Most of us have learned to pay attention to where something hurts.
A headache sends our attention to the head. Aching joints make us think about the joints. Digestive discomfort points us toward the digestive system.
And sometimes, of course, that is exactly where we need to look.
But the body doesn’t always work that neatly.
What we feel may be the place where the problem is showing up—not necessarily where it began.
In today’s episode of The Signals Room, I’m exploring the difference between “here” and “there”: why symptoms can appear downstream from the processes that created them, and why simply quieting what we feel can sometimes amount to little more than putting a Band-Aid over a much bigger conversation.
Because sometimes the most useful question isn’t:
“How do I make this symptom go away?”
It’s:
“What if the problem isn’t where I feel it?”
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