Let’s get elbow deep in complex topics like kink, neurodiversity, trauma healing and trans gender issues. Writer cosima bee concordia aka “Bimbo Theory” joins me here and you can find her on Patreon too.

1:00 her new IG is @bimbo.theory

3:00 what is kink?

7:00 ADHD and sluggish cognitive tempo

9:00 lists and timers can be helpful for ADHD

13:00 moral panic around trans people 

15:00 informed consent models

18:00 on “pegging the patriarchy”

22:00 Greek men had rules for how they were allowed to have anal sex

25:00 on pegging

30:00 I want leather education!

33:00 BDSM book recommendation - “Leathersex”

36:00 blood play and risk

40:00 submissives and service-topping

45:00 nicknames and pet names

49:00 r*pe-role play 

53:00 eroticized taboos

56:00 examples of many types of kink play

59:00 resources for cis people dating newly-transitioned folks

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