Dating efficiency, crazy women, how to save money/time/stress, finding a good girl.

Episode 10 Show Notes:

6:30 – Intro to “Sexual Magnetism”

8:30 – Jay is a Bachelor / Matt is a Married father of 4

10:15 – The date should be a screening process

12:30 – What qualities are you looking for in a woman?

15:00 – Crazy dates

16:15 – Matt’s first dates: A MUCH older woman / “Wait, you’re an ex-prostitute?”

20:30 – Learning a Woman’s relationship history

21:30 – Jay dates a vampire / Going out with a plucker

26:45 – How long should your first date be?

29:30 – Break the date off as soon as you know she doesn’t have potential

33:00 – Don’t buy meals on the first date

35:30 – Scarcity vs Abundance mentality

39:00 – Having a plan for your date

41:00 – concerns for Men: Strategy and sex/concerns for women: Safety

43:30 – Getting confidence about dating

51:00 – What are IOIs? / Examples of Indicators of Interest

56:30 – How to compliment a girl

61:00 – Should you shake hands at the beginning of a date?

62:30 – How to end the date

65:30 – When you’re done with a girl, break things off

15 Signs Your Woman is Crazy

The Universal Hot/Crazy Scale

Chandler keeps failing to break up

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In this episode Matt and Jay talk about fighting, hyper-masculinity, conflict resolution and the need for good boundaries.

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Episode 9 Show Notes:

3:15 – What is Conflict?

8:15 – The different people we all conflict with

10:30 – Bumper sticker politics

14:00 – Not all conflict can be resolved

16:00 – UFC 229: McGregor vs Khabib

20:30 – Profiting by the promotion of violence

24:00 – Deep in their core all men agree that fighting is cool

25:30 – Hyper-Masculinity vs Beta Males

28:00 – The lack of Masculine, well-rounded Male role models in the media

30:30 – Why strong Men are necessary in times of conflict

32:00 – A fight inside the group at We Are Superior Men

40:00 – In a tough fight, each fighter has a different perspective

44:30 – Fighting unfairly / The result of repression is hyper-aggression

46:30 – What is a boundary? / Making promises and commitments

51:00 – Breaking your commitments means losing faith in yourself

55:00 – It’s better to make no promises than to make a promise you break

58:30 – Make small goals, make the fight manageable

61:00 – Find or create a support group to help you

67:00 – How to tell if you have bad or non-existent boundaries

71:00 – Learning to say “No”

74:30 – Five signs you’re co-dependent

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In this episode Matt and Jay discuss what it means to be strong, Masculine vs Feminine strength and how Men can develop Masculine strength

Show notes:

2:00 – The growth of Crossfit, American Ninja Warrior and Male Instagram Models

4:00 – What is strength?

6:00 – Becoming strong requires strength

8:00 – What is masculine strength? Community Definitions

10:00 – @drgusbus: Staying manly in a world of negative feminist propaganda

11:45 – @alexlearns: The ability to be dangerous – and to be able to control that ability

14:30 – @manbydesign.ca: Knowing who you are, not making excuses, fighting for what you believe in [@doktor_faun: What he said]

16:00 – @juggernaut_79: A man isn’t afraid to show emotion in everything he does. Men aren’t robots.

17:30 – @davidagilbert, @elmer_escoto: Patience, perseverance, passion, determination

18:45 – @seeborisgo: Being able to stand up, unplug and walk away from the shit society says is needed

20:45 – @the_center_of_my_world: Shouldering through loss and pain without complaining, just pushing forward

23:30 – @willpwr7: Strength of will, conviction and self-determination

24:30 – @evolving_wild: It is AT LEAST physical strength. It is also mental toughness. The definition is somewhat subjective but never individual. It is always in relationship. www.evolvingwild.live

25:15 – @the.mencollective: Courage is not about the absence of fear, as the popular adage goes. It is about accepting fear as part of our existence and practice acting anyway.  themencollective.com

28:00 – Is masculine strength under attack by modern media?

32:00 – Baby Boys = Blue, Baby Girls = Pink. Or Yellow? Green?

35:00 – The worst baby shower ever

40:00 – Little boys are driven to create and destroy, little girls are driven to nurture and connect

45:30 – For a balanced whole, Yin and Yang are both necessary

49:00 – Beauty vs Hoarders

53:30 – Even homosexual couples have a Masculine/Feminine balance

55:00 – How to develop your Masculine strengths

60:00 – Skills attracts women

64:00 – Every small improvement you make for yourself will improve your family

68:30 – Why you need ‘Kaizen’ in your life

74:00 – Join our community and help us to become more Superior!

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Matt and Jay discuss Kavanaugh, #METOO and sexual assault. They also talk about the importance of being specific with your language.

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Episode 7 Notes

4:50 – Bill Cosby & the beginning of the #metoo movement

7:00 – Weinstein is a horrible person but legal proof is still needed and lying is still lying

10:00 – Brett Kavanaugh, partisan power and the Supreme Court lifetime appointment

16:00 – Dr. Christine Blase Ford / Description of the incident with Kavanaugh

21:00 – Celebrity endorsement of Ford & Kavanaugh: “I’m with her” OR “I’m with him”

24:00 – “It happened 35 years ago” / The problem with our memory

28:00 – The political power of strong feelings (regardless of facts)

36:00 – Due Process vs The court of Social Media: Who needs truth anyway?

42:30 – Miranda Rights and What to say if a police officer accuses you of something (Hint: SAY NOTHING)

45:00 – Detailed definitions: Sexual Assault, Sexual Battery, Forms of Rape

51:00 – Affirmative consent: “Yes means yes” – but does it?

53:00 – The tremendous, fatal power of an accusation

58:30 – How we should punish false claims / The new scarlet letter

1:03:30 – Have you been sexually assaulted? Step #1: Call the police, DON’T post on social media

1:07:30 – Asia Argento and Weinstein: #metoo and How to destroy your own credibility

1:10:00 – In 2018, over 140 famous people publicly accused of sexual assault

1:16:30 – Are you accused of sexual assault? DON’T use The Kevin Spacey Defense

1:21:30 – How to respond if you have behaved inappropriately / Apologies / Getting a lawyer

1:29:00 – Bottom line: Guys, treat women, treat everyone well. Always.

Bill Cosby

• First trial in the #metoo movement
• World’s biggest comedian for decades, Cosby Show (+ spinoff), Jello commercials, best-selling comedy albums, told modern comedians (Richard Pryor, Eddie Murphy) not to use F-word, N-word
• 60 different women accused him of drug-induced sex assault since 1960s
  • Various levels of accusation, some plausible, some vague at best
• All but Andrea Constand (2004 assault) were outside of statute of limitations (differs by state, generally under 10 years)
• After mistrial (2015), convicted (2018) of 3 counts of drugging, sexually assault Constand
• Sentenced to 3-10 years in prison, permanent violent sex offender status, permanent parole, GPS tag at all times

Harvey Weinstein

• More than 40 women, including Angelina Jolie, Ashley Judd and Gwyneth Paltrow, have accused Weinstein of some form of sexual misconduct
• Six felony charges relating to three women: two counts of predatory sexual assault, two counts of criminal sexual act in the first degree, and one count each of first-degree rape and third-degree rape.
• Lucia Evans, one of six accusers, just dismissed (Oct 11) after inconsistencies in reports
  • Evans said she was forced to perform oral sex on WeinsteinFriend said Evans told him it was exchange “Oral sex for a job”
• Weinstein currently out on $1 Million bail

Kavanaugh Hearings

• Background of Controversy
  • Happened in High SChool, 36 years agoAccuser, Dr. Christine Blasey Ford, Professor Palo Alto University, Research PsychologistClaim is that Kavana

Matt and Jay talk about the difference between how men and women communicate and what men can do to help bridge that gap. Oh and STFU.

Show Notes:

• 2:00 – Talking less
• 5:10 – Fixing her problems
• 9:11 – Listen
• 13:20 – Shut up
• 14:45 – Do, don’t talk
• 17:15 – Watch your compliments
• 22:45 – Still shut up – let her vent
• 22:30 – Complaining
• 29:25 – Hazing the complainers
• 35:00 – Getting shit done
• 43:00 – Groups help with challenges
• 51:45 – Flirting
• 54:25 – Talking vs action
• 59:18 – Social interaction
• 1:06:20 – Words don’t mean what they mean
• 1:12:00 – You have control over yourself

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Why 5.1? We had an issue with episode 5. But never fear 5.1 is bigger and better.

In this episode, Matt and Jay talk about the “Gender Pay Gap,” opportunities for men and women and ways to succeed in your career.

Show Notes:

8:20 – The culture of victimhood / The power of blaming someone else for your problems

16:00 – Our current, 2018 work opportunities are unparalleled in history – for both men and women

22:00 – Using outrage to drive explosive social media traffic

33:00 – How to manipulate statistics to “prove” your narrative

47:00 – Is the wage gap really real? [IF YOU’RE IN A HURRY, START HERE]

54:00 – Modern business owners don’t care about your sex, they care about their profit margin

62:00 – Stanford Study: Most high-level female attorneys in their 30s leave their careers to pursue family

67:30 – The truth behind the statistic “Women earn, on average, 77% of their male counterparts”

78:00 – US Dept. of Labor meta-analysis: “The wage gap is actually individual choices made by workers.”

86:30 – Colleges want EVERYONE for EVERY major, assuming you can pay (or take a loan)

90:00 – Passion vs Skill vs Opportunity

Editor’s Note: We want to apologize for our references in this episode to the now-defunct Episode 5. The good news is that Episode 5.1 gives you all the best stuff from Ep5 and adds a whole bunch of new material, including lots of research, statistics and in-depth discussion. We think you’re really going to dig it.

US Dept of Labor statistics:
Labor force participation rate – Male vs Female
Weekly time spent working by each gender (statistics)
Weekly time spent working by each gender (graph)
Overall median weekly incomes for all genders

4 main factors in determining wage differences for all workers (men and women):
Agreeableness
Extraversion
Mobility
Availability
https://www.icpsr.umich.edu/icpsrweb/ICPSR/studies/8092
https://melbourneinstitute.unimelb.edu.au/hilda

Mike Rowe video about passion vs opportunity https://youtu.be/CVEuPmVAb8o
“Just because you’re passionate about something doesn’t mean you won’t suck at it”

This episode Matt and Jay discuss preventable divorce, salvaging the wreck of your relationship and how to make yourself attractive to your woman again.

2:30 – What can you do if she doesn’t think you’re attractive anymore?

8:15 – If you’re only a paycheck, you’re replaceable AND she can take your $$ in the divorce

12:00 – Steps to RESET attraction in a relationship

14:00 – The opposite of love isn’t hate

18:15 – Negative attention from a woman and what it really means

23:30 – Why you shouldn’t listen to her words – and what you SHOULD focus on instead

25:00 – ‘Dread Game’ and how to play it

30:00 – “Pre-selection Bias” – If someone else wants it, it must be good

37:30 – “What women want when they test men” Bruce Bryans / The four “tests” women give men

45:30 – You always have the option to say “No”

54:30 – How to answer “Do I look fat in these pants?”

60:15 – One thing you should NEVER tell women / Athol Kay’s “Mindful Attraction Plan”

70:00 – How are you choosing to hypnotize/reprogram yourself?

76:30 – ‘Way of the Superior Man’ by David Deida

78:00 – Upgrade your wardrobe, change your mindset / “The Essential Man”

86:00 – Pulling away, becoming yourself is scary to her – but also exciting!

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This episode Matt and Jay discuss attraction, getting a life and why you might want a divorce.

Show Notes:

• 2:30 – Talk about blogging at wearesuperiormen.com
• 6:20 – Psychology BS
• 8:35 – Male vs Female problem solving
• 9:15 – Dating
• 21:30 – Be Interesting
• 24:30 – Have your own interests
• 35:00 – Boundaries
• 38:15 – Do what you say, say what you mean / Woman as a mirror
• 47:10 – Checklists
• 49:00 – Honor commitments
• 54:20 – Neediness
• 58:50 – The Rapists
• 62.55 – Should you get a divorce?

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This episode is about wildness, backpacking and overcoming obstacles.

Show Notes:

• 2:10 – Profiles of Superior Men on Instagram @realsuperiormen
• 3:40 – The problem with children of rich/famous people
• 6:10 – Why mothers hate and love when their sons become soldiers
• 12:15 – Matt challenges his family
• 15:30 – A steep three-mile climb. With kids. With backpacks.
• 19:25 – We’re born to bitch
• 20:35 – An incredible way to stop your kids from complaining
• 24:08 – Breaking the downward spiral of negativity
• 26:25 – Matt and Jay as kids climb a mountain
• 30:00 – When you’re weak and in the wild, death seems imminent
• 37:25 – The most delicious water in the world
• 40:15 – Voluntarily increasing your life difficulty
• 42:30 – “Pain is not my enemy, it is my call to greatness”
• 45:50 – A major cause of injury in life: Doing nothing
• 50:30 – We all start at the beginning
• 57:00 – Key of leadership “Help others achieve by achieving first”
• 59:00 – We’re all teachers, we’re all students

12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos – Jordan Peterson

IRON AND THE SOUL
by Henry Rollins

I believe that the definition of definition is reinvention. To not be like your parents. To not be like your friends. To be yourself. Completely.

When I was young I had no sense of myself. All I was, was a product of all the fear and humiliation I suffered. Fear of my parents. The humiliation of teachers calling me “garbage can” and telling me I’d be mowing lawns for a living. And the very real terror of my fellow students. I was threatened and beaten up for the color of my skin and my size. I was skinny and clumsy, and when others would tease me I didn’t run home crying, wondering why.

I knew all too well. I was there to be antagonized. In sports I was laughed at. A spaz. I was pretty good at boxing but only because the rage that filled my every waking moment made me wild and unpredictable. I fought with some strange fury. The other boys thought I was crazy.
I hated myself all the time.

As stupid at it seems now, I wanted to talk like them, dress like them, carry myself with the ease of knowing that I wasn’t going to get pounded in the hallway between classes. Years passed and I learned to keep it all inside. I only talked to a few boys in my grade. Other losers. Some of them are to this day the greatest people I have ever known. Hang out with a guy who has had his head flushed down a toilet a few times, treat him with respect, and you’ll find a faithful friend forever. But even with friends, school sucked. Teachers gave me hard time.

I didn’t think much of them either.

Then came Mr. Pepperman, my advisor. He was a powerfully built Vietnam veteran, and he was scary. No one ever talked out of turn in his class. Once one kid did and Mr. P. lifted him off the ground and pinned him to the black board. Mr. P. could see that I was in bad shape, and one Friday in October he asked me if I had ever worked out with weights. I told him no.

He told me that I was going to take some of the money that I had saved and buy a hundred pound set of weights at Sears. As I left his office, I started to think of things I would say to him on Monday when he asked about the weights that I was not going to buy. Still, it made me feel special. My father never really got that close to caring. On Saturday I bought th

Today Matt and Jay talked about the red pill, below are some links to the material referenced in the podcast:

We put together the 5 common stages men go through when digesting the red pill. For any of you brave souls who care to comment, does this ring true for you?? #wasm #redpill https://t.co/kH0YzN3Trv pic.twitter.com/AIxRcz3PYA

Check your male privilege men… pic.twitter.com/LIPXpB2J3Z

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