So many of us out there could stand to gain something from learning how to harness our need to please others. While it seems like a quality that could be beneficial for us or make us come across as helpful individuals, it’s also something that, when consistently placed over our own needs, is really detrimental to our wellbeing and could even stifle the growth of those around us in the long haul.  

In today’s episode, I share a few tips for how I manage this, as well as advice for setting clear and concise boundaries with not only the people in my life but myself too. I also share a couple of the experiences my clients have dealt with in relation to this topic, how we can take control of our own situation, and why I believe our spiritual selves should be listened to when it comes to finding our own truth. 

To learn more, tune in to Episode 6 of Let’s Get Truth! 

In This Episode You Will Learn:

• Where the need to please comes from & Why it can be so difficult to navigate (0:53)
• How we can hold ourselves accountable for our own forms of ‘people-pleasing’ and approach the situation with curiosity and truth (1:53)
• What the cycle of placating others reveals who our genuine friends are (2:46) 
• Why I believe in ‘stepping into our own authority’ & Embracing our spiritual selves (3:53)
• How our constant need to help others can stifle their growth and block them from going through their own process (4:52)
• What I’ve seen in parents who feel the need to constantly appease their children & Why it is counterintuitive to their own self-sufficiency (6:08)
• Ways we can start to overcome feelings of needing to please & Explain to others that we may be feeling used (7:06)
• How we can take control of the power others have over us & Nurture ourselves when it comes to setting boundaries (9:51)
• The difference between being nice and being kind (12:52)

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Today’s conversation is all about conflict resolution! This can be a topic that for so many feels intimidating and altogether uncomfortable to approach, but I’m here to break down why handling these issues that are a normal part of life, doesn’t have to be something we run away from.   

In this episode, I discuss some strategies I have used in the past to effectively resolve disagreements, why emotional maturity is such an important aspect to our mindset when dealing with these problems, and what it means to stand in your truth without feeling the need to justify yourself to those around you. 

To learn more, tune in to Episode 5 of Let’s Get Truth! 

In This Episode You Will Learn:

• What conflict actually is & What it means to clarify before we react to a situation (2:26)
• Why we tend to feel unheard and have our belief systems triggered during a dispute with another person (3:20)
• The multiple reasons that conflict arises in our lives (5:31)
• Why we need to develop emotional maturity in order to communicate effectively and resolve conflict (7:31)
• Why we shouldn’t allow others to project their fears and insecurities onto us (8:53)
• The choices we have when it comes to resolving conflict & The risks that are associated with those decisions (9:56)
• How I reflected on my own mindset during a recent disagreement I had (12:05)
• What it looks like to hold your power (13:19)
• Why running away from conflict is a disservice to our relationships & Why we need to set healthy boundaries (16:06)
• Solutions for effectively approaching conflict resolution (18:42)

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Having open conversations with those who we don’t always see eye to eye with is a skill we all must learn to master throughout our lives. Not only is this a vital step in communicating effectively, but it also enriches our hearts and allows us to see perspectives outside of our own without judgement.  

In today’s episode, I’ll be talking you through a few approaches I’ve used in these situations that have taught me to create a safe environment for all parties involved and taught me how to hold space for others in my life. This is something I truly believe leads us all towards a more graceful existence and a more open way of living.    

To hear more, tune in to Episode 4 of Let’s Get Truth! 

In This Episode You Will Learn:

• An introduction to today’s topic on conversing with someone you don’t agree with (0:53)
• Why we need to master the art of conversation & Be open to others’ viewpoints (1:42)
• The animosity that is so present at the moment & How that is keeping us from understanding each other (2:20) 
• What we can do to step into our power when having a conversation & Actively listen to understand why someone’s viewpoint is different (2:58)
• How I learned to utilise grace when approaching other people’s mindset & Why it’s important to hold space for those around us (4:37)
• How to respond to a different opinion with respect and understanding (6:28)
• The differences between men and women when it comes to sharing opinions (7:03)
• The effect that actively trying to understand someone can have on your life (8:09)

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Have you ever felt like there’s something more to the story of your life? 

We spend years saying we need to control our thoughts and the story of our lives, but I’ve found that this is nearly impossible. However, there are underlying truths just waiting for you to tap into. These truths don’t seem so obvious at first, yet when found, they allow us to step into our real power and purpose. 

In this episode, I’ll share a bit of my story and how I began uncovering major truths in my own life, learned to reprogram my limiting beliefs, and stepped into my true identity. With the messages I share with you, I hope that you remember who you are and that you will step into your true, eternal identity as well. 

So join me in this very first podcast of Let’s Get Truth. Let’s embark on this journey together!

In This Episode, You Will Learn: 

• Why your brain is the most eloquent artificial intelligence system ever created. (0:53)
• How my story of tapping into the truth within begins. (2:39)
• How acknowledging and accepting truth helped miraculously heal my body. (24:31)
• How battling for my life and control of my brain led to seeking and achieving freedom. (28:10)
• How the brain and soul respond to receiving truth. (34:15)
• What steps I take to refuse giving fear a platform in my life. (36:25)

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