Rowan and Devin answer the question, how did they dare to love again after divorce, coming out and the chaos of changing everything in their lives? How did they go from friends to lovers?

This episode has a smart car, a dog walk, a full supermoon, a plan to take it slow, a slow motion walk across the room, an apology text at 6 a.m., what Devin describes as a "rocket ride" and what Rowan says was "too far."

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A totally new definition of transgender! Devin dives in to what it means to him, and guess what? It's not a typical perspective! And he shakes things up with a new term: HTH - not FTM or MTF. Find out what that means in this episode.

Rowan and Devin shaire their current "life" zip lines and feeling equal parts excited and anxious. They dish about flirting in their 50s and shoutout to Dan Levy and telling stories with queer and trans characters. Rowan reveals some details and some content that will be in her book.

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Rowan and Devin answer some frequent questions. Are they still lesbians? If Devin transitioned FTM does that mean they're in a straight relationship now? Why didn't Rowan just date men? Rowan challenges labels - love before labels baby! And she pushes the definition of what it means to say "a trans man is a man." Devin declares he was born fully loaded, and appointed, this way.

And a super cute term for a trans grandpa :) 

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What happens when the Transman and his Queen go to Vegas? Rowan and Devin discuss their recent trip to Las Vegas, including their experiences on the strip, at the Paris Hotel, and enjoying steak frites at Mon Ami Gabi restaurant. They both take on their fear of heights with a zip line challenge over Fremont Street. Devin reacts to feeling up close and personal with some gear checks and Rowan discovers something new while hanging out eleven floors up.

"So of course we went for the Superman option, because that looked cool."

Also, Rowan talks about why she turned Devin down when Devin asked her out. She drops a surprise piece of key information that presented an obstacle to saying yes.

See a video of our zip line and Vegas adventures on TikTok and Instagram.

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Rowan asks - Will you be sexually attracted to your partner after they transition? Can your intimacy survive?

Labels, gender, identity, so many changes. How do we find our way? How do we connect and create honest intimacy and the relationship we long for? What if we could have the best sex of our life? Is that possible?

"When you're with someone who is fully present in themselves, who's aligned and stoked about their body, their gender, their identity.. that's hella sexy!"

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Rowan shares some of the fears and obstacles she faced when Devin came out to her. She talks about when she literally got kicked in the head and what it taught her that she used in her relationship. "Sometimes out of the blue, we get a life change that feels like a kick in the head." 

Unexpected life changes and asks - what if the big scary thing is really a good thing? What if it leads us to something better? Are we on board? What if there's an opportunity for a richer, more connected, more vibrant version of our life? 

Rowan also responds to a comment she and Devin received received and shares how the conversation around the trans experience tends to be about three things - bathrooms, what's in their pants, and pronouns - (insert eye roll here) she says we are minimizing the depth and beauty of a person's journey. It is about so much more.

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"How did you know you were trans and not a masc lesbian instead?" 

In this episode Devin talks about the process of allowing their true self, their boy, to come forward, through clothes, growing hair in new places, and building muscle. Rowan shares her experience of living a masculine presentation before realizing that it wasn't right for her and what happened when she abruptly changed.

They talk about the fear of losing people they love, like almost losing each other. 

What drives Devin to be Devin no matter what? 

Why Devin thought something was wrong with their face?

What terrified Rowan, sitting across from Devin one day?

The TRANSTRUE shirt that Rowan talks about in episode 4 is available now. Go to the Store and get yours today! It looks great and raises funds for LGBTQ+ advocacy and helps support this podcast.

Discount code for April only: RowanandDevin10

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In this episode we have part 2 of Rowan's conversation with Cathy. (Part 1 is Ep5) Cathy is a 47 yr old wife and mother of two teenage sons whose partner transitioned, MTF, after 20 yrs of marriage. We get into so much good stuff in this conversation. We talk about how love is love, chosen family, and laughing through the changes. Also-

Was Cathy angry at Brooke for coming out after 20 yrs of marriage?

How did they face challenges and create a new normal?

Did Cathy like the changes in her personal space?

What does Cathy say when people ask: how can this not affect your marriage?

The TRANSTRUE shirt that Rowan talks about in episode 4 is available now. Go to the Store and get yours today! It looks great and raises funds for LGBTQ+ advocacy and helps support this podcast.

Find Cathy on TikTok and the blog: Transitiontogether.ca

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Super excited for you to hear my first guest on the show, Cathy from TransitionTogether.ca. Cathy is a 47 yr old wife and mother whose long time partner transtioned, MTF. I sat down with Cathy for a heartfelt and vulnerable conversation about her partner transitioning. She shares her experience with Brooke, their two teenage sons, and a surprising turn of events at work. We talk about coming out to family and friends, needing time to sort things out and to be true to herself, labels and identity, and facing the challenges of uncertainty. This is part 1 of our conversation.

The TRANSTRUE shirt that Rowan talks about in episode 4 is available now. Go to the Bonfire Store, it looks great and raises funds for LGBTQ+ advocacy and helps support this podcast.

Discount code: RowanandDevin10

Find Cathy on TikTok and the blog: Transitiontogether.ca

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Rowan talks about changing her name and why it mattered to her. How she ended up at a hotel front desk with no name and no address and what it was like telling her father, who chose her first name, that she was choosing her own name at 53 yrs.

She talks about the Junos, Tegan and Sara, and unpexpected advocacy.

And she launches her idea for a shirt that celebrates being trans. Hear all about the idea in tis episode.

Transbeautiful - Translovable - Transpowerful - Transtrue

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Podcast produced and edited by Rowan Brunet and Rovin Media