The Slumflower Hour

Are you dating to marry or dating for money? Do women deserve to be paid to be pregnant? Is it possible to fall in love without giving away your power to a man?

These are questions that need answers and in this episode, join Chidera as she covers them!

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Do you struggle with putting your foot down when handling a situation with a guy? Are you often 'too nice' when you should be a little more dubious of men? Have you fallen into the mentality of making men's negligence about you?

In this episode, enjoy a storytime and Chidera's real-time texting conversation with a man who is now blocked!

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Do you feel like that man is romantically edging you? Is there a vibe that he 'kind of' likes you but is holding back? Are you at a crossroads of whether you should keep emotionally investing in him?

If any of the above questions resonate with you, this quick burst of an episode might give you the answers you need...while giving you a laugh!

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Do looks really matter? Should we 'dress for men'? Is it considered 'unfeminist' to use your beauty as leverage?

We cover all these questions in this episode, where The Slumflower dives into beauty as a tool - and whether feminism is helping or hindering our journeys towards the lifestyles we desire...

(Disclaimer: the use of weed as an example in this episode, is in no way a promotion of its use!)

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Do you feel like you 'owe' men sex for a cocktail? Does the 'gold digger' label scare you away from being upfront about your needs? Are you playing to win or are you playing to be fair?

In this episode, join Chidera as she dilutes your fears of asking men for things, and chats through the ridiculousness of male entitlement!

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Are you trying to find the firmness in your voice? Or are you worried you might be a bit too blunt?

In this episode, join Chidera as she talks through the ways we can all be a little stricter without flying off the rails - and why there's nothing scarier to a man, than a woman who is pissed off and relaxed about it...

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Do you feel bad about dating selfishly? Does the idea of 'using' a man make you feel guilty? Is it exploitative to date men with your best interest at the forefront?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses her favourite ways to exploit men in a world where they systemically and interpersonally exploit women every single day...

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Have you convinced yourself you're stuck with that man? Is he really the best you can do? Why do you even keep giving him chances?

In this brief and funny episode, join The Slumflower as she talks through the lies we tell ourselves to cling onto these men who have passed their expiry date in our lives...

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Is the pressure on to start a family? Feeling broody? Or maybe even experiencing that FOMO feeling as everyone around you is starting to have babies? You are not alone!

In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about why you don't need to have kids just because you want to...and the ways we can all show up in a maternal role without having to commit to parenthood *cough cough* shout out to the aunties!

NEW DATE ADDED FOR MY SOLD OUT LIVE SHOW! Get tickets for my October 27th LIVE SHOW

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Are you a first born daughter who has been plagued by the perpetual sense of responsibility...even over the men you date?

Has your first born daughter status evolved into a saviour complex?

Do you feel like you need to be useful in order to be loved?

Dear first born daughters, this one is for us! In this episode, join Chidera as she muses and reflects on her life and upbringing as a first born daughter - and how this has actually empowered her to be stern, bold and fearless in her self-advocacy when dating men.

NEW DATE ADDED FOR MY SOLD OUT LIVE SHOW! Get tickets for my October 27th LIVE SHOW

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