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I want to be confident...but not arrogant. I want to work on my personal development, but cheshbon hanefesh is demoralizing. I know Hashem gave me my talents and abilities- so can I feel proud of my achievements?

There are many contradictions when it comes to working on yourself, your middos and your self esteem. In this incredibly practical and uplifting Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier explains how you can discover the golden middle way within yourself.

If you’re ready to accept who you are and move forward towards greatness, this Shmuz is for you.
 

“My husband leaves seder early”

What advice would you give this dissatisfied kollel wife?

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Hashem is guiding you and watching over you every second of your day

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Aren’t you just a little bit curious as to why there are so many unhappy people today? Here’s one explanation right here.

Go deeper with your parsha know-how this week.

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Have a wonderful Shabbos and a gut Chodesh
 

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Here’s the single most effective way for curing arrogance. Can’t relate? This video will still give you a refocus on what life’s about. Catch the full series here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  

Maybe you’ve had these thoughts:

✅I feel like so many things make no sense

✅I wish I could feel Hashem in my life more

✅I know nothing’s random but it sure does feel like it sometimes

Can you relate? If so, today’s clip will interest you. Don’t miss it!
 

“I don’t need to do my hishtadlus. Hashem knows my address. When He’s ready to send the right one, He’ll send it”

If you’re ready to stop playing games with yourself and your future, listen to this clip.

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I say every morning ‘sheasah li kol tzarci’- Hashem, You have provided me with all of my needs. Three times a day I remind myself that You open Your hand and satisfy every living thing with its desire. I know You want me to be happy, to enjoy Your world, to keep mitzvos and do Your will...so if that’s the case, WHY AM I SO BROKE?

In this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha, take a closer look at this apparent contradiction. Listen now and learn how to: