The danger of labeling yourself as a trending title. Entrepreneur, Writer, Concept Artist. Once you label yourself you confine yourself to what you think that is. You limit your goals and passion to remain trendy and in line with your title you chose. Working 5 years in fashion showed how quick society and trends change. Do you keep losing yourself to be recreated to what society wants or do you let society know who you really are?

Entrepreneurs were not cool back when Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos and Jack Ma were classed as nerds and geeks. Now it’s cool to be one, however many that give themselves the title don’t understand the condition and the work needed of being one. Check out the episode to understand how self-labeling can create more problems for your happiness than solutions.

Our value is only equal to the value we bring to others. Our reflection of who we are and what we do is only realised when compared to others. Our physical existence here on Earth is in relation to how we are with others and how we are perceived by others. Check out the episode to understand the difference between intrinsic value for yourself that is universal and perceived value that is not. If you want to approach you goals and purpose with real value then this episode is a must for you.

The law of attraction and success formula put together by Napoleon Hill, is NOT ABOUT BECOMING RICH financially primarily. It is about creating wealth of life, happiness and removal of fears whilst through it acquiring all the riches you desire too in the process. It requires you creating a product based on your passion to benefit mankind and working on yourself. Find out what the current world is not teaching from the original principles and how to avoid another endless cycle of chasing the material world. Learn the bug picture of the philosophy of success in this episode.

Being friend-zoned is one of the worst feeling for someone who wants intimacy with a person they feel affection and attraction to and that person doesn’t want them in that way. Friend zoning occurs when there is no feeling of sexual tension, or if a person cannot see themselves being intimate with you. Sexual attraction is what starts intimate attraction. When a person looks at someone and thinks I’m interested in having sex with this person you're out of the friend zone.

A lot of people with high value personality characteristics fall into this trap early on because their nice, modest character prevents them from showing sexual energy at the onset, they become the reliable friend, the best pal or create a brotherly or sisterly relationship. If you want to avoid being friend-zoned you need to listen to this episode as I give you the breakdown of how to avoid getting into the zone and how to get out of one if you really want.

Have you ever tried to relax completely? Most of us never even try to drop our complete body weight and relax the entire body even when we are asleep. How many times during the day do you actually sit down and just let everything fall down? Try it now, feel your body and see if it’s tense, when your sitting down, when you're eating, when you're watching a movie or doing your work in front of a computer. When the mind is continuously focused on absorbing outside information and processing it, the ability to get it to focus on relaxing the body becomes blocked. 

In this episode I take you through an exercise on how to feel the difference between being tense and completely relaxing. Check it out!

Infidelity part B. The 2nd is someone who no longer gets their human needs met, this is not always sexual needs. A person in a long-term relationship doesn’t one day just get up deciding to cheat on their partner. This happens through a long period of neglect, miscommunication and heedlessness of the other partner. We all naturally want to be loved, needed, valued and respected. When that diminishes at home and you get it from a colleague, a friend or someone you meet new, that craving of needs attracts you to that person, over time you fall for them and then the final act of expressing that attraction is being intimate. It is the exact way they fell in love with you. 

If you want to learn how to get to the root causes of infidelity in long-term relationships and how to understand what takes place and the reason it takes place in this type of relationship then this episode is for you.

One of the biggest reasons for divorces is infidelity. Here’s the thing, cheating occurs because of two reasons. In this video I will mention the 1st type. What I like to call, the nurture driven infidelity. This type is when the cheater never has the intention to stay faithful and has loose moral standards from the onset. This behaviour is witnessed early on in any relationship.

This type is falls into those who have recently broken up from a relationship and have not got over it, are not ready to commit, don't know your standards or have communicated that you're exclusive. Other times it's about creating false expectations. Find out how and why it occurs and what you can do to avoid it, overcome it to get on with your life.

When we die, everything we can do on this planet and the book of our own deeds close. However, we can leave behind three things that will continue to benefit us and increase those deeds in our name. These three things will remain and continue indefinitely that will help to inspire others to come. The best examples are of great leaders, inventors, scientists, spiritual masters and messengers that have changed civilizations even after their passing.

Find out what these 3 are and the time perspective we must all be aware of to keep is focused at all times for these 3 things.

Whatever goal, examination or dream you want to achieve, more often than not you will lack the knowledge, skills or resources as you are currently to make that happen. You must therefore develop yourself to gain these qualities so that you can accomplish each step towards that goal. Have you heard of anyone taking an exam without developing their knowledge for it? Have you heard of anyone just getting into a car and take a driving test without taking lessons to learn driving? Find out in this episode, if you really need to have self-development for success.

People don’t have time for health yet when illnesses develop, they find all the time in the world to call off sick at work, look for sympathy and special treatment. They have no time to think about their life but when death comes knocking suddenly nothing else matters and their life is all they think about. They have no time for relationships until they become lonely and need love.

We overlook the most simple and fundamental needs for our happiness every day, wait until the problem arises and then suddenly become dedicated like a person possessed. We strangely find all the time now. How does the value of your life, health and love change between then and now? It doesn’t, we just put higher value on less meaningful things when we become ungrateful of what is important and valuable for us so nature and the laws of the universe decides to take control and bring it to our attention. Put your life, health and love at the front and then let everything else fit around it.