Striving  for success( furthering your education, entrepreneurship, speaking correct English-especially while in business settings), and  encouraging others to make a decline- in behaviors that  have been known to cause harm to our communities, doesn't make you a, "sell out."

We have to stop using the  excuse that," we don't know any better." when the reality is- that some of us, " don't want to or refuse to want to know any better."  Let's stop criticizing our brothers and sisters for telling us things," that we don't want to hear or are afraid of knowing." 

 For it takes courage to change 

And nothing to stay the same.

As mothers( especially single) we are the number one protectors of our children . Placing value on their safety -over our fun and leisure time is a must.  No matter the cost

Being a strong black woman  has been a term that has been used for women of color that have had to endure hardships and survive. But has the term been misused?  Leaving us no room to be feminine , yet we too need protection, love and respect. 

Everyone makes mistakes, our black babies are so precious - but as black women we must also make better choices in the selection of men, and the standards we set forth to decrease our need for being pregnant by men that we will have no future with.  We must find inner value within ourselves- to promote marriage and families within our communities. And also be willing to abstain from sex if need be.

How can we send a message to the cops to stop police brutality- when we are killing our own brothers and sisters,

As we can see, burning buildings and violent protest have not worked.

Lets come up with a plan that heals our communities and promotes peace from within.

Until we learn how to unify, and respect one another- no one will take us seriously !

Lastly, we can't expect for anyone to love us more than we should love ourselves.

We should matter to one another.

~The Truth with Trinity~

Believe it or not the way we dress has a great impact on the way others treat us - especially men :)