The Shmuz

Live your truth. Love is love. You do you. You’re worth it. Just do it.

These are some of the phrases common in today’s culture. The problem is, they are completely at odds with Torah hashkafa.

Lo sachmod beis rayecha.

Lo sachmod aishes rayecha.

Do not desire your friend’s house. Do not desire your friend’s wife. In fact, don’t desire anything that belongs to him. So says the aseres hadibros in this week’s parsha. But why not? Society cries. “How can I deny my feelings? Why should I oppress my love for this person?” And even in the frum world, “Why shouldn’t I have the house I want, the car I want? Afterall, my parents should buy me a house, I can take a loan for the car…”

This week's podcast invites you to embrace a complete paradigm shift. The Torah says you can and must control your thinking, your emotions and your actions. Even if you see yourself as insignificant, you are held accountable to a high standard. So how can you train your brain to become more elevated, more holy and simply a nicer person? Catch this week’s episode and prepare to become a better version of yourself.
 

Great people don’t rely on willpower alone, they plan for their weaknesses. In this class, Rabbi Shafier shows how Yaakov Avinu, despite his towering level, knew exactly where he was vulnerable and prepared for it. Running from Esav and heading into Lavan’s world, Yaakov didn’t trust himself to “just be strong,” he made strategies, boundaries, and a deal with Hashem. The takeaway is sharp and practical: we absorb the behavior of the people around us, so if you don’t manage your triggers, they will manage you. This class is a masterclass in emotional control, planning ahead, and building the support you need to stay true to who you want to be. 

Free will isn’t simple, and it was never meant to be. In this class, Rabbi Shafier breaks down how Hashem designed human beings to build themselves through layers of choice, shaping who they become forever. From the pull of the animal soul, to character traits, life circumstances, and the unique load each person carries, he shows why everyone’s struggle looks different. Even pain has a purpose, either to wake a person up or to clean them out. This class gives you a clear framework for understanding your challenges, and why the exact life you’re living is the one you need to grow.

Parshas Beshalach- People Believe What They Want to Believe

The Mitzrim endured the makos, witnessed krias yam suf and were prevented from attacking B’nei Yisroel by the impenetrable cloud of glory. These events form the basis of our emunah system, and yet they didn’t seem to have such a profound effect on the people living in Egypt. Until the bitter end, they denied Hashem’s control over every facet of physicality.
Unfortunately, we can also be guilty of living like a Mitzri. The gift of bechirah means we are capable of denying the nissim in our own lives and often refuse to acknowledge the wonders of creation. Our imaginations tempt us to deny what our neshamas instinctively know to be true, and our egos loathe to be wrong. In this electrifying shmuz, Rabbi Shafier urges you to look at the world without an agenda, consider the intricacies inherent in creation and acknowledge Hashem’s hand in every aspect of the universe.

No less than nineteen mitzvos focus on Yetzias Mitzrayim. From Mezuzahs to Tefillin to Shema, we are commanded to remember the events in this week’s parsha. Why does it form the bedrock of our faith? As the Ramban explains, Hashem isn’t in the business of making everyday miracles. There was one moment in history where we clearly saw Hashem as real, present and maintaining every single aspect of existence. This is deeply relevant to you. By learning how Hashem is in control of the big picture, you can also come to see His involvement in the small details of your own life as well. By discovering the fifth and sixth levels of emunah you can step away from your physical confines, see beyond the limits of nature and begin to view Creation in a dramatic new light.

You matter more than you think. In this class, Rabbi Shafier unpacks the creation of man and why the malachim questioned whether humanity should even exist. The reason is simple and heavy: human actions don’t just affect personal life, they move the entire spiritual system. Using sharp, relatable analogies like home-court advantage in sports, Rabbi Shafier shows how your role, your capacity, and your everyday choices carry real weight. This class will change how seriously you take the small things, because in the spiritual world, nothing you do is small.

In this class, Rabbi Shafier shows how real willpower is built, starting with Rabbi Akiva, who held onto his emunah even while being tortured to death. He then connects it straight to real life, including the famous Stanford marshmallow test, proving that the ability to delay gratification predicts long-term success. The message is clear: willpower isn’t something you’re born with, it’s a muscle you train. Build it, and everything else in life gets easier to control. 

To beat taiva, you need solid strategy, the celebration of small victories and plenty of siyata d'shamaya. You cannot, must not, rely on willpower alone. If you're serious about Shovavim and getting a grip on yourself, listen now to see how real downfalls happen, and how real greatness is built.  

Before Moshe and Aron approach Paroh, Hashem cautions the brothers to treat Paroh with honor. Paroh, who took a daily bath in the blood of Jewish babies, who enslaved and tormented us throughout the shibud. It begs the obvious question: Why the need for respect?
In this Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier makes a clear distinction between the rasha that was Paroh and the institution of malchus. We are instructed to respect the government under which we live, even if it is contrary to our own political leanings. Bringing fascinating examples from modern-day America, Rabbi Shafier demonstrates just how much hakaras hatov we owe the United States, and cautions us to ensure that our own behavior falls in line with Torah values.

What if everything you see in the physical world is only the surface layer of a much deeper spiritual reality?

In this fascinating class based on Derech Hashem, Rabbi Shafier explores the idea that every physical entity has a spiritual counterpart that sustains it and directs its existence. Using the moon and stars as a vivid example, he reveals how the unseen spiritual world orchestrates everything we experience. With striking metaphors, Rabbi Shafier shows how your actions create nuclear-level, spiritual impact and shape the world far more than we realize. Insightful, mind-expanding, and deeply motivating, this class will make you rethink what your choices truly accomplish and why they matter so much.