Is a monogamous relationship right for me? Is monogamy natural? In this episode, Bailie and Jb compare long term monogamous relationships with other forms, such as polyamorous and open relationships. They talk about the origin of marriage and how our needs and wants have evolved since then.

Bailie and Jb discuss why many people struggle with monogamous relationships and talk about how to get over a fear of commitment. They also challenge the listeners to determine if its their partner or the type of relationship that is making the relationship less than ideal. 

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In this episode, Bailie and Jb get into a battle of genders where they discuss whether men or women have it worse. They talk about everything from the disconnect between the modern women and traditional women to who has it worse in dating, and so much more. 

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We've all heard the phrase "nice guys finish last," but is this really true? And if so, why do they finish last and what can be done about it. In this episode, Bailie and Jb discuss the difference between a fuck boy and a nice guy, and take a deep dive into why girls like the kind of guys they like. 

Bailie and Jb talk about everything from being too needy and available to having a lack of self-confidence. They also touch on whether men like "nice girls" and whether there is someone for everybody, even if you are a nice guy or girl. 

All in all, this episode discovers plenty on how nice guys can change the narrative for their lives and take control. Welcome to the TOP! 🍊

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To fuck or to make love, that is the question. In this episode, Bailie and JB discuss the role emotions play in sex and whether the sex is better with or without an emotional connection. They touch on the differences between being dickmatized and pussy whipped and share views on how long someone should wait before having sex with someone new. 

JB and Bailie both shared personal experiences on their sex lives and how emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy has shaped these experiences. JB talks about what men and women can do to help women achieve more orgasms and Bailie reveals her desire for a relationship hall pass. 

All in all, this episode discovers plenty on how men and women see sex differently and how we can all get on the same page. Welcome to the TOP! 🍊

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In this episode, we take a deep dive into the different types of baggage one brings into a relationship. We discuss what our personal baggage is and try to determine why our baggage is what it is. We talk about communicating your baggage, handling someone else's baggage, how to heal from past trauma and so much more!

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Some things we do to make ourselves happy, but often we do things for the sole purpose of attracting a potential mate. In this episode, we discuss everything from why women wear make up and heels to why guys work out. 

Bailie charges JB up on his views of what "good hair" is and they debate on what men actually notice about women. We also touch on whether we care too much about our appearance and who cares more. 

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How many of us experience feelings of loneliness? How often do we self-isolate from the ones we love? In this episode, we discuss whether it's normal to feel alone and the leading causes to feeling lonely. 

We talk about how loneliness affects men and women differently, as well as considering what age has to do with it all. We get personal with our own confessions of loneliness and discuss the cycle of self isolation, social anxiety and depression. All in all, we learned a lot about ourselves and we hope you all do as well.

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In this episode, we discuss a wide variety of hard pills to swallow, those ugly truths that people steer away from talking about. We touch on everything from the dating market value of women decreasing with age to how much pressure women put on themselves to keep up with society's beauty standards. We also discuss the fact that no one is as special as they think and how everyone simply just won't like you. 

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In this episode, we discuss how to keep the spark between you and your partner alive and well. We touch on everything from whether an initial spark is necessary and what it feels like to who usually takes the blame for the spark dying out. We also get into what sex has to do with it all, and the differences in how men and women see sex in a long-term relationship. 

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In this episode, we discuss whether black people support each other less than other races. We touch on the difference between real support and shallow support, people wanting you to do good but not better than them, black people being unconsciously biased against each other and so much more! 

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