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- The Pussy Party and Sexual Shame and our Words
In this episode of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, Erika talks with Madam President from the Pussy Party Podcast. We talk about the limitations and shame that comes with using words that describe female sex organs as something weak. We also talk about embracing your sexual self. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/20
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My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com
24 min - 20. The Pussy Party and Sexual Shame and our WordsIn this episode of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, Erika talks with Madam President from the Pussy Party Podcast. We talk about the limitations and shame that comes with using words that describe female sex organs as something weak. We also talk about embracing your sexual self.You can find the Pussy Party Podcast here:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-pussy-party-podcast/id1364468044?mt=2https://www.facebook.com/pwussypartypodcast/and my favorite:https://www.instagram.com/pwussypartypodcast/If you want more info look for me live on IG TV after the episode to chat further about this and other topics on Fridays!24 min
- Social media, dating apps, and DMs
I wanted to do this episode for several reasons:
- I think knowledge is power. Yes, very School House Rock, but I think if you know better you can do better.
- My own experiences have weirded me out, and my friends and family who I have talk to about this express similar sentiments.
- My experience with working with people around difficult sexual problems including sexual entitlements.
- What is sexual entitlement and how does it fit into this conversation?
Friends descriptions of their experiences.How this actually feels vs. the intended message.
So... what's the conclusion of this? If you need help figuring out how to begin a relationship or social interactions with others, reach out for help!!!
For instance, rather than saying in a DM, "Hey beautiful", then sending them a dick pic, you could say "Hey, I saw your profile and I saw you like ___. I like ___ too.
What is your favorite thing about ___. This type of communication will typically get you farther than commenting on our bodies. Just like with catcalling, it does not make us feel flattered, it makes us feel afraid.
Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/19
Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon
My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com
23 min - 19. Social media, dating apps, and DMsI wanted to do this episode for several reasons:I think knowledge is power. Yes, very School House Rock, but I think if you know better you can do better.My own experiences have weirded me out, and my friends and family who I have talk to about this express similar sentiments.My experience with working with people around difficult sexual problems including sexual entitlements.What is sexual entitlement and how does it fit into this conversation?Friends descriptions of their experiences.How this actually feels vs. the intended message.So... what's the conclusion of this? If you need help figuring out how to begin a relationship or social interactions with others, reach out for help!!!For instance, rather than saying in a DM, "Hey beautiful", then sending them a dick pic, you could say "Hey, I saw your profile and I saw you like ___. I like ___ too.What is your favorite thing about ___. This type of communication will typically get you father than commening on our bodies. Just like with catcalling, it does not make us feel flattered, it makes us feel afraid.Insta:@erikamileytherapywww.erikamiley.com23 min
- Mental health medications, Sex, and Side effects
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In episode 18 of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, I talk about mental health medications and the sexual side effects of taking those types of prescriptions. I also talk about how to cope with those side effects. Sometimes when taking mental health prescriptions it interferes with sexual desire. I talk about how to tackle that in a real way and give some suggestions on products to use. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/18
Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon
My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com
14 min - 18. Mental health medications, Sex, and Side effectsIn episode 18 of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, I talk about mental health medications and the sexual side effects of taking those types of prescriptions. I also talk about how to cope with those side effects. Sometimes when taking mental health prescriptions it interferes with sexual desire. I talk about how to tackle that in a real way and give some suggestions on products to use.Here are the links for the lubricants I reference on the podcast.https://www.yesyesyes.org/https://sliquid.com/To connect with me further, you can visit ErikaMiley.com, or follow me on Instagram @erikamiley!If you want more info look for me live on IG TV after the episode to chat further about this and other topics on Fridays!14 min
- Sex Resources with Juicebox and Brianna Rader
In this episode Erika talks about available reliable sexual resources. For when you have question right now and want to get appropriate information. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/17
Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon
My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com
Corey Silverberg
https://www.corysilverberg.com/
HeyEpiphora https://heyepiphora.com/
http://www.scarleteen.com/
https://o.school/
23 min - 17. Sex Resources with Juicebox and Brianna RaderIn this episode Erika talks about available reliable sexual resources. For when you have question right now and want to get appropriate information.Corey Silverberghttps://www.corysilverberg.com/books/HeyEpiphorahttps://heyepiphora.com/http://www.scarleteen.com/https://o.school/Juicebox:https://www.juiceboxit.com/Listeners can use code: erikaThis will give you access for free for a trial period!23 min
- Sex! the Podcast : Sex and Energy w/ Michael Spencer
In this episode Erika talks with Michael Spencer about the energy we have around our stuff. This includes our feelings and memories we attach to our things. This includes our sexual items, memories, or experiences.
Here's how to find Michael:
https://letspurify.energy/
Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/16
Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon
Get help at my therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com
31 min - Sex! the Podcast : Episode 16 : Sex and Energy w/ Michael SpencerIn this episode Erika talks with Michael Spencer about the energy we have around our stuff. This includes our feelings and memories we attach to our things. This includes our sexual items, memories, or experiences.Here's how to find Michael:https://letspurify.energy/717-385-838231 min
About The Soft Science
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I’m Dr. Erika Miley (Dr. E) — licensed therapist, clinical sexologist, professor, and your favorite neurodivergent bisexual MILF with a brain full of research and a mouth that doesn’t know when to stop.
This show is for the curious, the kinky, the overstimulated, and the over-it.
We’ll talk about sex without purity politics, trauma without turning it into your whole personality, and desire without apology.
Because here’s the thing: so many of us — especially women — are living in bodies that were never taught to rest, feel, or want.
We’re raising kids, running businesses, surviving late-stage capitalism, and trying to remember what turns us on besides iced coffee and fictional fae warriors.
So we’re going to talk about it all —
Why Romantasy is the cultural Prozac we didn’t know we needed.
Why erotica can feel like therapy when porn just… doesn’t.
What porn women actually watch.
And what we know now about perimenopause, hormones, and pleasure that our mothers were never told.
This isn’t therapy.
This isn’t porn.
This is The Soft Science Show.
And yes — you can stim while you listen.
I do.