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As a founder, you have the freedom to make decisions no one else can—but that freedom comes with risk. In this episode, I reflect on a recent conversation with Greg Glassman that reminded me of the unique privileges and paradoxes that come with building a business from scratch.
Founders can give generously, preserve legacy pricing, or avoid lucrative but misaligned partnerships. But they can also break things—radically changing what already works out of boredom or unchecked curiosity.
I’ll walk through real examples of when Tinkers over-experimented and damaged their businesses, and I’ll offer practical strategies to manage the founder’s paradox: from hiring a CEO, to building a trusted board of advisors, to simply stepping back for a quarter to regain clarity.
At this level of gym ownership, there are fewer tactics and more paradoxes. Being aware of that is the first step.
Hey Tinkers,
Today I want to talk about something that shows up right at the edge of every big, bold move: fear of impact.
A lot of us reach this point in the Tinker phase where we’re ready to launch something larger—something that could actually shift the industry, change our community, or influence people at scale. But then something happens. Maybe a Facebook comment hits a nerve. Maybe someone you respect says, “That’s terrible,” or “You should be careful,” or “You’ve gone too far.” And instead of pushing forward, you pull back.
Here’s the truth: sometimes we’re not cautious—we’re just hiding. That’s what my mentor Marcy Swenson told me once, and it stuck.
Mel Siff said, “As soon as you plant a flag, people will start shooting.” And that’s exactly it—impact attracts fire. Not because you’re wrong, but because you dared to step up and say, “Here’s what I believe. Here’s what I’m building.”
So how do we prepare for that? How do we keep going when the arrows start flying?
Let me give you a short framework I use when I’m about to launch something that matters:
1. Think about who you’re doing this for.
Are they worth it? If the answer is yes, then they’re worth the discomfort, the doubt, even the criticism.
There’s a moment in the novel Silence where a priest is asked, “Are you willing to be trampled if it means saving them?” It’s a gut punch. But sometimes that’s the question we have to ask ourselves: Am I willing to be misunderstood, criticized, even laughed at—if it means helping the right people?
2. Write a premortem.
Imagine it all goes sideways. What happens? What went wrong? What could have been done better?
This isn’t to scare yourself—it’s to build resilience ahead of time. If the worst case did happen, would it actually destroy you? Or would you just learn and get better next time?
3. Write down the worst feedback you could receive.
This part is powerful. Because most of us already have a critic living in our heads—someone who knows all our insecurities and soft spots. Get it out. Write it down. Read it aloud. Then decide: if someone actually says this, will I argue with them? Or will I just ignore it and let it die on the vine? If you’re not sure, ask in this group. We’ve got your back.
4. Accept that your impact might help people you didn’t intend to help.
At Two-Brain, I’ve built systems to help thousands of gym owners, but not every one of them is someone I’d go for coffee with. At Catalyst, I’ve had people get fitter who didn’t share my values at all. But impact doesn’t discriminate. A rising tide raises all boats—it doesn’t sink the pirates. Let it go.
5. Take social media off your phone on Focus Days and Rest Days.
Trust me, you don’t need the noise. You need clarity.
6. When the criticism comes—because it will—read it aloud to someone who supports you.
Treat it like celebrities reading mean tweets. Laugh about it. Get some perspective. And then get back to work.
Here’s the final truth:
Creating an impact means offering answers, not rants. Solutions, not complaints. Building, not criticizing.
The people who attack bold ideas are never the ones building anything better. If they were, they’d be too busy to comment. So cut them out of the conversation immediately.
And then? Launch.
Take notes. Fix what breaks. Move fast. Bury the criticism. Stay focused on the people you’re trying to help—they are the bright light that pulls you forward.
This is the work of a Tinker. And it’s worth it.
In this episode, I share essential strategies for gym owners in the Tinker stage on how to lead through periods of economic uncertainty. As we face fluctuating markets, it's important to adapt your leadership approach to ensure continued growth and success.
Key takeaways include:
These strategies will help you stay strong during tough times and come out on the other side with a thriving business.
What should you actually do with your life? Joseph Campbell’s answer was simple: Follow your bliss. At first, I thought that was trite—but now I see its genius. In this episode, I explore what it really means to follow your bliss and how it applies to entrepreneurs who have built successful businesses.
For many in the Tinker group, their art is coaching—but they’ve stepped away from coaching as they grew their business. Others find their bliss in growing the business itself or in mentoring others. Some will follow a different path—music, writing, coaching kids, or spiritual practice. The key is this: once your business is secure, you have the ultimate opportunity to do work for joy, not just for money.
Whether your bliss is coaching, mentoring, business growth, or something else, this episode will help you rediscover why you built your business in the first place.
Tune in and ask yourself: What’s your art? What’s the work that makes you feel fully alive?
Podcast Outline: The Puzzle Problem
Intro (1-2 minutes):
"Today, I’m going to talk about something I call 'The Puzzle Problem.' As entrepreneurs, many of us start out solving a giant puzzle when building our business. Every solution feels like we’re fitting a piece into place. We thrive on that challenge. But what happens when the puzzle is solved? For many of you, especially around the $100k NOB mark, you find that the machine just runs without you. You’re not as needed anymore, and that sense of purpose starts to fade. This creates boredom, and that boredom can be dangerous."
Problem Breakdown (2-3 minutes):
Solutions: Overcoming the Puzzle Problem (4-5 minutes)
Closing (1-2 minutes):
"The Puzzle Problem is something many entrepreneurs face after reaching a major milestone. Boredom and stress-seeking behaviors can lead to sabotaging your success. But by reframing the puzzle, mentoring others, and investing in new challenges or passions, you can stay fulfilled without breaking the machine you worked so hard to build.
Take some time today to reflect: Are you solving the right puzzle, or are you creating problems to fix? Let me know in the Tinker group discussion. Thanks for listening, and I’ll catch you next week!"
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