Should we be less approving of men's flirty advances, even if they are being cute? Are we making the male loneliness epidemic harder on men by being less understanding of their sexual needs? And have we explored what might actually happen if we raise the bar for men to meet us?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she justifies why she believes we need to make ourselves more romantically scarce - after all, men are not entitled to our love.

Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you stand to lose by being the woman he can afford? Do men appreciate women more when our standards are lower? Or are we just overthinking this whole thing?!

In this episode, join Chidera for a rather hilarious and spicy chat. ;)

Join my ⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are attractive men worth all the hassle? Do good-looking men deserve to be humbled? Is it a safer bet to date an 'ugly' man?

In this episode, join Chidera for a rather juicy chat!

Join my ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are desperate women sinking the ship for the rest of us? Can men tell when you're male-centred? Are low-effort dates even worth it in the name of being a 'cool and easy' girl?

In this episode, join Chidera as she highlights the dangers of male-centred women...and what we can all do to redirect the focus to ourselves!

Join my ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you still clinging onto the hope that one day, men will finally be who we want them to be? Is feminism doing what we need it to do? Are YOU brainwashed?

The Slumflower explores it all in this episode!

Join my ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does being too empathetic make men see you as pathetic? Could there be a pattern of your behaviour that predatory men are drawn to? Are you prepared for a world where the men you're dating are leaning closer towards red pill ideologies?

In this episode, join Chidera as she raises the alarm on how close the predator is in proximity to all of us!

Join my ⁠patreon⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do 'homewreckers' really exist? Would you date your friend's ex? Should you forgive your husband for cheating?

Hmmm...in today's episode, join Chidera as she debunks this 'homewrecker' phrase once and for - and shines the light on where it belongs: MARRIED MEN!

Join my ⁠patreon⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is sex really casual? This is the question being pondered upon in this episode.

Join The Slumflower as she toys with the debate of whether a woman can truly benefit from 'no strings attached' sex!

Join my ⁠patreon⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book ⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠ 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you find yourself having to keep repeating your requests to the man in your life? Do people keep telling you that you need to 'communicate' if you want a healthy relationship (even though the person you're communicating to is not listening)? Have you found yourself feeling fatigued in your relationship?

This episode is specifically for the women who are trapped in the communication loop. There's a way out! Join Chidera as she helps you untangle the knots to finally find clarity in handling men who don't listen to you.

Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a hopeless romantic? Do you believe that love conquers all? Do you live in the hope that one day, you'll fall in love and things will fall into place as they were always meant to?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she debunks the concept of being a 'hopeless romantic', while she exposes the true intentions of men who call themselves that!

Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!

Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices