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What does it really take to blend two families into one?

In this episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha sits down with Jackie Jackson to unpack the real complexities of blended families and motherhood in today’s world. Together, they explore the challenges bonus parents often face, the importance of trust and communication, and the self-discovery that comes with raising children in a blended home.

This heartfelt conversation reminds us that patience, understanding, and flexibility are essential — and that no two parenting paths look the same. Whether you’re raising biological children, stepchildren, or navigating both, this episode encourages you to silence the outside noise, build your own support system, and keep your children’s well-being front and center.

Key Takeaways

• Your purpose connects to someone else.
• Being a mom is the hardest job you’ll ever have.
• Navigating blended families requires patience and understanding.
• It’s okay to feel hesitation while finding your place.
• Silencing outside noise is crucial for self-trust.
• Every child needs something different from their parents.
• Trust your partner and leave selfishness at the door.
• Discomfort often leads to growth and deeper understanding.
• Social media can distort our perception of motherhood.
• Building your own village is essential for support.

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Why do we keep holding on to people, relationships, and opportunities that show no fruit?
 The Bible says, “You will know them by their fruits” (Matthew 7:16). Yet so many of us cling to potential — what someone could be — instead of paying attention to what they’re actually producing.

In this episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore unpacks:

• What it really means to be addicted to potential (and why it keeps us stuck)
• Why fruit reveals the root of who someone really is
• How to stop pouring into empty people and reclaim your own fruit
• The freedom that comes when you align with what God is actually producing in your life

Fruitless relationships won’t feed you. If it’s not producing, it’s draining.

 Reflection Questions for this Week:

1. What trees am I standing under? Are they feeding me or draining me?
2. What fruit do I actually see in the people around me?
3. Where am I ignoring the fruit God already planted in me?

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Motherhood is one of God’s greatest gifts—but nobody warns you about the tightrope walk of holding space for your children’s growth while making sure you don’t lose sight of your own. When was the last time you checked in with yourself to see how you’re really doing?

In this heartfelt episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore gets real about navigating the back-to-school season, the bittersweet emotions of watching your children grow, and the importance of releasing the mom guilt when you take time for yourself. Whether you’re dropping a kindergartener off for the first time or watching a teen drive away, this conversation will remind you that it’s okay to embrace every season of motherhood—joy, nostalgia, peace, and all.

You’ll hear:

• Why motherhood changes with every season—and how to adjust with grace
• The importance of using school hours for your own growth, rest, and dreams
• How to parent imperfectly while modeling humility, repentance, and growth
• Practical ways to fill your own cup without guilt
• A rapid-fire Q&A that will make you laugh and feel seen

Motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence, perspective, and purpose. Your mom identity is important, but it’s not your only identity. You are still a woman with dreams, a calling, and a purpose God designed just for you.

Scripture Reference: Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.”

If you’re ready to enter this school year happy, healthy, and whole, this episode is for you.

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What if the version of you who’s stumbling forward isn’t failing—she’s just starting again?

In this episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore reminds you that you are allowed to begin again—as many times as you need. Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, coming back from burnout, or just feel like life knocked the wind out of you… this one’s for you.

Tocha shares what it means to give yourself grace without guilt and how to start over when shame and fear try to talk you out of it. She also introduces a powerful new R.A.W. acronym to help you reframe your past:

Rough. Awry. Waiting.

You don’t need to be perfect to pivot. You just need permission to move forward.

🎧 Listen in for real talk on:

• Why your detour didn’t disqualify you
• What to do when “beginning again” feels like failure
• How to release who you thought you'd be and embrace who you're becoming

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In this deeply personal episode, Coach Tocha Moore shares her raw and unfiltered journey just four days after undergoing a total thyroidectomy. If you’ve ever had surgery, faced a major health shift, or struggled to slow down and honor rest—this is for you.

Tocha opens up about the physical fatigue, the emotional surrender, and what it’s really like to recover after thyroid surgery. From accepting help to learning to listen to her body, she invites you into the sacred tension between healing and hustle.

You’ll hear:

• What it’s like recovering from a total thyroidectomy
• Her honest experience with fatigue and hormone adjustment
• The surprising emotional challenges of post-op recovery
• How God is using this forced stillness to teach surrender and trust

Whether you’re walking through a healing journey of your own, or just need permission to stop pushing, this episode reminds you:
 You don’t have to be strong all the time—sometimes rest is the most courageous thing you can do.

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How do you carry pain that you didn’t cause—and not let it change who you are?

In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore speaks directly to the woman who’s holding heartbreak she didn’t start, didn’t deserve, and never saw coming. From betrayal to abandonment, from lies that stole your reputation to grief that stole your breath—this is for the woman who’s still standing… but barely.

Tocha breaks down:

• What NOT to do with your pain (revenge, avoidance, numbing)
• Why unprocessed pain performs in the wrong places
• Biblical examples of forgiveness in the face of deep betrayal (Job, Jesus, Joseph)
• How to sit with, pray through, and heal honestly from what they did and what you never got

This isn’t about pretending you’re okay.
 It’s about not letting what broke you… become you.

Because pain may be part of your story—
 but it’s not your personality.
 It’s not your purpose.
 And it’s not your permanent home.

If this resonated, share it with a friend who’s carrying pain she didn’t start.

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Some of you have been crying for breakthrough… while you are sitting on the thing God gave you to break through with.

In this powerful episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore pulls back the curtain on the silent excuses that keep gifted women stuck — not because they’re unqualified, but because they’re afraid.

Maybe you’ve been telling yourself:

• “I’m still healing…”
• “I’m not ready…”
• “Someone else is already doing it…”

But what if the truth is this:

You’re not stuck. You’re just scared to use your gift.

Inside this episode:

• A word for you Sis   — for the women who’ve been playing small
• Five excuses that seem legitimate but keep you stuck
• 📖 A reminder that 1 Peter 4:10 applies to you
• Why your obedience matters
• A journal prompt to help you stop sitting and start serving

This one isn’t for background noise. This is for your becoming.

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You’re doing the right things — praying, showing up, staying faithful — but nothing about this season feels fair.

This solo episode is for the woman who’s been silently wrestling with discouragement, comparison, and spiritual fatigue.

Coach Tocha Moore shares personal reflections, biblical truth, and raw encouragement for those of us who are wondering,

“Why does obedience still feel like struggle?”

Tap in to hear:

• Why unfair seasons don’t mean God is unfair
• How to stay rooted in purpose when life doesn’t make sense
• 3 ways to shift your posture in the middle of your pain

You’re not crazy. You’re not forgotten. You’re becoming.

And God is still good — even here.

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How long are you going to carry the weight of everything and still act like you’re fine?

You’ve spent too much time being the strong one, the dependable one, the “I got it” one—while silently running on empty.

In this unfiltered episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore gets honest about the kind of tired sleep won’t fix.
The emotional weight.
The mental heaviness.
The spiritual weariness that comes from always showing up while secretly falling apart.

She reminds you: you don’t have to earn rest. You don’t have to fake strength.
 And you don’t have to keep pushing just to prove you're okay.

And becoming takes energy.
 It takes surrender.
 It takes knowing when to pause, not just perform.

No more pretending.
 No more pushing past your capacity.
 No more performing for people who only see your strength, but not your soul.

It’s okay to say,
 “I’m not okay… but I’m still here.”

In this raw and real episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore opens up about something many of us are carrying quietly—exhaustion. But not just the kind that a nap can fix. She unpacks the emotional, mental, and spiritual weight that builds when we keep showing up for everyone else while silently running on empty.

With honesty and grace, Tocha reminds us that rest isn’t earned—it’s essential. She challenges the pressure to perform and invites us into a deeper conversation about vulnerability, self-awareness, and the courage to pause.

This episode is a breath of fresh air for anyone who feels like they’re doing all the things and still wondering why they feel so worn out. You are not alone, and yes—you’re still called, even when you're tired.

Takeaways

• I'm tired… and maybe you are too.
• Every day is a new chance to reset.
• Sometimes it's not just physical—it's the personal weight of it all.
• There is power in the pause.
• God didn’t create you to perform—He created you to be present.
• You don’t have to earn rest.
• You’re still called, even in your fatigue.
• Becoming takes energy—and that’s okay.
• You are always Combat Ready… fighting for the best version of you.

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How long are you going to betray yourself just to keep being loyal to people who stopped being loyal to you a long time ago?

You’ve spent too much time dimming your light, second-guessing your worth, and shaping yourself to fit places God already called you out of.

In this unfiltered episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore dismantles the lies of people-pleasing and reminds you: the betrayal, the silence, the shade—it was never rejection. It was redirection. It was God saying, “I’m pulling you out so I can pour into you.”

This episode is part of the If No One Told You – Let Me Be the First series and is rooted in Tocha’s signature message of Fighting for H.E.R.—Healing, Evolution, and Reclaiming.

You were created on purpose, for purpose. 

And no one’s opinion gets to rewrite what God already authored.

No more apologizing. No more shrinking. No more waiting for approval.

It’s time to stop performing and start becoming. Because baby…

It was never about them. It’s always been about YOU.

Thank you for joining us on this journey to empowerment. Remember, you are worth fighting for H.E.R.