On this episode, Della Licious — also known as Branden Blaettner — joins Caroline to trace a journey moving through over two decades of drag performance, community leadership, and challenging societal perceptions.
The conversation explores what it means to build an authentic life on and off the stage, sitting with the profound weight of the phrase “don’t judge a book by its cover.” After 21 years in drag, Della reflects on witnessing and navigating prejudice, stereotyping, and exclusion faced by LGBTQ+ individuals. Through lived experience, she has cultivated a sharp intellect, deep empathy, and a gift for storytelling that reframes hardship into humor, humanity, and hope.
Together, Caroline and Della dive into how authenticity, resilience, and art can reshape the narrative of visibility.
As Della shares, “I want to share an insight of acceptance that can change the perception of my community.”
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About the Guest
Della Licious (Branden Blaettner) has been a fixture on Fort Wayne’s nightclub scene for over twenty years. She emcees and performs regularly at After Dark, bringing theatricality, presence, and sharp storytelling to late-night stages. Beyond performance, Della shapes community by speaking directly to identity, prejudice, and belonging through lived experience.
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About the Podcast
The Trans Narrative Podcast is an international storytelling and archival platform dedicated to preserving trans and gender-diverse lives through long-form narrative. With over 150 episodes across five seasons and listeners in more than 80 countries, each episode captures lived experience from beginning to end, treating every story as historical record rather than soundbite.
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