NPR’s All Things Considered co-host Mary Louise Kelly career as a journalist has taken her around the world including Russia, North Korea, Iran and Ukraine. That’s not when she’s on the anchor desk at the NPR studios in Washington.
Kelly has written for the Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, The Washington Post, Politico, Washingtonian and The Atlantic. But she also has authored three books.
Her latest is called It. Goes. So. Fast. The Year of No Do-Overs about her life with her family during her son James’ senior year in high school.
Mary Louise Kelly appeared at Midtown Scholar Bookstore in Harrisburg last Saturday and The Spark's Scott LaMar spoke to her about the book, her career and the news.
Why did she write the book?
My oldest son, who loves soccer. Has lived for soccer since before he could walk. He would have been like crawling along the front here, batting a little Nerf soccer ball. He was going out for his varsity team and their games are weekdays at 4:00. And this is what he lives for. Lives for these games. And I have a conflict on weekdays at 4:00, which is to the minute it's when All Things Considered goes on air. This had been the case for years. He made the varsity team as a freshman and as a sophomore and as a junior. And I had missed all the games freshman year, sophomore year. But I was suddenly staring down senior year. And the choices. That I had wrestled with. I never took them lightly, but I always thought, there's a chance I'll make a different choice next time. Like next year I'm going to figure this out. And I suddenly, instead of thousands or hundreds of games, I could count them on my two hands. There just weren't that many. There weren't that many left. And I realized if I'm going to make a different choice. I got to do it right now. And I did. And I took an extended absence from NPR. So if you didn't hear me much in the fall of 2021, that's why I was going to soccer games. And the act of deciding to do that and the impact it had on my career and how I thought about it led me to think about all the decisions I'd made that has gotten us there and what the impact on my family on me has been"
Did her son James appreciate that she was at the soccer games?
"That's such a good question. There were games that I went to. And, you know, some games he would trot over and meet me on the sidelines afterward. But others, the team is going into meetings in the locker room and I wouldn't see him until we got home and he would show up at our dinner table and report the score and tell me about the highlights. And I'd look at him and say, I was there. You know, I saw that goal and he. Oh, you were there? I thought, yes, I was there. But yeah, I think I think he knew and I think he appreciated I think he got it."
Kelly was asked to describe her famous interview with former Secretary of State Mike Pompeo.
"We did the interview. We started with Iran. It was contentious. It was a testy interview from the start and got more so when I changed the subject to Ukraine, which he did not want to talk about to the extent that his staffer cut the interview short before the full 10 minutes. And I thanked him, as is customary to do. And he said nothing. Just leaned close and glared at me. And then left the room. So my team and I are packing up to head back to file. And the same staffer came and got me and brought me back to...we're on the seventh floor of the State Department in Washington and brought me back to his living room adjacent to his office. And he screamed at me for about the same amount of time as the interview. And asked...Forgive my language, but if I'm going to quote accurately. Do you think Americans care about (expletive) Ukraine? And I said yes.
Did she find herself counting the days until James graduated?
"I wasn't counting days so much as experiences. I was counting, like. Maybe not counting like checking them off. I would set the table for family dinner and think how many more nights? And they come home as those of you with older kids know or you know, they come back. But it's never going to be quite the same as that nuclear family where you're all under one roof. So I think I was I was focused on that, but also focused on the beauty of those moments. In what might have been my very first interview about this book, I was speaking to my colleague Scott Simon, who was my NPR interview for Weekend Edition, and Scott was asking me about lasts. Like the last time your kid crawls onto your lap for a cuddle. And you, of course, never know in the moment. This is going to be the last time because they're 11 or 12 and they're about to be taller than me. But. Sometime it's going to be the last one."
James will be starting his second year at the University of Chicago.
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