and the heart energy fields we can create. They are one and the same, they are what we are all made of. We can lean into it, absorb as much as we want, and feel its unconditional love energy creating a new kind of awareness in our physical bodies.

Resources:

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

- Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

Today, we will talk about penetration, not from the physical point of view but, as usual, from a broader, more expansive perspective. We will explore different kinds of penetrations, learn how to enhance our experiences giving or receiving a penetration, and understand why physical penetration gets tedious with time. I will also share a couple of exploratory exercises to have a more profound experience with penetration.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- What the mainstream world thinks penetration is and what it really is

- The ways of penetrating other than the physical one

- Two simple and effective exercises to take our penetration experiences to the next level

Although physical penetration is fantastic, I believe it is not enough by itself. It is possible to experience and feel a whole new set of sensations and pleasure if you bring different energies and qualities to it. Once you drop down into it, it will be mind-blowing.

Resources:

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

- Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

In this episode, I want to talk about the meaning of a phrase I use a lot in my social media, blog posts and newsletters, "Who You Really Are." We will explore what it means to find out who we are, our connection with our higher self and our multi-dimensional lover side, and also learn how sexual alchemy can help us discover all of that.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- Who WE really are

- How we can grow and evolve our consciousness

- How sexual alchemy can help us uncover the David in us

A big part of the sexual alchemy work is, rather than discovering who you are, clearing the things you are not. Most men grow up nurturing fear, shame, guilt and many other limiting beliefs around sex. Sexual alchemy is there to remove all that and uncover the multi-dimensional lover you truly are.

Resources:

- Book: Christian Sundberg - A Walk in the Physical: Understanding the Human Experience Within the Larger Spiritual Context: https://www.amazon.com/Walk-Physical-Understanding-Experience-Spiritual-ebook/dp/B097CHLN7C/

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

- Free Resources https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

Today, I have the pleasure to receive Fidel Beauhill to the show, an NLP Master Coach, Master Hypnotherapist, Author, and Master Timeline Practitioner. Fidel is also an amicably divorced father of three daughters, and the creator of The Modern Man Club and The Modern Woman Club. He also hosts The Modern Man Podcast and is September's featured coach and cover model for COACH magazine as well as speaking at many events, conferences and workshops around the country. He is passionate about helping people reconnect with their highest self to support those they care for.

In this episode, we talk about how different the conversations about sex are between men and women, the pressure for men to show up in a certain way during sex, and what society expects from women to bring to the table. We also talk about fear, shame, guilt, and many other negative emotions linked to sex, and how they make it harder to enjoy and talk freely about sex.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- Is pleasing men in bed something women are concerned about?

- The difference between expectations for men and women about what they are responsible for during sex

- How false beliefs around HIV and homosexuality during the '80s and the '90s have affected men's sexuality

- What we can learn from exploring powerplay, submissive and dominant energy

For some reason it is socially accepted that all men are expected to know what they are doing in bed, to show up with a hard-on and keep it for an X amount of time. The story of women moaning about how men are not good in bed has generated a tendency in which men are worried about upgrading their bed skills, which provokes anxiety, anguish, and other negative emotions around sex.

Resources:

- The Modern Man website: https://modernman.org.uk/

- The Modern Man Club Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernmanclub/

- The Modern Woman Club Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernwomanclub/

- LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/fidel-modernman-beauhill/

- Instagram https://www.instagram.com/themodernmancoach/

- Twitter https://twitter.com/ModernManCoach

- Book: Fidel Beauhill - Divorce: The Modern Man's Guide: https://www.amazon.co.uk/DIVORCE-Modern-Guide-Fidel-Beauhill/dp/1527276236/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1AX2Q8IUARCLK&dchild=1&keywords=divorce+a+modern+man%27s+guide&qid=1607096435&sprefix=divorce+a+moder%2Caps%2C263&sr=8-1

- Book: Dossie Easton, Jannet Hardy - Radical Ecstasy: https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Ecstasy-Dossie-Easton-ebook/dp/B005HZ6F5M/

- Free Resources https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

In this episode, we will learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. We will explore the reasons why most men think they are one and the same, and why it is crucial to understand the difference. I will also take you through a simplified version of separating orgasm from ejaculation, recognising orgasmic energy and being relaxed while in arousal.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- The main difference between orgasm and ejaculation, and why most men believe it's the same thing

- Is it really possible to ejaculate without orgasming and to orgasm without ejaculating?

- The benefits of separating orgasm and ejaculation

- How to separate orgasm from ejaculation

The process of separating orgasm from ejaculation demands time and practice. The approach is the same as building muscle at the gym or learning to play an instrument. It is critical to go step by step, not rush it, and most importantly, enjoy the journey.

Resources:

- Free Resources https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

This episode is about sex and sexuality as portals to expand states of consciousness and transcendence. We will look at sex and sexuality as they really are, as something much more significant than what we can experience on human level. We will also understand why most people can't experience sex and sexuality as a portal to expand their consciousness.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- Why experiencing sex only from a physical standpoint is an incomplete sex experience

- Why most people can't see and experience sex and sexuality as portals to transcendence and consciousness expansion

- Why most couples feel like they are stuck and get bored in their sexual lives

- Why practicing sexual mastery has a positive impact on every aspect of our lives

Just as music or martial arts, sexual mastery takes time and requires effort and dedication. Practice increases awareness, attention, and intention of our erotic experiences, and at the same time our confidence in ourselves and in our abilities also grow. Practicing sexual mastery is a win-win journey of constant learning and expanding our senses.

Resources:

- Non Porn Routes to Arousal https://www.sexualalchemy.com/blog/non-porn-routes-to-arousal

- Free Resources https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

- Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

- Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/