Let’s talk with Leilah of A Stripper’s Guide about privacy issues and safety, queerness at the stripclub, and listen as she gives tips on setting boundaries and maintaining a healthier relationship with partners and self.

3:00 she works night shifts for a few reasons

7:00 curious but condescending 

10:00 plz don’t ask her about her sex life

12:00 “gold star lesbian” discussion

15:00 on the asexuality spectrum: demisexual

18:00 artificial intelligence 

24:00 feeling shame vs seeking privacy

28:00 I identify with the slutty-looking girl

33:00 private about her sex life 

37:00 on sounding polite while setting boundaries

42:00 image impacting income 

45:00 on seeming available 

47:00 non-sexual methods of partner bonding

53:00 on feeling touched-out 

1:00:00 book recommendations 

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