1 Peter 3:8-9 (NRSV)
Finally, all of you, have unity of spirit, sympathy, love for one another, a tender heart, and a humble mind. Do not repay evil for evil or abuse for abuse; but, on the contrary, repay with a blessing. It is for this that you were called—that you might inherit a blessing.
Explanation:
In this passage, Peter is reminding Christians how to live in relationship with one another. Here is what it takes to become more like Jesus in our relationships:
1. Be Unified. I think in our current culture, this is a big one. Where so much disunity is happening around us, the church should look different. Yes, we may not agree on everything, but we all have one purpose and that is to tell others the good news of Jesus so they can be saved. Don’t cause disunity, but do all you can to remain unified.
2. Be sympathetic. Make it a point to care for and listen to others.
3. Love one another. This means unconditionally, just like Jesus does.
4. Be tender-hearted. Don’t be harsh toward others; instead, show grace and compassion. Reach into the lives of others and be there.
5. Be humble. This may be the hardest one. We want to be right and we want our way, but like all things Jesus does, we need to choose to be different. Be humble, and think of others before you think of yourself.
6. Don’t repay evil with evil, but rather bless the other person. When others wrong you, choose to forgive, to give grace, and to be kind anyway.
As I look at this list, I can summarize what Peter is telling us with two words…selflessness and service. Jesus modeled this so well for us. He came to serve, He came with the purpose to share the love of God with others. And we are called to do the same. This life is not about us; it’s about being like Jesus and doing all we can for His kingdom. Why? Because we know that when we do this, when we live like Jesus and treat others as He did, we will inherit a great reward, the reward of spending eternity with God.
Application
1. Which of the six actions listed above are hardest for you?
2. What do you need to do in order to improve and be more like Jesus in that area?
3. How would your relationships look different if you chose to do these actions listed above? (be humble, sympathetic, loving, tender-hearted, unified, and repaying evil with good)
Devo Plus:
I encourage you to pick one of the six actions listed above. Seek God, and ask Him for opportunities to practice. Be mindful of these opportunities and look for ways to put that action into practice. Then I encourage you to journal your experience. How did this affect and change your relationships?
Prayer:
Jesus, we are so thankful for Your example. We want to be more like You each and every day. Give us opportunities to put these actions into practice. Help us learn ways to be more unified, humble, tender-hearted, sympathetic, loving, and forgiving. We know this is the better way, and it will cause others to see You working in our lives. As You help us, remind us that we are living for eternity, and that will be our greatest reward. To You, we submit our lives. Amen.