The Truth with Trinity

As black women we need to be very careful in  regards to the family dynamic setup that we create for our children. We can't let emotions and lack of impulse control lead us into a destructive cycle- in continuously choosing the wrong mates that will leave us to be the caretakers of children who have different fathers. In this episode I go into detail on the consequences and the mental difficulties of dealing with such decisions

Women need breaks from children  and the option to move on with their lives as well. Even the best mother's need time out to themselves. Don't punish her by refusing to be apart of your children's lives as a means of holding her down from experiencing new opportunities.

Its often said that black women can be "masculine acting," This episode encourages black men to differentiate their own needs as a man from that of a woman.

With many fathers being out of  the home - it leaves many black women with no choice but to pick up the extra slack mentally, emotionally, and most certainly financially. Leaving children in a atmosphere to raise themselves - which can lead to disaster !

This message informs fathers on the consequences of abandoning their children, especially as a result of some form of punishment to the mother !

Although there are many aspects as to why the surge of black male homicide has increased in society; one  of them is paramount -as Black Men when you show the world that you have no respect in how you treat your women- the world see's no value in respecting you  or your life! 

Black women are the life force behind the black male population- when you show society that you think black women are worthless, then the same energy comes back to you .

It's time for black men to spend more time rebuilding their women, children, and communities, and furthermore themselves, therefor leading to a way of decreasing  always being the constant target !

The protection and guidance from a father is the foundation of many young women's relationships. This episode encourages more men to make sure  that the influences and people who are in their daughter's circle are positive ones.

 For the youth: the benefits of waiting to have children

While "some" women use men with the sole intent of accumulating wealth- they never get labeled a prostitute . But as a  black woman- just requiring  the bare necessities can land you in the category of a "gold digger." Are black women too materialistic or are the men they deal with too selfish, or just simply lack the resources?

Has the world convinced you that the "Southern Belle" deserves the House with the "WHITE picket fence," while the BLACK woman deserve nothing? 

~The Truth with Trinity~

The power is in our hands as parents, not the teachers. Arguing with a school system( or faculty) will get us no where !   As we all know  the system was NEVER designed with any purpose  or intent for our bright young pupil's to excel. The way we can fight back is by taking the time to make sure our children know the  fundamental materials needed before they even set foot into the classroom- To have pride in our children's education!

-All training should be done at home- 

               *aka HOME TRAINING*

             ~The Truth with Trinity~

We can move to any location, or even have our neighborhoods remodeled. But if we don't change  and clean up our mindset (intrinsic values ) then what would be newly constructed- would be quickly destroyed - as many of us are used to impoverished communities. We must have a positive mindset,  so that what is on the inner will manifest on the outer- to be able to maintain the "finer things in life"