The Shmuz

We run after pleasure-whatever hits the spot for us, we indulge in it, spend money on it and wish for more. But what happens when your normal pleasures can no longer satisfy you? If you’ve ever over-indulged and regretted it, this shiur is for you. Rabbi Shafier clearly explains the role of pleasure in your life, and how to have it without the guilt. 

I say every morning ‘sheasah li kol tzarci’- Hashem, You have provided me with all of my needs. Three times a day I remind myself that You open Your hand and satisfy every living thing with its desire. I know You want me to be happy, to enjoy Your world, to keep mitzvos and do Your will...so if that’s the case, WHY AM I SO BROKE?

In this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha, we will take a closer look at this apparent contradiction. Listen now and learn how to:

Free yourself from the unhappiness caused by unfulfilled desires

Start really enjoying the good things in life

Handle every nisayon like a baal bitachon and get more resilient to life’s challenges
Even if you’re more comfortable than Jeff Bezos, you’re going to find this week's Shmuz very relevant.  

Despite living in the relative luxury of the first world, many people feel as though their life is mediocre at best, and downright miserable at worst. In his introduction to The Pursuit of Happiness, Rabbi Shafier begins by challenging the listener to self-reflect on their own satisfaction with life, and offers some new insights as to what being ‘happy’ really means in our society. 

You’re a ma’amim. You believe in Hashem, you believe in His Torah. But you’d probably like to get better at trusting in Hashem, right? That’s why you listen to shiurim, that’s why you’re reading this page. You might wish that you could be like the Gedolim, instead of getting bent out of shape by every bill, scared by every news report, bothered by why so many things just don’t seem fair.
If this describes something you’re familiar with, this Series is for you. Based on the Six Constant Mitzvos found in the Sefer HaChinuch, Rabbi Shafier blends timeless wisdom with actionable advice. You see, having rock-solid emunah isn’t only for tzadikim. It’s in the reach of us ordinary folks too. Start learning Foundations today and get ready to say hello to a calm, contented life- no matter what.

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Truly life changing advice. 

Featuring:

* Dr. David Lieberman

* R' Reuven Epstein

* R' Bentzion Shafier

You’re a ma’amim. You believe in Hashem, you believe in His Torah. But you’d probably like to get better at trusting in Hashem, right? That’s why you listen to shiurim, that’s why you’re reading this page. You might wish that you could be like the Gedolim, instead of getting bent out of shape by every bill, scared by every news report, bothered by why so many things just don’t seem fair.
If this describes something you’re familiar with, this Series is for you. Based on the Six Constant Mitzvos found in the Sefer HaChinuch, Rabbi Shafier blends timeless wisdom with actionable advice. You see, having rock-solid emunah isn’t only for tzadikim. It’s in the reach of us ordinary folks too. Start learning Foundations today and get ready to say hello to a calm, contented life- no matter what.

Join Rabbi Shafier as he unveils Chazal’s ancient secrets on how to attain true happiness:

- Learn how wider society bombards you with messages that bring you down, and what you can do to protect yourself

- Stop the negativity, resentment and jealousy with a powerful shift in perspective

- Gain practical strategies to move past negativity and into fulfilment

You’re a ma’amim. You believe in Hashem, you believe in His Torah. But you’d probably like to get better at trusting in Hashem, right? That’s why you listen to shiurim, that’s why you’re reading this page. You might wish that you could be like the Gedolim, instead of getting bent out of shape by every bill, scared by every news report, bothered by why so many things just don’t seem fair.
If this describes something you’re familiar with, this Series is for you. Based on the Six Constant Mitzvos found in the Sefer HaChinuch, Rabbi Shafier blends timeless wisdom with actionable advice. You see, having rock-solid emunah isn’t only for tzadikim. It’s in the reach of us ordinary folks too. Start learning Foundations today and get ready to say hello to a calm, contented life- no matter what.

During the period of the Three Weeks we are urged to awaken ourselves to the horrifying and the heartbreaking. The moments of our existence as a People that bring us to tears and make us long for the geula. In this moving shmuz Rabbi Shafier encourages you to look at your greatness and your failings, including your own misconceptions of the nature of Hashem and the purpose of suffering.