The Single LDS Woman | Loneliness, Dating, Self-Confidence, Happiness

The Single LDS Woman | Loneliness, Dating, Self-Confidence, Happiness

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The Single LDS Woman | Loneliness, Dating, Self-Confidence, Happiness episodes

  • 140. Why Finding Love Feels Impossible

    Sometimes the reason finding love feels impossible has very little to do with dating… and a whole lot to do with the story your brain has been practicing for years.

    Because once your brain starts collecting evidence that:

    “There are no good men.”
    “Nothing ever works out for me.”
    “I’m too old.”
    “Something is wrong with me.”

    …it gets very, very good at finding more proof.

    And eventually, what started as a thought begins feeling like a fact.

    In today’s episode, we are talking about why your brain keeps building these piles of evidence, why discomfort is actually part of transformation, and how to stop filtering your life through hopelessness and start seeing possibility again.

    By the end of this episode, you’re going to understand why you keep seeing proof that what you want won’t work out… and how to start teaching your brain to look for different evidence.

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    26 min
  • 139. Want a Happy Marriage? Decide to Be Happy NOW!

    What if the biggest risk to your future marriage…isn't about who you marry?

    What if the biggest risk is waiting to be happy until you're married?

    Because here's the truth—marriage doesn't create happiness… it magnifies what's already there.

    And if you're unhappy now… that unhappiness doesn't magically disappear when you say "I do."

    By the end of this episode, you'll understand why deciding to be happy now might be the most important decision you make before marriage.

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    17 min
  • 138. Want to Get Married? Decide to Date

    Do you want to get married…

    or have you just been hoping marriage will somehow happen?

    Because there’s a difference between wanting something…

    and actually deciding to pursue it.

    And many women don’t realize this—but staying busy…

    staying comfortable…
    and staying in your routine
    can feel productive…
    while still keeping you stuck in the exact same place.

    Not because something is wrong with you.

    But because you haven’t made one very specific decision yet.

    By the end of this episode, you'll understand why deciding to date is the first real step toward creating the marriage you want.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

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    Grab your copy of Nothing Is Wrong With You: How to Stop Putting Your Happiness On Hold and Start Feeling Happier In Your Life As It Is
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    17 min
  • 137. Want to Get Married? Love Being Single First

    Most women believe that getting married will finally make them feel better.

    More secure.

    More wanted.
    More at peace with their life.

    But what if the very thing you think will fix your unhappiness…

    isn’t actually the solution?

    What if learning to love your single life first

    is the very thing that prepares you to create the kind of marriage you actually want?

    By the end of this episode, you'll understand why learning to love being single is the key to choosing marriage from strength—not fear.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

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    16 min
  • 136. If Dating Feels Miserable, This Is Probably Why

    Have you ever found yourself thinking about dating…

    And then talking yourself right out of it?

    Maybe you tell yourself you'll start later…

    When you feel more ready…

    More confident…

    More certain.

    But somehow…later…never seems to come.

    And over time…

    Dating starts to feel harder and harder.

    Not because dating itself is impossible…

    But because of what's happening inside your own mind.

    By the end of this episode, you'll understand the invisible work that makes dating feel easier—and how to start doing it.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

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    19 min
  • 135. Rejected? Think Again.

    Have you ever walked away from a dating experience feeling rejected…

    Like he didn’t see you…

    Didn’t choose you…
    Didn’t move things forward the way you hoped?

    And maybe you didn’t say much out loud…

    But inside…

    You were thinking things like:

    What did I do wrong?

    Why wasn’t I enough?
    What is it about me that keeps this from working?

    Maybe even…

    Something must be wrong with me.

    But what if rejection didn’t begin in the moment, you think it did?

    What if it started somewhere much earlier…

    In a place most women never think to look?

    By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to recognize where rejection might actually begin — and why seeing it clearly could change everything.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

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    20 min
  • 134. Will You Love, Even When It Feels Risky?

    Have you ever held back your love… just a little… because you were afraid of what might happen if it didn’t work out?

    Afraid of loving more than he does.

    Afraid of loving first.
    Afraid of what it might mean if he stops loving you.

    Sometimes it’s not love itself that feels scary…it’s what we make it mean about us if love doesn’t last.

    By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to love—even when it feels risky.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

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    21 min
  • 133. Does He Want What You Want?

    Have you ever dated a man where everything felt good…

    You enjoyed being together…
    You laughed…
    You felt chemistry…

    And yet—you had no idea where the relationship was actually going?

    No clarity.

    No direction.
    Just this quiet uncertainty in the background that made you wonder:

    Are we building something… or just passing time?

    Because here’s what I’ve learned…

    Chemistry is easy.

    Fun is easy.
    But alignment? That’s something very different.

    And if you don’t know how to recognize it, you can spend months—or even years—investing in relationships that were never headed in the same direction.

    By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to tell whether you're building a relationship with real direction—or just enjoying connection that isn't going anywhere.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

    💗 Get my help now…

    Grab your copy of Nothing Is Wrong With You: How to Stop Putting Your Happiness On Hold and Start Feeling Happier In Your Life As It Is
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    28 min
  • 132. Do You Like How You Feel When You're With Him?

    Have you ever walked away from a date and found yourself replaying everything you said… wondering if he liked you… wondering if you said the wrong thing… wondering if maybe this could turn into something?

    And maybe you’ve told yourself that those butterflies mean chemistry… that nervous feeling means attraction… that the intensity must mean something important.

    But what if some of those feelings you’ve been calling chemistry… are actually telling you something completely different?

    What if the way you feel when you're with him is giving you clues… signals… information you’ve never been taught how to read?

    By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to tell the difference between chemistry and compatibility—and how to recognize the feelings that help you choose the right man.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

    💗 Get my help now…

    Grab your copy of Nothing Is Wrong With You: How to Stop Putting Your Happiness On Hold and Start Feeling Happier In Your Life As It Is
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    21 min
  • 131. Wondering If He Likes You? You Need to Hear This

    Have you ever found yourself wondering…

    Does he like me?

    And then suddenly you’re overthinking everything—

    what you said, how you said it,
    whether you should text him, or wait…

    And without even realizing it, you start showing up just a little differently.

    A little more careful.
    A little more filtered.
    A little more focused on being liked than being yourself.

    But what if that’s not actually the most important question to be asking?

    What if the real question—the one that can change everything about how you date—isn’t about him at all…

    In this episode, we’re going to talk about the subtle ways you might be losing yourself in dating without even realizing it…

    and how to shift back into a version of you that feels confident, calm, and fully you.

    By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to tell if you’re becoming more of yourself in a relationship…or quietly becoming less.

    WHAT’S NEXT? 👇

    💗 Get my help now…

    Grab your copy of Nothing Is Wrong With You: How to Stop Putting Your Happiness On Hold and Start Feeling Happier In Your Life As It Is
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    19 min

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