The Trusted Parent - Parenting Teens and Neurodiverse Children

Hello there, Gorgeous,

Do you ever find yourself shouting, "How many times do I have to tell you…"

only to feel terrible afterwards? You're not the only one. I'm not a perfect parent either.

We all want to do better.

If you want to help break free from yelling, and have a desire for real, compassionate strategies to break the cycle of frustration,

We're here for you.

Chronic yelling doesn't just damage your relationship—it can actually impact your child's immune system, learning, sleep patterns, and long-term emotional health.

If you need a safe place to land after mucking things up with your kid, listen in.

Maybe you never experienced kind, gentle parenting being modeled as a kid. If that's the case for you, I feel it, that was hard! Luckily, those experiences don't mean you can't create the loving, understanding relationship you always wanted) with your own kids.

Listen now and take a small step towards a more peaceful home.

With Kindness and Love,

Allison Michelle

Licensed Occupational Therapist, (Conlon) Helping Parents of Teens & Neurodiverse Kids

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Hellooo!

It's bound to happen eventually, our sweet kiddo (that once said they would never want to love anyone else or move out)

not only gets a boyfriend…

but they pick someone to be their someone that

you …don't even like.

Ugh. I'm sorry.

Or worse, they are actually not so nice to our kid… If you are worried about your kid's choice of boyfriend or girlfriend. You are in a tough spot. I hear you.

If you would like some ideas on how to make the best of a yucky situation.

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Love and Kindness,

Allison Michelle

Hi, Love,

Sometimes giving our best doesn't seem like enough.

Sometimes, no matter how much we commit to being calm or how much we want to rise above the challenge of leading our kids with courage,

we still might not feel like we can give our kids what they deserve, the ways of being that our heart yearns to give them.

When we want to give more to our families and friends, but the reserves aren't there, sometimes it feels impossible, and even hopeless. 💔

Our kids are facing this stress too.

Your teenager might feel isolated or hopeless when they see their classmate post a bright pic on social media, with their "perfect" boyfriend, or their "perfect" cheer squad,

(even if in reality, those same people are hoping for likes to soothe their own feelings and struggles…).

Maybe your teens are worried about the recent US election outcome and have anxiety about the future of our world…

I see you. There is hope. Don't give up, Mamma, you are already doing amazingly.

You are sweet and lovable. Please choose to believe I mean you, {First_Name} when I tell you how fabulous you are.

You are not alone.

I recorded this podcast for you on behalf of one of our wonderful listeners. So thank you to them for sharing, and being willing to share your experience so that other moms can also gain from the conversation!!

Thank you all for reading and listening, and for being here.

I'm so grateful for you and glad you're here!!

With Kindness and Love,

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Hi!

Does your teen dread being asked what they want to to do after high school, or feel worried and hopeless about the future?

The world is changing so fast it's no wonder teens feel overwhelemed.

Maybe the traditional path doesn't feel right for your unique teen, or maybe they just want to feel like they have options.

I got to chat with Emma Perez about ways to make it in life without a traditional 4-year college career path.

Emma is a career and life design coach for teens, the author of What's the Point of School: Ed Transformation, A Matter of Life and Death, a book that explores the current goal of the American education system, how it came to be, and what effects it has on our children's wellbeing and future. She guides students through self-discovery, career exploration, and vision creation.

Listen in to our conversation to feel some relief.

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Love and Kindness,

Allison Michelle

Parenting Teens Support Specialist,

Serving Parents of AFAB, NB and Neurodiverse

Teens and Children,

Occupational Therapist Registered

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How can it be possible…?

Teens with parents who love them unconditionally,

Could still think their parents

are disappointed in them…

Judge them, or can't be trusted…

Yet, it happens.

Often.

So if your kid doesn't feel good about themself or can't understand how much you love them,

If the love for your kid isn't getting through,

It's Okay to give yourself a little empathy.

We highly recommend taking a soothing breath and saying something nice to yourself.

(and then listen to the latest episode release)

Because our ability to express love for our kids can get mixed up pretty easily.

For one thing, kids and teens sometimes with nonverbal learning differences tend to have trouble correctly identifying other's facial expressions and tone.

Add to that, how much we want them to be successful, and make choices that reflect our values,

Which can be a lot to live up to.

Most parents spend less time with older kids,

And if we are also stressed or overworked,

We get busy and stop paying attention to our tone…

Plus teens want to talk when we're ready for bed.

Or worse something our teen or ND kid does is super annoying or prickly

(that never happens?!)

and brings up some angry unhealed reaction…

(sigh.)

Not to mention teenagers are undergoing massive brain reconstruction as higher-level problem-solving and independence come online…

So,

if you and your teen feel distant,

we want to

Pour you a big cup of empathy

And extend the biggest cosmic hug…

Because we already know you love your kids no matter what.

And that is a beautiful gift to share with the world.

> Children who know they are loved and respected.

So thanks for that.

We're Glad You're Here.

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Want your kid to be the one who says "no" to unwanted pressure for sex? Or says "no," to working with a boss or friend who mistreats them?

Yep. Me too!

I want my kid to know who they are and love themself,

and not need permission from anyone to stand up for their boundaries…

And, I want them to feel free to become the powerful person they want to become,

even if it doesn't fit the mold of what I imagine for them.

Which means we have to do something that our culture pressures us not to do.

We have to respect our kids, and resist the urge to force them

to do things they don't want to or can't do,

…even things like chores and homework.

Which means they get to tell us "no."

It's inconvenient, I know.

We are just trying to get through the day,

and we want what's best for them, Right?

Our kids need practice at setting boundaries, especially with us. We are the people who are teaching them how to love.

Many teens struggle with making friends, navigating social relationships, anxious patterns, and social media overload.

Our ability to support our kid with personal relationships

depends on their openness to us and the safety

and connection we provide in the relationship.

I know that you love your kids and are committed to having a great relationship with them.

If you are struggling with your kid's resistance to everything you say, or with being able to accept their pronouns, this episode is for you.

We are glad you're here. With love!

P.S. I am giving away 5 Powerful Free One-on-One 20-minute Coaching Solution Sessions to help you solve your biggest struggles with Neurodiverse and AFAB(Assigned Female at Birth) teens.

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Does it feel like the harder you try to communicate with your kids, the less they pay attention?

Maybe you end up feeling exasperated or guilty about how much time your kiddo spends on TicToc or hiding in their room instead of going to school.

What if, instead of feeling angry or letting ourselves believe that nothing can work…

We stepped back, and gave ourselves some grace,

We made the choice to breathe for a minute,

and tried something new?

On my latest podcast with the lovely and brilliant Joanne Holbrook, she has just the thing to get your kids excited to listen to what you have to teach them.

Seriously.

Plus, she's super pleasant to listen to.

Joanne Holbrook is a mother of two and spouse to a United States Army Officer. She has lived and raised her family in South Africa, England, Germany, Australia, and across the United States. As a South African, combined with her world travels that come with a military lifestyle, including her 25 years teaching in performing art schools, has allowed Joanne to observe culture and parenting from multiple international perspectives and with a broader worldview. She is the author of the three-time award-winning book "Your Passport To Parenting" which has been translated into multiple languages, a professional keynote speaker, parenting coach, and entrepreneur who shares parenting stories to help build positive, values-based families worldwide. She is looking forward to sharing parenting positivity with you all today.

Tune in to learn a very important, but often forgotten tool that will help you get your teens listening again.

We are glad you're here!

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We know you love your

Messy, imperfect, neurodiverse, reactant, not-listening, fighting with their siblings, back-talking kids…

You love them through all the challenges because parenting is not about managing a set of behaviors to control our kids.

You already know that being a great parent is about finding the courage to show our kids how precious they are, and guiding them with kindness and respect.

To help expand on this, and show you that even when lots of people disagree with you, you are not alone!

I get to share the profound answer to my favorite parenting question from one of my favorite revolutionary leaders in the parenting space.

When we parent with radically unconditional love, we honor shared humanity within our families and communities and by doing so we create a world with more compassion and kindness.

No matter what society tries to convince us,

The truth is, parenting is not actually about great GPAs, SATs, good manners, or a neat-and-tidy chore chart.

It's about raising kids that understand their value…

We are glad you're here!

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Our kids are awesome.

After all, they inspire us to be the best versions of ourselves.

They challenge us to grow and become better people, to reparent our inner child selves, and give us a reason to be brave;

so they can grow into successful adults who are great at being and loving themselves.

They deserve families who love them dearly and make them feel safe.

We want them to know how good they are, even when they can't do what we want.

As a parenting coach, I love talking about this stuff, and being lucky enough to inspire others to be even better parents than they were yesterday.

Together, we are creating closer relationships with our kids than we ever thought possible with our amazing kids, a relationship that's gonna last for a lifetime.

This is the space I want to be in, helping people create more peace and happiness in our lives yet the reality is our kids and teens are growing up in a world where they know that there is global conflict happening.

My friend Shireen Quaizar agreed to come on the Best Mom Ever! Parenting Teens Podcast and talk about empathy how we cultivate that in the face of tremendous conflict and personal suffering and how we live empathy in our own lives as we guide our courageous kids.

Shireen is a New York State Certified School Psychologist who has worked with children and families for over ten years. She is a certified life coach and works closely with parents, especially mothers, to foster stronger relationships with their children. She conducts workshops and individual training to help regulate behaviors, foster a growth mindset, and empower people to engage in self-care.

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We're Glad You're Here!

With Love,

Allison Michelle

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Welcome Lovely Parent! Get my secrets to maintaining that deep level of trust and closeness with even angsty or reactive teens.

And trade chronic stress and mom guilt for getting more fun and enjoyment out of life.

I'm a mom who works with young people and is a trained Master's level occupational therapist (Developmental and Rehab Science). I've spent 100s of hours interviewing moms, coaches, and experts, and have been blessed enough to coach courageous, cycle-breaker moms on their journeys. Through all of this intentional learning, in addition to my personal life experiences, I've gathered the proven steps toward becoming the kind of person who can deeply connect with young people, and guide them successfully.

This is the 3rd (and arguably most challenging) piece of my proven parenting framework to get out of struggle and into trust happiness and confidence with your teen, even if they have already shut you out, without throwing pills at the problem.

Courageous Inner Calm is the most effective way to get a close trusting relationship with your teen that will last a lifetime!

And always remember, to LOVE YOURSELF!!

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