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Hate dental dams? Erika talks with Melanie Cristol Founder and CEO about their super cool product Lorals. It is disposable underwear that is super thin that supports the wearer to gain pleasure and reduce stress. This was a super fun conversation about closing the orgasm gap! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/48
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The process of creating life is not always an easy one. Erika talks with Ariel Shumaker-Hammond Clinical Therapist and Photographer about the infertility journey and how it impacts couples and their intimate lives. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/47
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Just you and me for this episode. I want to talk about how avoiding your emotional shit, your baggage, the problems from your past, whatever you would like to call it impacts your sexual life. Your whole self is important, and we try and silo ourselves into compartments. Every piece of us is impacted when we are not identifying how we feel about ourselves. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/46
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Erika talks with Amanda Testa, a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach who specializes in helping folks get in touch with their sexuality and femininity. They get down to business about how getting in touch with your sexuality can change your perspective and can offer you healing. Check out her podcast Find Your Feminine Fire and her Facebook group. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/45
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All things about the butt again! Erika’s first episode about butt stuff has been the most popular so far across the world. So it’s time again to visit the back door. Need information about where to begin about your own butt start with this episode. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/44
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Facing divorce? Erika talks with Leanne Townsend attorney and divorce coach about preparing for the divorce process and ways to reduce the pain of the divorce. Leanne offers a coaching program that can help you get through one of the toughest transitions of life. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/43
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When can you have sex after experiencing a miscarriage? Erika answers some of your questions about taking care of yourself after experiencing this major change emotionally and physically. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/42
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Culture is bad at handling anything that has to do with sex and shame. Erika talks with Katie Warren who has an STI. Katie talks about her experience with having an STI and how she processed the events after. This episode is full of information about STIs/STDs listen to learn more! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/41
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Every year, Pornhub reviews the data it collects on every user that views porn on their site. Erika talks about the interesting trends their data collection reveals about our porn use and our sexual fantasies. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/40
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Erika and Adam get right down to how to explore your gender and what arouses you in this episode. Adam talks about his own exploration and how he has helped his clients figure out who they are and how to express their needs sexually. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/39
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I’m Dr. Erika Miley (Dr. E) — licensed therapist, clinical sexologist, professor, and your favorite neurodivergent bisexual MILF with a brain full of research and a mouth that doesn’t know when to stop.
This show is for the curious, the kinky, the overstimulated, and the over-it.
We’ll talk about sex without purity politics, trauma without turning it into your whole personality, and desire without apology.
Because here’s the thing: so many of us — especially women — are living in bodies that were never taught to rest, feel, or want.
We’re raising kids, running businesses, surviving late-stage capitalism, and trying to remember what turns us on besides iced coffee and fictional fae warriors.
So we’re going to talk about it all —
Why Romantasy is the cultural Prozac we didn’t know we needed.
Why erotica can feel like therapy when porn just… doesn’t.
What porn women actually watch.
And what we know now about perimenopause, hormones, and pleasure that our mothers were never told.
This isn’t therapy.
This isn’t porn.
This is The Soft Science Show.
And yes — you can stim while you listen.
I do.