Are you trapped in a redundant loop of making the same mistake? Does your impulsivity betray you? Are you finally ready to leave your destructive life behind?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the pitfalls of repeating the same mistakes women often make - and why feminism might be adding to your problems here.

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Are you off to see that man? Do you feel tempted to make it easier for him? Is your gut reliable enough for you to be dating right now?

In this episode, join Chidera as she lovingly warns you about what to be vigilant of in this desperate dating market!

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Is he stingy or does he just not like you? What happens if you have kids with a stingy man? Should we cheat on stingy men?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why we should all expect more from men - and why stingy men deserve to be lonely.

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Do you miss him? Has the amnesia suddenly hit you and now you can't remember why you cut him off to begin with? Are you tempted to go back?

In this episode, join Chidera as she talks through the reasons we end up caving when we think we miss these dudes.

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Was that horrible relationship worth it because you were able to write some songs about it? Do you believe you have to put yourself through pain in order to feel creative? Did that heartbreak really need to happen or are you using art as an excuse to justify being around men who don't deserve you?

In today's episode, join Chidera as she (lovingly) drags the musician girlies!

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Are you too easily attached to men? Are we 'manifesting' bad treatment from men by expecting it of them? Is your rejection sensitivity making you unnecessarily empathetic to men?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why healthy detachment from men will save your life.

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Is there really such thing as 'terrible husband but a good father'? Should we starve men of sex to solve their entitlement issues? Will men ever become the 'good people' we fantasise about them becoming?

In this episode, join Chidera as she normalises hating men back.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses male sexual violence against women

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Should we be less approving of men's flirty advances, even if they are being cute? Are we making the male loneliness epidemic harder on men by being less understanding of their sexual needs? And have we explored what might actually happen if we raise the bar for men to meet us?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she justifies why she believes we need to make ourselves more romantically scarce - after all, men are not entitled to our love.

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What do you stand to lose by being the woman he can afford? Do men appreciate women more when our standards are lower? Or are we just overthinking this whole thing?!

In this episode, join Chidera for a rather hilarious and spicy chat. ;)

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Are attractive men worth all the hassle? Do good-looking men deserve to be humbled? Is it a safer bet to date an 'ugly' man?

In this episode, join Chidera for a rather juicy chat!

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