Dr. Murray uncovers how and when the shift happens when men say they don’t feel “as much as a man as I used to,” and worry if their partner is thinking the same thing. Delving into the challenges of how men can be authentic in expressing their sexual desires when the chasm of expectations and standards keeps them hiding their true sexual health and concerns. Her favorite finding from the research was discovering how deeply men wanted to feel sexually desired, physically cared for, close to someone, and romantically wanted, despite being part of a culture that minimizes these sexual experiences, vulnerabilities, and intimate desires. Remembering that sex can be much more than penetration can open up that trust, emotional connection, and broader conversation to shift your sexual encounter into the experience you truly crave.2:00 Pivotal moments that sparked Dr. Murray research male sexual desire

About the guest: Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray is a Registered Marriage & Family Therapist. She obtained her PhD in Human Sexuality from the University of Guelph (GWELF). Sarah is a regularly sought after sex and relationship expert and has been featured in numerous media outlets including Slate, Men’s Health, HuffPo, and Cosmopolitan. She authors the popular Psychology Today blog: “Myths of Desire” and is also the author of the book “Not Always in the Mood: The new science of men, sex, & relationships.”Stay in touch and get in the know: https://drsusieg.com/stay-in-the-know-down-below https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/So, what’s next:  Questions you want to ask, options you want to sort through, or deciding on what you should do? Schedule time to chat with me: https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-specialist-15-minute-call Pelvic Pain Relief Program: learn about your body and concerns in the comfort and privacy of your own home. With video demonstrations of hands-on treatment techniques, lessons on the science behind why you hurt, and exercises that will help you navigate out of pelvic pain: https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-programThis information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.