"Resentment kills relationships. But it is not a monster or an enemy. Instead, it is just the natural byproduct of lack of resolution. Focus directly on the resolution and the byproducts of non-resolution, including resentment, will cease to exist." - Teal Swan

The issue is that you've been with people are averting the wall. What you need is someone who's ok with the wall. Right here in this moment, we've got this wall in between us and I'm ok with it and I'm not going to make me go anywhere. And that's going to make you break down.

The people who end up in big lose-lose scenarios are those who refuse their authenticity. They make choices and thus build lives that are the most out of alignment with their authenticity. They don’t notice the small universal promptings into their personal truth and so it escalates...Everyone has an Achilles heel. What most people don’t know is that the flip side of that Achilles heel is a desperate need. For example, if someone’s Achilles heel is isolation, their deep need might be for secure/available connection or closeness. This desperate need is what people will capitalize on if they are putting you in a lose-lose scenario. They will use your point of greatest weakness and therefore greatest need. If you are in a lose-lose scenario with someone, you need to become aware of this need and find ways to meet that need so that the deprivation of this need is not something the person can use against you...Now I’m going to tell you something that will change your level of pain and powerlessness in lose-lose scenarios forever. When you are stuck in a lose-lose scenario, the severity of the pain of the decision is actually being caused by the parts of yourself that are caught in a needs conflict. If you resolve the needs conflict between those two parts of yourself, you will find alignment and be able to either see different options than you originally saw or make a clear choice between two unwanted options without suffering.

Paul Joseph Watson: Why is popular culture so incredibly vulgar?...Did I hear someone say 'cultural marxism'? hahaha

~so who knows, the first ones will soon come knocking on the door to see nature no longer as a metaphor, but to connect with it~Communication with nature takes us to the essence of life with Anna Breytenbach: “MAN HAS THE SAME INTELLIGENCE AS NATURE, BUT MAKES LITTLE OR NO USE OF IT.”...“Nowadays the great thinkers are revered, but where is the admiration for the great ‘feelers’ of our time? Our mind is so eager to ‘control’ and ‘control’ life. How much more pain, suffering and crisis do we need to understand that it is all about ‘feeling and sensing’, ‘resilience’ and ‘instant knowing’ “..."Our instinctual nature, from which we've largely been separated, is a critical component of reconnection that's calling to us now...May the new definition of 'enlightenment' mean lightening our impact of the natural world."

If you say "I'm not vegan", but no one is around to hear it, are you still not vegan? (Laura Marie & Teal Swan)

[Teal Swan] I want to call out this collective vibration of 'I need rescue'. YOUR ISSUE IS NOT MENTAL, IT'S VISCERAL.

Pain exists for a reason. It's calling for presence.

[Teal Swan] Anytime we get someone to identify with an illness we have prescribed them with, the identification makes it stronger.

[Teal Swan] The minute you resist an emotion, you're stuck in the emotion for good. (In my opinion, the Most Major reason that people get stuck in darkness is that you get that darkness rejected AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN...so you get stuck there. Other people reject it. You reject it in yourself. And ON AND ON AND ON. WE MUST RECOGNIZE THE EMOTION TRAPPED IN US AND THEN BE AROUND PEOPLE OR THERAPISTS THAT CAN ACCEPT THAT AND WELCOME THAT AS IT IS AND HELP IT PASS INSTEAD OF RE-SUBJECTING OURSELVES TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO DO THAT.)