We all love going on holidays and get excited about all the things we will do, taste and see. This is because at the start of it, you don’t focus on the problems and difficulties you left behind, you live in the present and look forward with positive thoughts and imagine yourself in each story you build up inside your mind. What happens near the end of the holiday? We start realizing its about to end and we need to go back to those difficulties and boring tasks we left behind.

What if you could change that feeling and be excited more about going back? This is done through having a long-term plan to go back to. Something that you have already created momentum for and excited to keep it going. Yes you’ll enjoy your holidays because you needed that break but you’ll become just as excited to go back. Even if it means a job you don’t want to be in the rest of your life, as long as the job, the people around you are a stepping stone to that end goal, you’ll find excitement.

If you’re someone who meets a lot of people but your relationships don’t last or it gets boring very quickly. The problem is value. You may be someone who gains a lot of initial attention but once you go deeper into the relationship and find out more about each other, you realize there’s nothing beyond the attention. You need to build attraction. This can ONLY be done by developing value beyond your outer appearance. There are many attractive people with not so attractive partners and they are extremely happy. Then there are some where the partner ends up cheating or wanting to end it because they are not connecting on a deeper level. If you find yourself in this type of dilemma it means you need to develop beyond your looks.

You need to stop feeling like you deserve something because your appearance is a valuable reward for someone to be with you. When you think like this you stop yourself from developing real value. You stop looking to grow smarter, you stop taking risks, trying new things and you gain no passion.

Find out why money is not real, it is just an idea. It's what you will find if any of you read Robert Kiyosaki’s book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I spent some time thinking and looking into this and discovered how true it was. You see money is only a currency exchange for value. Whether it’s skills, ideas and commodities. If the world decided that tea was the new currency, so it will be. Just like when the world decided to give cryptocurrency value. You see money is only attracted to ideas. We buy ideas that solve problems, we by ideas that make things better. The bigger problems our ideas can solve the higher the value that idea has.

If you’re someone who has no ideas then don’t expect to attract money. Instead of chasing money, chase knowledge and use it to create ideas. Millions of pounds are exchanged in an instance between accounts and all that people are buying are ideas and concepts for new ways to improve life. So, focus on developing your mind for ideas and value will bring you currency whatever it might be.

So many people are obsessed with wanting branding and big labels all over them. They are proud to wear big labels and look to only buy products that has a big name attached to it. Ask yourself why you look for such names and branding? Is it quality, it is to be accepted or respected through seeming financially well off? Are you doing it to feel you belong in a category or financial class? More often than not, it is to impress others. What kind of life can you live trying to impress others or to live by how you want others to see you? Isn’t it more important to see how you see yourself? 

When younger I used to admire and desire big sports labels which I couldn’t afford, so being the creative arty person I was, I learned to embroider so I could stitch the Nike and other logos onto my plain tops. One day I questioned myself, what value is this giving me? Wasting my time stitching a brand that creates no value. Instead I’m only promoting the brand by wearing it and I get nothing back in advertising, unlike celebrities. That was the last time I looked for branding and another chain of control was broken. Break away the controls of societies expectations and wanting to please others to free yourself of unhappiness.

Our body is nature, therefore it is only logical that nature heals nature. Cures and healing found in nature take time because it fights to remove the disease entirely by adapting the body, making it stronger as it fights the pathogens, as it recognizes the threats. It requires, patience and giving the body all the nutrients, tools and strength to heal. It requires giving it mental, emotional, physical and spiritual health. When the healing is done, it is complete.

A part of you is not missing as is, after a medical operation or an emergency procedure. Something is not left damaged or half repaired. Surround yourself with nature much as possible and let the body calibrate with it. I spend time regularly walking barefoot on grass, lying on it and staying close to the earth, it's called grounding. It helps to balance the energy within you and your surroundings.

The strongest person is not the one who can lift hundreds of kilograms at the gym but the one who can control their anger. Anger may seem like power when exercised outwardly with volatile energy but in reality it is weakness because it removes intellect and submits you to your base animal traits.

The animal nature are the weaker characteristics within us and we must always look to overcome and control them by gaining the angelic nature if we should reach higher peaks of knowledge, love and success in anything. Anybody can go to the gym and lift some weights but very few can tolerate blame, ridicule, oppression and pain. It is very easy to be nice to those who are nice to you but it takes a really strong person to be nice to those that are bad towards you. Find out in this episode the root cause of anger and how to deal with it instantly as I have over the years

The wisest person is the one who learns from other people’s mistakes and benefits from it. Some may say the wisest is the person who learns from their own mistakes. If this was true then they would not make the mistake in the first place as wisdom by definition is to make wise choices from past mistakes.

Our lives are far too short to make all the mistakes we need to make all the right decisions, therefore taking from the mistakes of others allows us to accelerate that learning and gain the wisdom that have grown from the experiences of others. In the same way we take on good experiences and teachings from other people’s experiences, we should benefit from their mistakes also to empower our lives and avoid the pitfalls we may come across similarly. Only a fool or an ignorant person would put their hands into a flame knowing that it will burn.

Thinking outside the box for work but what about your own life? If employers who are successful, can see the importance of thinking outside the box and bringing fresh new ways of thinking and problem solving for their company as an advantageous skill and character, shouldn’t we value this way of thinking and bringing ideas to our own lives even more?

People worry about jobs, problems and difficulties in life yet, they fail to develop the single most important tool to overcome them all, creativity. Creativity cannot be copied by machines, it cannot be found within creatures of lower intellect, it is unique in human beings, this is how civilizations developed and continue to do so. So, think outside the box for all that you do and you’ll be well on your way to finding answers for things you didn’t know you could.

The spiritual business. Create a business of good deeds through leaving behind mechanisms that create passive deeds for your soul and your loved ones in this world. For those that believe in the afterlife and believe in the reward of paradise and hell, are you not forgetting the largest business that ever existed. The business of helping people and leaving behind a legacy of actions, people and knowledge that will continue to benefit you in the next world.

If you do one good deed and that deed changes the life of someone, imagine the prayers, the good energy and the chain reaction of events you start with that. Now can you imagine, teaching goodness, passing on goodness and leaving behind goodness through pious, well mannered offspring. They will continue to build on the goodness and you’ll be the beneficiary of it all whilst they create their own spiritual banks with their own deeds. There are two others forms of creating passive deeds. Find out what they are in this episode.

You didn’t hate the person you married or got in a long-term relationship with. Nobody marries or gets into a relationship with someone they hate. Re-trace your steps and figure out where it went wrong. What changed? who changed and what was being neglected to fall off track? You’ll soon be able to recover what was lost with intellectual honesty and with a focus to look for solutions instead of blame. You need to be willing to do whatever it takes to make the adjustments.

If after communicating the problems and needs, no action is being taken to transform or fix the problem, what do you do? Find out on this episode.