1 John 4:7-12, 19-21 (NIV)
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
We love because he first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother or sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.
Explanation:
“We love (clap, clap) because He first loved us” was one of my favorite Vacation Bible School songs when I was a kid. The words were easy to remember, and anytime we got to clap in church was exciting. But even at a young age, I was taught this truth on a simple level: God loved us, so we should therefore love other people. Should be easy, right?! WRONG.
In these verses, John begins by putting into practice what he is preaching: he refers to his readers as “dear friends” or “beloved,” which relays that he loves the people to whom he is writing. He goes on to explain the relationship between God’s Love and our ability to love others. He shows us that we are only capable of love BECAUSE God loved us first. This is cause and effect; God’s love is our source! Without His love in our lives FIRST, we are unable to go forth and love others completely, the way He intended. Unbelievers can love to a certain degree, but not in the way God’s presence in a believer’s life enables Christ followers (those “born of God”) to love. God’s love is different from what we can do on our own, in that He continually gives of Himself to all of us, everywhere. And because He knows all things, He is always seeking our benefit. This doesn’t, however, mean God’s love is only for believers: God proved His love by sending His Son so that ALL of humanity can live! Jesus took our sin forever, and this is the evidence of God’s love!
John also tells us that because none of us has actually seen God, when we love each other, God abides in us and His love is perfected in us. Two biblical words…abide and perfected…to explain that when we love God with our whole heart, love for others has no choice but to spill out, which was God’s perfect design for our lives. Love in this way completes the picture of a true relationship with God.
If we choose not to love others in this way, we have experienced no change from the Gospel in our lives. This love calls for a response. What will yours be today?
Application:
1. As The Message version of the Bible puts it: “The command we have from God is blunt: Loving God includes loving people. You’ve got to love both.” Who are your brothers and sisters that you are having a hard time loving?
2. Even if we are unsure how to love in certain situations, the Holy Spirit, guided by love, will always be available to help us in our weakness (Romans 8:26). Ask Him for healing and help in knowing how to love when you don’t know where to begin.
3. Loving others must be our purposed focus. What steps can you take this week to make loving others a priority?
Devo Plus:
1. John 17:24 shows that eternal love existed between the Persons of the Trinity “before the foundation of the world.” What more proof do we need that love is His perfect plan for us!
2. Listen to “God is Love” by Chris Renzema to be reminded of all of the beautiful ways God loves us. Then listen to “Love is the Evidence” by Citizen Way for ways we can show that healing love to the rest of the world!
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for loving us more than our finite minds can fathom. The gift of Your Son demonstrated on the cross will always be enough to cover our failed attempts at loving others. Help us to be reminded that only in Your power do we have the ability to heal others with our own love. Fill us anew with desire and opportunities to show Your Love to this broken world; may our eyes always be open to those around us who need Your love first, then our own. Give strength and perseverance to our church as they lead people to Your truths, beginning with the command to love others as You have loved us. To You be all the glory. Amen.