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Sometimes the reason finding love feels impossible has very little to do with dating… and a whole lot to do with the story your brain has been practicing for years.
Because once your brain starts collecting evidence that:
…it gets very, very good at finding more proof.
And eventually, what started as a thought begins feeling like a fact.
In today’s episode, we are talking about why your brain keeps building these piles of evidence, why discomfort is actually part of transformation, and how to stop filtering your life through hopelessness and start seeing possibility again.
By the end of this episode, you’re going to understand why you keep seeing proof that what you want won’t work out… and how to start teaching your brain to look for different evidence.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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What if the biggest risk to your future marriage…isn't about who you marry?
What if the biggest risk is waiting to be happy until you're married?
Because here's the truth—marriage doesn't create happiness… it magnifies what's already there.
And if you're unhappy now… that unhappiness doesn't magically disappear when you say "I do."
By the end of this episode, you'll understand why deciding to be happy now might be the most important decision you make before marriage.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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Do you want to get married…
Because there’s a difference between wanting something…
And many women don’t realize this—but staying busy…
Not because something is wrong with you.
By the end of this episode, you'll understand why deciding to date is the first real step toward creating the marriage you want.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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Most women believe that getting married will finally make them feel better.
More secure.
But what if the very thing you think will fix your unhappiness…
What if learning to love your single life first
By the end of this episode, you'll understand why learning to love being single is the key to choosing marriage from strength—not fear.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
💗 Get my help now…
Have you ever found yourself thinking about dating…
And then talking yourself right out of it?
Maybe you tell yourself you'll start later…
When you feel more ready…
More confident…
More certain.
But somehow…later…never seems to come.
And over time…
Dating starts to feel harder and harder.
Not because dating itself is impossible…
But because of what's happening inside your own mind.
By the end of this episode, you'll understand the invisible work that makes dating feel easier—and how to start doing it.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
💗 Get my help now…
Have you ever walked away from a dating experience feeling rejected…
Like he didn’t see you…
And maybe you didn’t say much out loud…
But inside…
You were thinking things like:
What did I do wrong?
Maybe even…
Something must be wrong with me.
But what if rejection didn’t begin in the moment, you think it did?
What if it started somewhere much earlier…
In a place most women never think to look?
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to recognize where rejection might actually begin — and why seeing it clearly could change everything.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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Have you ever held back your love… just a little… because you were afraid of what might happen if it didn’t work out?
Afraid of loving more than he does.
Sometimes it’s not love itself that feels scary…it’s what we make it mean about us if love doesn’t last.
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to love—even when it feels risky.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
💗 Get my help now…
Have you ever dated a man where everything felt good…
And yet—you had no idea where the relationship was actually going?
No clarity.
Are we building something… or just passing time?
Because here’s what I’ve learned…
Chemistry is easy.
And if you don’t know how to recognize it, you can spend months—or even years—investing in relationships that were never headed in the same direction.
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to tell whether you're building a relationship with real direction—or just enjoying connection that isn't going anywhere.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
💗 Get my help now…
Have you ever walked away from a date and found yourself replaying everything you said… wondering if he liked you… wondering if you said the wrong thing… wondering if maybe this could turn into something?
And maybe you’ve told yourself that those butterflies mean chemistry… that nervous feeling means attraction… that the intensity must mean something important.
But what if some of those feelings you’ve been calling chemistry… are actually telling you something completely different?
What if the way you feel when you're with him is giving you clues… signals… information you’ve never been taught how to read?
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to tell the difference between chemistry and compatibility—and how to recognize the feelings that help you choose the right man.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
💗 Get my help now…
Have you ever found yourself wondering…
And then suddenly you’re overthinking everything—
And without even realizing it, you start showing up just a little differently.
But what if that’s not actually the most important question to be asking?
What if the real question—the one that can change everything about how you date—isn’t about him at all…
In this episode, we’re going to talk about the subtle ways you might be losing yourself in dating without even realizing it…
By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to tell if you’re becoming more of yourself in a relationship…or quietly becoming less.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
💗 Get my help now…
From the publisher's feed
Dating shouldn’t feel this hard.
But for many single women, it does.
And no one ever taught you how to date well.
Endless swiping.
Awkward first dates.
Men who disappear, pull away, or waste your time.
And the questions start creeping in:
🌀 Why is dating so frustrating?
🌀 Why does it seem so easy for everyone else?
🌀 How do you actually know if someone is husband material?
Welcome to The Single LDS Woman podcast.
I’m Sharon Lamar, a certified life coach and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints—and I help single women enjoy dating and choose a husband.
Not by playing games.
Not by pretending to be someone you’re not.
And not by waiting around hoping someone chooses you.
Instead, I’ll show you how to:
✨ Enjoy dating again instead of dreading it
✨ Stop overthinking every text, date, and conversation
✨ Build genuine self-confidence that changes how you show up
✨ Recognize who is—and isn’t—husband material
✨ Trust yourself when it comes to love and relationships
Using simple mindset tools and powerful coaching concepts, I’ll teach you how to approach dating with clarity, confidence, and peace.
I didn’t get married until I was 52, so I understand the unique challenges single women face while navigating dating, relationships, and life.
Whether you’ve never been married, are divorced, widowed—or not even LDS but still resonate with these experiences—this podcast is for you.
Because dating doesn’t have to feel miserable.
It can actually be enjoyable.
And you absolutely can learn how to choose a husband.
This podcast will help you enjoy dating and choose a husband.
💌 Email me anytime: [email protected]
🌐 Visit my website: sharonlamarcoaching.com