Shloime Ehrlich is a rabbi, educator, and community leader in the Orthodox Jewish community, recognized for supporting struggling youth. He founded Bnos NY, a program offering a nurturing environment for teenage girls facing challenges, and contributes to Kesher Nafshi, delivering talks on resilience and support for individuals and families. He also specializes in couples counseling and marriage, with a focus on blended families, helping them navigate their unique dynamics.

00:00 – Intro

00:44 – Rabbi Erlich’s Journey 

07:35 – Dating vs shidduch System 

12:38 – Roles in the marriage

20:45 –Are divorces disposable?

22:16 – Seeking advice from the right people 

24:33 – Knowing who the kids really wanna marry  

27:54 – Bias Din and Toyanim

33:50 – Family court disputes

37:10 - When do you know the marriage will not work?

41:18 - Not letting the ex have custody

45:25 - Getting out of toxic relationships

49:12 - living with the decision after a divorce

51:49 - Do tolerance levels change for second marriage?

58:23 - Children who take advantage of divorce

01:01:56 - Learning to trust again

01:06:11 - Successful second marriages 

01:08:24 - The right way to get divorced

01:10:38 - Self blame and healing 

01:14:52 - Gaining children’s trust in blended families 

01:18:05 - Why are kids misbehaving and dropping out of schools?

01:28:11 - Who is you’re role model?

01:30:28 - Final thoughts 

01:34:27 - Outro

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