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Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever.

Until they aren’t.

Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life.

Wondering how to increase your bitachon? Cut down on your angry outbursts? Stop feeling so jealous? Have more happiness in your life? There is a simple formula that can shape you into how you want to be.

For more, check out the full video on this week’s parsha here: https://vimeo.com/390295113

And The Mussar Vaad here: https://theshmuz.com/the-mussar-vaad/
 

Live your truth. Love is love. You do you. You’re worth it. Just do it.

These are some of the phrases common in today’s culture. The problem is, they are completely at odds with Torah hashkafa.

Lo sachmod beis rayecha.

Lo sachmod aishes rayecha.

Do not desire your friend’s house. Your friend’s wife. In fact, don’t desire anything that belongs to him. So says the aseres hadibros in this week’s parsha. But why not? Society cries. ‘How can I deny my feelings? Why should I oppress my love for this person? Why can’t I have the house I want, the car I want? Afterall, I can split the payments, put it on the credit card…’

This week's podcast invites you to embrace a complete paradigm shift. The Torah tells us we can and must control our thinking, our emotions and our actions. We are held accountable to a high standard. How can we train our brain to become more elevated, more holy and simply nicer people? Catch this week’s episode and prepare to be empowered to change your basest desires and become a better version of yourself.
 

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re 💯% sure that they will live in married bliss forever 🥰

Until they aren’t.

Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong 😭

If only they had read The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. Filled with practical advice and straight-talking techniques, it’s the ultimate must-read for every new home 🏠

The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is now available in Jewish bookstores and www.TheShmuz.com
 

This astonishing Ramban is guaranteed to elevate your Shabbos. Enjoy! 

Dating? Consider this. Married? Let us know if you agree. Leave a comment on our Instagram page, @the_shmuz

 

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same
dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live
in married bliss forever.

Until they aren’t.

How is it that someone can study the complexities of creation and not be blown away by the greatness of Hashem? The answer? I’m not married to the facts.

This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Beshalach here: https://vimeo.com/388858703
 

Hashem wants marriages to flourish. So why is it so hard?😫

Even the smartest of couples don’t realize how dangerous mistakes are to their marriage. And unfortunately, guidance on shalom bayis is needed today more than ever before.

The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is a complete system for creating a successful marriage. Available now in Jewish bookstores and on www.TheShmuz.com, it gives both young and experienced couples a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work ✅